I have a vent too
Nov 14, 2016 15:03:28 GMT -5
Post by Deleted on Nov 14, 2016 15:03:28 GMT -5
Mine is a minor vent, but sometimes I hate the role of being educator on everything. Everyone asking me questions on my high risk pregnancy, everyone asking me questions about breastfeeding (no one at work had every BF), everyone asking questions on DS's heart surgery to the point I had to tell them to stop asking because they were debating with me on whether he needed it or not (you don't know his medical history nor are you a doctor). Explaining to my co-irker 5 times that DS's large tonsils caused his sleep apnea, and now it has been fixed. She keeps asking me if he is on a CPAP machine, no I have told you this 5 times already.
Then now the questions about the hearing aids have started. I know all in kindness, and just trying to understand them etc., and people don't know until they go through it.
And I know that what I think is common sense is likely probably not common sense, and not everything knows things, but dang sometimes I want someone to just get it or research it on their own. I have one friend that works in a residential adult community center- she gets it, and is a rare gem. I have a list of people that I need to reach out to, she is on the list as well as another friend whose child has hearing aids, so maybe I just need to do that.
Do you all sometimes feel this way?
Then now the questions about the hearing aids have started. I know all in kindness, and just trying to understand them etc., and people don't know until they go through it.
And I know that what I think is common sense is likely probably not common sense, and not everything knows things, but dang sometimes I want someone to just get it or research it on their own. I have one friend that works in a residential adult community center- she gets it, and is a rare gem. I have a list of people that I need to reach out to, she is on the list as well as another friend whose child has hearing aids, so maybe I just need to do that.
Do you all sometimes feel this way?