Our miscarriage genetic results are back

[NariaDreaming]

I need someplace to process this.

We had a son. Our guts were right. We had a son and he had trisomy 16 and his death was inevitable.

And I thought I would feel better knowing this, but my heat is breaking knowing that our little guy never stood a chance. And I'm pissed at the universe for letting us hold onto false hope for 8 weeks

[mrsdee1982]

My heart breaks for you and I am so sorry.

[ampaints]

Hugs and love to you and Mr Dreaming.

[mischief]

I know nothing can make it better. Im so sorry NariaDreaming

[mischief]

[amma]

I am so sorry. Big, big hugs.

[Deleted]

I'm sorry Naria.

[elephantastic]

So sorry Naria. Sending love, hugs and wishing you peace.

[bearfootz]

I'm so sorry Naria.

[packmomma]

I'm so sorry to you both and I'm sorry these answers didn't bring you the peace you were looking for. Sending good thoughts your way.

[Deleted]

I'm so very sorry, Naria.

[honda13]

I'm sorry for the loss of your son. It's just not fair.

[lilorangekitty]

I am so sorry, Naria

[angelashly]

I am so sorry

[helenahhandbasket]

I'm so sorry. Cry, be angry, scream...do whatever you need to.

[CurlieWhirlie]

So, so sorry. I mean, it's good to have answers so you can figure a way forward, but it's totally understandable that nothing is going to make you feel "better" right now.

[alayne926]

I am so sorry for the loss of your son. Keeping you in my thoughts!

[Deleted]

I'm so, so sorry for the loss of your son. Sending positive thoughts.

[NariaDreaming]

The one thing it does give us peace about is moving forward with our donor embryos.

[peppapig]

I'm so sorry for your loss. Sometimes we think answers or more information might comfort us, when it can hurt us even more. It didn't make us feel better that our first loss was due to a defect that only affects .5% of pregnancies. It only angered us.

i wish you comfort and strength. Hugs to you and your husband.

[obi]

Im so sorry, Naria.

[lucilleaustero]

Much love to you and Mr. Dreaming.

[Deleted]

I am so sorry.

[cp3]

I'm so sorry Naria.

[animaldoctor]

I am so sorry.

[iaminigomontoya]

I'm so sorry. There are no words I can say to express how much I hate everything you've gone through. It's simply not fair and it just plaining fucking sucks.

Sending lots of love to you and your dh as you process and try to move forward from here.

[teraiin]

I am so sorry. Hugs and love to you and your H

[ghostmonkey]

((hugs)) I'm so sorry.

[babys2015]

Sending you guys light and love.

[allinthegame]

I'm so sorry. Sending you guys love and peace as you process this.