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Winnifred Gold Trophy Posts: 1,542 Love-Tits: 5,029	HDBD November 9 Nov 9, 2016 8:50:23 GMT -5 Post by Winnifred on Nov 9, 2016 8:50:23 GMT -5 I'm so depressed this morning over this insane nightmare of a situation. Have pity on me and show me your bump!
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HDBD November 9 Nov 9, 2016 9:53:26 GMT -5 via Tapatalk

Post by dream2be3 on Nov 9, 2016 9:53:26 GMT -5

I disliked both candidates equally so the results didn't really make much difference to me. Our country would be screwed either way, IMO. I'm just glad the election is over.

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Winnifred Gold Trophy Posts: 1,542 Love-Tits: 5,029	HDBD November 9 Nov 9, 2016 9:55:15 GMT -5 Post by Winnifred on Nov 9, 2016 9:55:15 GMT -5 @wineandcupcakes & jennykat, all I could think this morning is that I haven't been this heartbroken and terrified for our country since 9/11. I came to work this morning with multiple coworkers crying and some calling in sick. It's just absolutely horrific.
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Post by dancerspose on Nov 9, 2016 11:36:09 GMT -5

Nov 9, 2016 8:50:23 GMT -5 Winnifred said:

I'm so depressed this morning over this insane nightmare of a situation. Have pity on me and show me your bump!

I have all the feels this morning. This is so not the America I thought I would be welcoming my daughter into...

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HDBD November 9 Nov 9, 2016 12:11:57 GMT -5

Post by Winnifred on Nov 9, 2016 12:11:57 GMT -5

dancerspose, I'm with you 100%. I was so proud yesterday to vote for Hillary while carrying my baby girl, it just adds to the devastation.

jennykat, ((hugs)) lady. I can't even imagine being a teacher right now. Kids can say the meanest things, and it always seems the ones who need support the most are the ones getting kicked around. A coworker of mine told me this morning that her mom is a teacher, and told her that two little girls she doesn't even know came to her classroom this morning and asked her for a hug. It's awful.

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Winnifred Gold Trophy Posts: 1,542 Love-Tits: 5,029	HDBD November 9 Nov 9, 2016 12:14:03 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Post by Winnifred on Nov 9, 2016 12:14:03 GMT -5 On a brighter note, it looks like TCF is letting me upload photos again! Yay for not having a giant bump photo today... This is from Monday, so 35+1/FTM/pink Please excuse the mess and dog in the background.
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Post by sms2524 on Nov 9, 2016 14:04:53 GMT -5

Was definitely shocked with election results, not too sure what to expect for baby girl's future. On a happy note, here's my pic at 20 weeks, halfway there!!! Lucy (my pup) wanted to say hi too! Lol

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Winnifred Gold Trophy Posts: 1,542 Love-Tits: 5,029	HDBD November 9 Nov 9, 2016 16:03:24 GMT -5 Post by Winnifred on Nov 9, 2016 16:03:24 GMT -5 sms2524, your dog is gorgeous!! And congrats on being 1/2 way
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HDBD November 9 Nov 9, 2016 16:51:39 GMT -5

Post by lastnamewithheld on Nov 9, 2016 16:51:39 GMT -5

Nov 9, 2016 9:46:25 GMT -5 @wineandcupcakes said:

Nov 9, 2016 8:50:23 GMT -5 Winnifred said:

I'm so depressed this morning over this insane nightmare of a situation. Have pity on me and show me your bump!

Shock doesn't begin to cover it.

i've gotten through this entire pregnancy with zero nausea...until this morning. I need to talk to my son often and early about his privilege. I can't let him think this hate and bigotry is okay.

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Last Edit: Nov 9, 2016 16:54:40 GMT -5 by lastnamewithheld

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HDBD November 9 Nov 9, 2016 19:22:26 GMT -5 via Tapatalk

Post by dancerspose on Nov 9, 2016 19:22:26 GMT -5

We hadn't "publicly" announced our pregnancy on social media at all yet. I also try very hard to keep my politics off social media forums, especially this election. So to have my say this evening I shared our news with this post.

And of course included a pic of our furbaby.

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Me:33(PCOS, possible tubal factor) DH:38(SA normal)
TTC 11/13
11/14 Lap/Hysto
12/14-6/15 5 completed TI Cycles=BFFN
Mini-stim IVF August - 16R/16M/13F/5dt 8/28 = BFFN
FET #1 11/15 BFFN
FET #2 1/16 MFBFFN
FET #3 4/16 MFBFFN

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SURPRISE BFP 7/5/16
DD Z born 1/20/17 at 36w

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Post by fightersince83 on Nov 10, 2016 22:29:44 GMT -5

I was a mess Wednesday and still am to be honest. Especially hearing about some of the hate crimes that have taken place since Wednesday. I forgot to post my pic because I was too upset. I heard some old white lady say she told her daughter, who cried when Trump won, to "get over it" & just thought WOW, you really don't get it at all. The tears aren't because HRC lost, it's because Trump and all the hate, sexism & bigotry he stands for won. We have a president who was endorsed by the KKK. How is that okay?

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fightersince83 Gold Trophy Posts: 2,386 Love-Tits: 6,771	HDBD November 9 Nov 10, 2016 22:32:30 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Post by fightersince83 on Nov 10, 2016 22:32:30 GMT -5 Pic taken at 12 weeks 2 days, STM, TRIPLETS
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HDBD November 9 Nov 11, 2016 13:05:28 GMT -5

Post by Winnifred on Nov 11, 2016 13:05:28 GMT -5

fightersince83, still feeling the exact same way

Even the people on facebook who have stayed out of the political talk are posting about moving on, and I just can't. It's not ok. If you're able to 'move on,' then you don't get it and you never will, no matter how many people try to make you see why we're sick over this situation.

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Post by Winnifred on Nov 11, 2016 13:07:38 GMT -5

I'll also admit that I'm selfishly angry right now that the final month of my pregnancy is during all of this shit. I'm still sick to my stomach over it all, when I should be excitedly awaiting the birth of this baby we've worked so hard to have. All I can do is worry about the situation and her future.

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TTC 3.5 years, unexplained IF
IVF in Jan 2015
1/29: BFP, 2/20: MC, 3/11: D&C
9/2015: FET - c/p
3/2016: FET #2 - BFP! Baby girl born 12/20/2016

fightersince83 Gold Trophy Posts: 2,386 Love-Tits: 6,771	HDBD November 9 Nov 11, 2016 15:27:59 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Post by fightersince83 on Nov 11, 2016 15:27:59 GMT -5 I'm sorry Winnifred this is a total downer at what should be a very happy time. I worry about what DD's future will look like not just as a woman but as someone of mixed background. This is not the world I chose for my children
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Post by Winnifred on Nov 9, 2016 8:50:23 GMT -5

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