FFFC 2/3

[lgsdesigner]

Let's do this!

[bethypoo83]

I am glad my DH is gone for the weekend. I need a break from him.

[hotcoconuts82]

I love ds dearly, honestly can't imagine life without him. but sometimes I think about how easy it would be if we just had the 6&7 year olds and no toddler.

[lgsdesigner]

Feb 3, 2017 10:34:38 GMT -5 hotcoconuts82 said:

I love ds dearly, honestly can't imagine life without him. but sometimes I think about how easy it would be if we just had the 6&7 year olds and no toddler.

Your guilt is the same as mine.

[lgsdesigner]

I imagine how much cleaner my home would be without DH. I clean up more after him than the kids!

[smilesp]

Feb 3, 2017 11:45:34 GMT -5 bwisco123 said:

H asked me today if I'm happy.
I know he says he isn't for a variety of reasons that don't only include me but it still sucks.

I wish he would just make a choice. Work at it or not. I'm sick of feeling the uncertainty of everything.

I'm afraid if I push for an answer, I will get a rash decision from him instead of a thoughtful one.

What did you say when he asked you?

[lgsdesigner]

Feb 3, 2017 11:45:34 GMT -5 bwisco123 said:

H asked me today if I'm happy.
I know he says he isn't for a variety of reasons that don't only include me but it still sucks.

I wish he would just make a choice. Work at it or not. I'm sick of feeling the uncertainty of everything.

I'm afraid if I push for an answer, I will get a rash decision from him instead of a thoughtful one.

This is the best advice I can give you as someone who got divorced and remarried:

Go with your gut instinct. Not your heart.
Ask yourself these questions:

1) Do I feel sadness or relief thinking about being single again?

2) Do I truly think this marriage can be saved?

3) Am I only staying with him because of the kids, or because I choose to?

4) Can both our lives eventually be better apart rather than married?

I'm sorry you're going through this, but know either decision you make, happiness awaits if you go with gut instincts.

[marygracerich]

I am doing a diet (slim fast)that isn't particularly good for me so I can drop a few pounds before my cruise. I know I will gain it all back on the trip. It's only for another week and never again.

[Renarene]

I'm sorry you are going through this bwisco123