Hi. We are still running an infirmary here at Casa de LizInFL. DS came and got in our bed around 5 and all three of us were coughing and sniffling...so gross. I think DS has something different from DH and I, it'll be a miracle if we don't all reinfect each other! I'm disinfecting all the things today. C is still healthy, knock on wood.
Meanwhile, DH just installed a new ceiling fan/light in our master. Turned the power back on, turned on the fan and a fuse blew. So he's trying to figure out what went wrong.
Post by sophiegrace on Jan 28, 2017 11:32:10 GMT -5
Ugh LizInFL I feel like you've had one thing after another since having C! You're super mom, because I'm not sure what I would do with two kids and a bad cold.
Post by goldenlove3 on Jan 28, 2017 11:35:33 GMT -5
At the hair salon waiting for my appointment right now! After that I'm going to visit a friend who hasn't met C yet. I thought maybe she was coming to my house but she asked who's house and I offered to go there. I kind of would have preferred she come to me but she has 3 littles so me going to her is just easier. Plus my house is not kid proof at all. Hopefully C stays in a good mood.
Also, I woke up this morning to H playing and singing the Beatles to C and he was cooing back the whole time. It was the sweetest thing in the world!
Post by goldenlove3 on Jan 28, 2017 11:37:25 GMT -5
LizInFL That same thing happened to H when he wired up the whole bathroom. Flipped the switch and nothing worked! Luckily he figured it out fast because our friend was on his way to start drywalling. Hopefully it's something easy with the fan.
I'm actually starting to feel the tiniest hint of scratchy throat and congestion coming on. Hopefully it won't progress further. It's extremely rare for me to get sick (*knock wood*) so we'll see.
This morning D and I went to my ILs' house to say hi to BIL who was visiting with his 17 month old daughter. She is so cute playing with D. The two of them and DS are going to be the cutest little trio of cousins growing up.
The rest of my day will consist of snuggling my ladybug and watching more movies, and working out at some point. I'm on Day 13 of 15 of my current plan and I feel so good. I'm actually looking forward to weighing myself on Monday!
J slept from 10-7 with one wake up at 3am. I honestly dont mind the wake ups, they are so quick and I like getting a cuddle in and making sure she is ok (she's been in her room/crib since 4 weeks old). I'm really wanting bedtime to be around 8:30 though, same time as her brother. Maybe in a year? Lol.
This is similar to most of our nights. I also wish she'd go down a bit earlier but at least when she's in bed at 9:30 or 10 it means I get a solid 5-6 hours of sleep myself if I get in bed shortly thereafter.
Ugh LizInFL I feel like you've had one thing after another since having C! You're super mom, because I'm not sure what I would do with two kids and a bad cold.
Haha, thanks. My parents being here makes it way easier, that's for sure!
What's weird is that we are typically a pretty healthy bunch. DS is rarely sick, even now that he's in the cesspool known as preschool. I've been ill more since C was born than probably in the last 5-10 years of my life combined. We've just had terrible luck this winter.
eta: dashook Start taking Emergen-C or your pre-cold drug of choice!! Whatever we have has been awful--seriously wouldn't wish it on anyone.
LizInFL That same thing happened to H when he wired up the whole bathroom. Flipped the switch and nothing worked! Luckily he figured it out fast because our friend was on his way to start drywalling. Hopefully it's something easy with the fan.
Electrical work makes me nervous so I didn't want him messing with it *too* much but thankfully it was a quick fix. And the new one is much more attractive/less visually offensive
I'd love to have a pretty light fixture or chandelier instead, but I'm just conditioned to needing a ceiling fan. Esp. here in the south, they're hard to do without.
In-Law Shenanigans day 2: Last 2 ILs arrived (we get along with them the most) and cooking for lunner (lunch/dinner) has commenced! Honestly, there's a reason brunch is a thing and lunner is not! SIL3 basically took over my kitchen and she cleans up after herself (she married in as well) so that's super nice! MIL & SIL1&2 tried to starve my baby! They were ignoring his hunger cues and SIL1 is a mom and tried telling me he's not fussing yet!?! Really? I'd rather not wait till he's fussy, thanks. FIL is napping on our other couch which is confusing considering they slept in past 8 and went to bed first at like 9pm! I played Nephew in Mario kart, he didn't realize how good DH and I are at video games (we're the only 2 adults who play it seems) because we kicked his butt! Ok I won 3 out of 4 but DH murdered him! Lol we're really competitive.
