Having a really hard time
Sept 15, 2016 13:02:34 GMT -5
Post by evenkeeled on Sept 15, 2016 13:02:34 GMT -5
I have another clogged duct and now mastitis. this is the third one in three weeks all in the same spot. I will get it cleared and have a day or two of okay and then it starts again. It is like I can't pump that duct. Because of this and just the added work that pumping causes on everyone we/I have decided to wean. I just can't keep doing this and the doctor doesn't have any ideas on how to stop it from happening. I am in so much pain even on 600mg of ibuprofen, I can't have anything touch it, it hurts so bad my skin feels like it is going to pop open. I have done everything to get it cleared to no avail. I am sitting with moist heat on it right now. I don't know why this is happening.
So I am on an antibotic and taking sudafed to start drying up. I have been crying since we made this decision. I don't tend to look at the negatives of things and try and look at the silver lining but the whole nursing experience, all the issues, to then having to end like this, just breaks my heart. I feel like it was my one real bonding connection to Emma that no one else could do. I like feeding her fresh breastmilk and while I have a freezer stash I didn't want to end because of something like this. I wanted to gradually wean when I choose to. I know that there are going to be some major positives, like my boobs won't be a major focal point of my life, I want be run by the pump, and can travel without fear and how I was going to pump. But I just can't stop crying. Between that and the amount of pain I am; major tears. I still don't know how we are going to handle nights with her, without fresh milk. Ugh that is another mess. I guess I won't miss pumping at 1am.
The doctor told me I could drop a pump a day though that sounds crazy fast for me especially with this clogged duct. She said it was fine. I may stretch it over two days. But I have to relieve this pressure, it is brutal. Just touching the underside of my boob takes my breath away.
My life has been ruled by the clock and the pump for 9 months. I am at a loss on what to do now.
More tears.
So I am on an antibotic and taking sudafed to start drying up. I have been crying since we made this decision. I don't tend to look at the negatives of things and try and look at the silver lining but the whole nursing experience, all the issues, to then having to end like this, just breaks my heart. I feel like it was my one real bonding connection to Emma that no one else could do. I like feeding her fresh breastmilk and while I have a freezer stash I didn't want to end because of something like this. I wanted to gradually wean when I choose to. I know that there are going to be some major positives, like my boobs won't be a major focal point of my life, I want be run by the pump, and can travel without fear and how I was going to pump. But I just can't stop crying. Between that and the amount of pain I am; major tears. I still don't know how we are going to handle nights with her, without fresh milk. Ugh that is another mess. I guess I won't miss pumping at 1am.
The doctor told me I could drop a pump a day though that sounds crazy fast for me especially with this clogged duct. She said it was fine. I may stretch it over two days. But I have to relieve this pressure, it is brutal. Just touching the underside of my boob takes my breath away.
My life has been ruled by the clock and the pump for 9 months. I am at a loss on what to do now.
More tears.