vday weekend plans?

[chilibeansm0m]

what are you ladies up to this weekend? Is it a 3day weekend for you? Any plans for vday??

[chilibeansm0m]

We will see what dh has planned. If anything. As long as he picks up dinner I'd be a happy girl. Since its sat and were obviously home this will make things interesting. I thimk the past 3 years he has come home with a heart shaped pizza, roses and a pie. Nothing wrong with that! I'm thinking that's not going to happen this year though because i can hear him saying you were home so i couldn't. Um you can. go. go. I'll even stay back with R!

I'm trying not to do anything this weekend. I think i overdid it last weekend when i hung dh's shelves, cleaned top to bottom, washed all baby clothes and changed all sheets. I hurt all work all week. It is a 3day weekend for me, dh had yesterday too so 4day weekend for him. I had some anxiety yesterday about coming home to a disaster, which is usually how the house looks after he's in charge but thankfully it wasnt that bad.

R and i are waiting for him to get up so we can give him our gift- a mug from shutterfly with a pic of him and R filled with chocolates that says papa bear's mug.

[esmerelda]

Well H is working 130 to 10 tonight, so I have Shakespeare in Love recording now and some wine in the fridge for later.

He took me out to dinner last night and gave me my gift. A 32" flat screen for our bedroom. We had a TV about as old as my in there before and had talked about changing it for a while now. But definitely wasnt expected.

[hikingmama222]

I'm still sick so no plans here. We said we wouldn't exchange gifts but DH came home with a small bouquet of flowers for me yesterday. I didn't fall asleep until 230 or so because I was so sick so he got up with DD this morning and they just left to run some errands. More Netflix for me.

It's a long weekend for us as well, I really hope I get over this thing soon. Hope everyone has a good weekend! Happy Valentines Day!

[ann86]

I really hope you start feeling better katrine05! No plans here, I don't ever expect anything. We aren't big on gift exchanging, maybe something little like a card and chocolates (that's what I got him). I'm going to try and make pink heart shaped pancakes...we'll see how that goes lol yesterday was DHs Friday and he's off till Wednesday! But it'll be spent sitting at home

[chilibeansm0m]

hikingmama222 hope you feel better!

[chilibeansm0m]

Just checked in on tb and looks like my request to be deleted on tuesday has been granted. It's like i never existed. Def sad about that but so happy to see you ladies here.

When my full name appeared on tuesday that was the final straw.

[TheEleventhHour]

DH gave me a new pair of UnderArmor pants. They are gray and neon orange striped. I love them! We normally don't exchange gifts so I was surprised (and didn't get him anything whoops).

We went out to lunch a popular local burger place we have been wanting to try because we are getting more snow tonight and didn't want to get stuck out in bad weather. I got a burger with PB&J, cheddar, and bacon. Sounds bizarre but is so amazing!

Now I am totally taking a nap while DS sleeps!!!

[luluandgirl]

(Background for anyone who doesn't know my situation: H and I have been separated for a year and will hopefully be divorced by April. I've been in contact with a guy "R" (who lives out of town) for the past 4 months but we're trying to wait to date until the divorce is final)

I was messaging with "R" yesterday and was telling him how I'm going to have a little bit of free time today because H wants to spend time with DS and I was thinking about getting a long overdue pedicure. Well, he sent me an email with the sweetest Valentine's Day message saying how I deserved to have a break and be pampered and with it was a $200 GC to the nicest spa in town - I was totally shocked, I definitely didn't expect anything let alone that.

As far as today I'm hoping to workout and run a couple errands while DS hangs out with H, then planning to cook a nice salmon and asparagus dinner followed by a glass of wine and a romantic comedy.

[jcar]

No plans here. I had a rough night and haven't been feeling too well today and now DH said he's not feeling well. We had planned to make a nice dinner at home but neither of us have an appetite so we're having an unvalentine's day.

[jcar]

Feb 14, 2015 12:27:04 GMT -5 chilibeansm0m said:

Just checked in on tb and looks like my request to be deleted on tuesday has been granted. It's like i never existed. Def sad about that but so happy to see you ladies here.

When my full name appeared on tuesday that was the final straw.

I requested deletion on Tuesday as well but I don't believe I've been deleted yet. It was the last straw for me as well.

[littleheaven]

we did absolutely nothing today and i think that's the plan for the whole weekend...had a romantic dinner of Mac n cheese and now we're watching some movie while soph watches her iPad and refuses to sleep....
however the high light of the day is we got her to nap so we were finally able to watch last weeks walking dead

[chilibeansm0m]

Dh eventually left the house WITH R and came back with roses, a heart shaped pizza and a triple layer pumpkin pie

R is being crazy. Between discovering to climb on the changing table she has also started climbing to get to the dining table. Nothing is safe.

jcar I'm sorry you're still feeling sick. If you don't get your account deleted by next Tuesday i would redo the steps. i emailed some big wig named Melissa per the sticky about deleting your account. Maybe try that as well. I wasn't messing around ha.

[esmerelda]

luluandgirl "R" sounds like a really nice guy to do that for you. I know you've mentioned some background with how things ended with him before but I'm happy you found your way back to each other.

[tarheelmom]

We had our Valentine's Friday -- reservations at a nice restaurant and our neighbors (whom DD adores) watching her for a couple hours. That way we weren't interrupting their Valentine's Day.

After dropping DD at Preschool Friday morning, I went and sat in line for a dozen Valentine's Krispy Kreme donuts at the store that just opened near us a week ago...there were TWO policemen directing traffic in their parking lot. They were crazy busy! I might have turned around and gotten breakfast at Chick-Fil-A before getting back in the drive-thru line.

I also bought cards from DD and me, a candy "bouquet" and a 12-pack of Sam Adams Seasonal beer for DH; a heart shaped helium balloon and valentine's Minnie Mouse for DD. DH came home with a dozen red roses, bottle of champagne, teddy bear (he gets me one every vday) and a box of Ferraro Roche chocolates for me, and a teddy bear and fruit gummies for DD.

We just chilled today...DH cooked us breakfast and I made slow cooker ribs for dinner. We hung out in the hot tub after DD went to bed, and watched a netflix movie.

[TheEleventhHour]

chilibeansm0m H climbs EVERYTHING! He has a crib with the changing table attached which I had to take off. Since he can't climb on that anymore he is constantly sneaking into the dining room to climb up there. He crawls across the backs of the couches and onto the coffee table and ottoman! The only way to 100% child proof now is to remove all the furniture from the house

[luluandgirl]

Feb 14, 2015 22:08:21 GMT -5 esmerelda said:

luluandgirl "R" sounds like a really nice guy to do that for you. I know you've mentioned some background with how things ended with him before but I'm happy you found your way back to each other.

Thanks I'll keep everyone posted on how this turns out

[b0710]

DH and I went to dinner at a fun pub style restaurant and we did a mini pub crawl together...we split a beer flight at 3 different breweries. We had a ton of fun, and realized it was way over due. We have a lot of in home dates, but going out, in public, just the two of us has special appeal. I normally think V day is overrated, but this was one of the best I've had