@betweenthelines that's awesome though! ! You can work on making it more comfortable but now you at least known it can work!!! How are you doing?
Aditi is sending me her beco Gemini which should make a back carry a lot easier and quicker.
Tonight, I'm a little better. Still feeling super anxious, but I'll survive. Thanks for asking. H doesn't even bother to ask me that anymore.
That's awesome of aditi!!! I don't think the husbands get it. It is so intense to be NEEDED by a small being that cannot understand you need to breath sometimes. I get it. Believe me I get it.
Aditi is sending me her beco Gemini which should make a back carry a lot easier and quicker.
Tonight, I'm a little better. Still feeling super anxious, but I'll survive. Thanks for asking. H doesn't even bother to ask me that anymore.
That's awesome of aditi!!! I don't think the husbands get it. It is so intense to be NEEDED by a small being that cannot understand you need to breath sometimes. I get it. Believe me I get it.
Thanks. I'd probably go straight off the deep end if it wasn't for this place.
This child is pinching the shit out of me while nursing and I'm already touched out from dealing with her today. OMG I want to scream! Can't wait to put this kid in the crib tonight.
shellyr, You are so brave to take on a 16 hour flight. I'm glad it went well and I hope you have a wonderful time in Australia. How long will you be there?
@janetheconquerer Thinking of you as I'm reading all this news about the hurricane. I hope you stay safe and don't have too much damage from the storm. The stores must be a mad house there.
@betweenthelines, I'm so glad you figured out the back carry and that is helped calm him so you could make dinner. I hope tomorrow is a better day.
I'm probably going to be up until all hours of the night tonight tagging items for this consignment sale. I have over 450 items to tag, much of it clothing. That's not even everything I have to sell, but I finally drew the line and left most of the toys for next time. The labels are printed but I have to get everything on hangers, match the tag and pin it. Oy. Off to work....
Post by abominationsnowman on Oct 5, 2016 23:35:30 GMT -5
I'm letting A cry it out. It's awful. I'm glad H has the night off because it's so hard to listen to him cry. But I just can't. He needs to learn how to sleep alone. Kids need to get out of my bed. All of them.
Post by abominationsnowman on Oct 5, 2016 23:36:38 GMT -5
packmomma, DS1 was a headbutter. I really, really pushed sign language, which helped his frustration a little. He had a speech delay, so I think he was just having communication frustration. However, his terrible twos were fucking awful. I hope DS3 won't be the same way...
abominationsnowman we've been working on signing more because W isn't that verbal either. He does get really frustrated and H and I discussed our boundaries and procedures tonight so we can be consistent. The headbanging is new (started this week) and I think he does it both for comfort ? And frustration. Hopefully, I can figure out what he wants and we can avoid his behavior going off the rails. He is a really good kid but he's definitely strong willed and I can see myself getting run over in the future if we don't figure it out.
I'm letting A cry it out. It's awful. I'm glad H has the night off because it's so hard to listen to him cry. But I just can't. He needs to learn how to sleep alone. Kids need to get out of my bed. All of them.
Sending huge hugs to you. Cio is hard. I hope you get your bed back soon.
I'm letting A cry it out. It's awful. I'm glad H has the night off because it's so hard to listen to him cry. But I just can't. He needs to learn how to sleep alone. Kids need to get out of my bed. All of them.
I hope it doesn't take long for A to figure out that sleeping alone is wonderful.
Even though that back carry was pretty uncomfortable for me, I feel a little better today since lastnight was the first night in 4 days that I didn't cry all night. I have been stressed the fuck out, and lastnight gave me the slightest glimmer of hope that I CAN FUCKING DO THIS.
Even though that back carry was pretty uncomfortable for me, I feel a little better today since lastnight was the first night in 4 days that I didn't cry all night. I have been stressed the fuck out, and lastnight gave me the slightest glimmer of hope that I CAN FUCKING DO THIS.
Of course you can fucking do this! You're a rock star!! Don't beat yourself up, you got this. It's hard when they only want you all.the.time. C is this way and sometimes I go bsc but I remember (try to remember) that they won't always need us like this. Hang in there!!
Then Comes Family, LLC is a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising
program designed to provide a means for sites to earn advertising fees by advertising and linking to Amazon.com.