In non-IL news: weighed in today and am down 4.6lbs. (I don't say lost because I don't want to find them) I even had 1/2 a slice of pizza last night so AMAZING! I fit pre pregnancy jeans but they aren't as comfortable. Here's hoping they get comfortable! My mom said her body shape changed pp and even though she was lighter after pregnancy, she wore a larger size. Figures!
LizInFL, I think you're giving all your antibodies to the baby! I hope that how it works... fx! goldenlove3, 90's love songs that applied to crushes past seem to pop into my head! dashook, what program are you doing?
cheshie6 LOL at "down" vs. "lost" pounds. It's so true. Congrats! Also, my FIL loves to hang on my sofa, too. I mean, yes it's comfy, but you see your grandchildren a handful of times/year...how bout getting up so we can go do something?
Post by cookswithwine9 on Jan 28, 2017 15:51:15 GMT -5
My mom and I went shopping today with O. It was the first time I've taken him. I bought a bunch of new casual shirts. All the pre baby shirts seem skin tight and too short; therefore i kept reaching for maternity shirts. I needed some new tops bad! I don't think I could go shopping by myself yet, it was so nice having a 2nd pair of hands to help.
IL Shenanigans day 2: things have settled down, they are still aww-ing the coos, smiles, but no longer climbing all over each other to get to him! MIL has pulled the grandma card a few times with SILs!?! About killed FIL, he was giving boy dog iced tea! Idk what's in it? (Real sugar vs. xylitol) and they (mil & fil) are known to feed their dog bad/unhealthy things for dogs. I mean like grapes!?! SIL2 is snoring loudly on the couch and SIL1, DH, SIL3, BIL, and myself started playing penny poker! I've been wearing baby since last feeding, so I know he got his afternoon nap! Yesterday they kept him up! They brought gifts for baby!
What is proper etiquette for giving used clothes? SIL1 has a friend (whom I don't know) who has a boy 6 months old and I guess she's getting a box of clothes from her!?! I want to say no but she said it while we were opening gifts. I get she's trying to be helpful but I don't know this person, is she a smoker? Where did she get these clothes? How nice or dingy are they? Do I take them, smile and then toss them or try to tell her thanks but no thanks? WWN16D?
LizInFL, I feel like FIL has handled the baby a lot between yesterday and today! I also feel like he's not worried because he's the only grandpa. MIL and SIL1 seem to be competing with my mom and sister. Maybe not competing but going overboard because my mom's been here everyday, helping me when DH isn't home. I think MIL shared with SIL1 that L and I will be going to niece's dance recital in March, and going to Outer Banks in August with my mom, and sister's family. My mom's coming to Hawaii with us in September! (We offered ILs first but none of them can afford it) My mom (who never could afford vacations) is vacationing for 3 weeks straight lol!
cheshie6 Ooh, the used clothing thing...so tough. Why do people just assume, rather than asking if you're interested. I probably wouldn't say anything in hopes that she'll forget (wishful thinking?), but if she brings it up again, be like, "oh that's so nice but we have SO much stuff he hasn't even worn yet!" or whatever excuse you can think of. If it shows up on your doorstep, feel free to do with it as you will.
My SIL will randomly buy stuff for DS at consignment stores and bring or send it to me. Either they look kinda worn, or the sizes are way off/it's stuff that they're supposed to "grow into" (one time she bought DS a size 7 girl's fishing shirt...) so then I have to hold onto it for 3 years? I usually just graciously accept it and then toss it. I'm not opposed to consignment shopping, although I don't do it much, but she and I clearly have different standards about what's decent and what's not.
We're home! We ended up staying an extra day in the hospital. C was pretty sleepy after surgery and it took him a little longer to get back to a regular feeding/peeing schedule. We'll follow up with the urologist this week. I didn't realize how tired I was until we got home. I'm looking forward to sleeping in my own bed tonight.
LizInFL, right? But to keep peace I'm going to accept them and take them to good will. My understanding is the clothes got to her house just after she left to come here! I'm hoping she's a lot like MIL and takes forever to mail them. Her son is too old for these clothes!
buckyb welcome home! LizInFL lmao at a 7 year old girl's fishing shirt! What the fresh hell?? cheshie6 I'm doing the Mommy Trainer 15 Day Challenge. Linky: www.idealfit.com/blog/mommy-trainer/workouts.html I absolutely love it. I'm losing weight and getting toned without compromising nursing. I'm never hungry and the meals are delish.
