Post by oneslybookworm on Dec 15, 2016 11:00:57 GMT -5
Ok...so, this is going to be long, so bear with me.
We've been working with Agency A since February. We like Agency A, they're lovely, and we feel very comfortable. However, Agency A is small, so not a lot of placements a year. That said, we were considering working with a second agency to increase our odds.
We talked with Agency B...I like the director, and she's a close friend of a co-worker/good friend I have here at home. So, that helped me feel comfortable with them. However, I got some feedback from another friend of a friend that worked with (and eventually adopted through) Agency B from 2008-2012. She said they were disorganized, hard to work with, etc....and she wouldn't recommend them. However, the person they worked with is no longer at the agency, and it's under a new director, so things might have changed. We haven't signed with Agency B yet, saying we'd consider it and meet up again in the new year. Director was super supportive of that and wished us well, no big deal.
Fast forward to two days ago. I get email and text from Agency B director saying they have a baby born situation that is considered a risk placement because birth father is named on the birth certificate and they're not sure of his feelings on the adoption. Birth mother seems solid in her desire to make an adoption plan, but they haven't gathered all the information from her yet (that's coming). We were approached because none of their contracted families are open to this level of risk, so the agency was wondering if we were interested in being considered by the Birth Mother (basically, do we want our profile book shown). No money will exchange hands until after she signs consents and the placement occurs, but there's still the birth father to consider.
So...thoughts?? We said we'd be open to exploring, but it is completely understood that we can back out at any time we start feeling uncomfortable. Have any of you experienced anything like this?