Can't just "get by" anymore
Jan 16, 2015 19:00:08 GMT -5
Post by venyia on Jan 16, 2015 19:00:08 GMT -5
Hello, everyone.
I was wondering if you folks could give me some insight and encouragement, as I feel overwhelmed and alone, and often scared about it.
I have been dealing with depression in varying intensities for more than half my life, including a long history of attempted medications and once a brief, failed, stint at therapy. I never found an antidepressant that alleviated symptoms without introducing other undesirable side effects. I just struggled through, finding the minimum places to survive life.
Now, at almost 30, with an almost 8 month old daughter, I am finding myself hitting that "stuck, can't even think past the next 5 minutes" place a lot, a lot, and with added financial and relationship stressors on top of caring for my child, I am starting to feel like I am losing it. My fear, and what I am hoping for others to share experience on, is that I am just a lost cause. Therapy and medication failed before, why should I expect them to help now? In my head, I do know I should not give up before I even start, but I can't seem to find the will to try. I just don't want to feel so sad and crazy in my own head anymore. My daughter deserves a mommy who can cope, and who can teach her how to do the same thing when she gets older.
How do you start? How do you break the fear barriers, the financial constraints? I have always just forced myself to meet the basic requirements... but it is not just me anymore. Help, please? Also, if this has been out of line in any way, I do apologize.
I was wondering if you folks could give me some insight and encouragement, as I feel overwhelmed and alone, and often scared about it.
I have been dealing with depression in varying intensities for more than half my life, including a long history of attempted medications and once a brief, failed, stint at therapy. I never found an antidepressant that alleviated symptoms without introducing other undesirable side effects. I just struggled through, finding the minimum places to survive life.
Now, at almost 30, with an almost 8 month old daughter, I am finding myself hitting that "stuck, can't even think past the next 5 minutes" place a lot, a lot, and with added financial and relationship stressors on top of caring for my child, I am starting to feel like I am losing it. My fear, and what I am hoping for others to share experience on, is that I am just a lost cause. Therapy and medication failed before, why should I expect them to help now? In my head, I do know I should not give up before I even start, but I can't seem to find the will to try. I just don't want to feel so sad and crazy in my own head anymore. My daughter deserves a mommy who can cope, and who can teach her how to do the same thing when she gets older.
How do you start? How do you break the fear barriers, the financial constraints? I have always just forced myself to meet the basic requirements... but it is not just me anymore. Help, please? Also, if this has been out of line in any way, I do apologize.