@sarahwithanh, you are super woman! I hear your heart on the guilt, but to be the best mom Monty needs right now, you need some rest! He's not alone, DH is with him and I'm sure they'll call if something's up. This is just to rejuvenate you for your next go round! We're here to vent if you need, make you laugh, entertain, and even talk to! I don't know if this helps but I'm the little sister of a developmentally slow brother! My mom was in and out of hospital a lot his first two years, he had esophageal atresia, he had hearing issues diagnosed late due to the EA. Constantly had similar issues as Monty because of that but he is 37 years old, he works, can take care of himself for the most part and is the sweetest guy you'll meet! I'm telling you this because though it's dark now, there will be a light at the end of that tunnel. I promise the light is there.
@sarahwithanh this is the best thing for all of you right now. You will be refreshed, rational, and be able to provide better support tomorrow after some rest. Be easy on yourself lady. Hugs
Post by shedreamsincolor on Jan 29, 2017 12:31:22 GMT -5
@sarahwithanh - I hope you were able to get some good rest last night. Being in hospitals for days at a time is so exhausting. Kudos to you for taking a night. If you don't take care of yourself you can't care for others!!
My child does not want to sleep during the day. He is so tired but won't sleep solid. I'm lucky to get half hour stretches, and that's only if circumstamces are perfect. I feel guilty because it's really preventing me from playing with C. He is being so good about it, which somehow makes me feel worse.
I know what you mean and it sucks. DS has gotten a little better but still only sleeps solidly on me so DD doesn't get much quality time :/. This too shall pass.
In-Law Shenanigans Last Day: So last night, we did the family photo... SIL1 looked miserable, but everyone else looked good! L even looked at the camera several times! Lucky for me, L decided that he needed to cluster feed so I spent 2 hours in our bedroom with him. By the time I got a break, most everyone was in bed!
Everyone leaves today! I survived!!! SIL2 is going to try to leave early to visit other friends, MIL and FIL have to pick up their pup from the kennel by a certain time so they may leave early. I'm not sure the plans for SIL1, and BIL & SIL3 but I can't imagine they'll stay too long with such a long drive! I'm nursing L in my room, hoping they just leave without L and I going downstairs. Or maybe they'll go faster!?! Choices... SIL1 had a cough last night, so I hope she's self aware enough to not try to kiss me or baby goodbye.
I think after this weekend, I deserve a mani/pedi!!
Post by sophiegrace on Jan 29, 2017 15:04:46 GMT -5
Congrats on a great weigh in cheshie6!! I hope all your work continues to pay off. As for the clothes, I received enough girl clothing to dress triplets for the next year. Problem is js that it's either not my style, wrong size for season, or she already has enough of a certain thing from what H and I bought her. At first I was annoyed, but then I realized how happy they were to be able to give my daughter a gift and I became appreciative to have welcomed her into so much love. She won't be wearing the clothes, but I can now donate a whole bunch of stuff to organizations who need them. We have a woman's shelter in town that I plan on taking them to.
dashook I really like that website! I would like to work out with that woman in real life.
So glad you're home buckyb! Hope that bed felt like heaven last night.
Post by sophiegrace on Jan 29, 2017 15:13:13 GMT -5
@sarahwithanh I hope you were able to refresh yourself a bit last night. I know it's easy for me to sit here and cheer you on, tell you how amazing of a mom you are, and how much we're all rooting for Monty, but please know day after day your family is truly in my thoughts. My chest tightens, my stomach drops, and my face gets hot when I think of what you go through every single day. I can't imagine. You are so strong. Yes, I know it's because you have to be and you would much rather just fall apart some days, but you don't. You fight every single day for the best for your little guy. Some days the best for him is for you to get some rest. All the love lady. You're a warrior.
tgrimes1980 I think works starts for you tomorrow, thinking of you..
Yes. I'm still freaking out.
Trying to stay positive though.
I'm so sorry. You've got this. Can you do one little thing for me? Have some coffee and drink it while it's still warm?
My H asked me what I'll do first if M starts taking a bottle and that was my answer. Should have chosen massage or something on that level. Nope. Hot coffee.
GL tomorrow tgrimes1980 ! I'm still in denial that I start Wednesday. I think in my head I'm just not showing up - like I'm so in denial.
@sarahwithanh We know you are so busy and stressed with M. I think I speak for many of us when I say we love to hear your updates even if you don't have the chance to respond.
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