Can I vent here?

[chickypoo2468]

I'm just so fed up with every single person. Parents should be given more power with all the legwork and phone calls and time and everything that is expected from us. It shouldn't take a zillion medical opinions and appointments and therapists and then finally tests to be told what you have been saying all along. If someone does something without your authorization you should be able to undo it without contacting that person to undo it for you. If you want something to happen the people who you are paying for services should do what they can to make it happen. People shouldn't lie when it comes to the care and development of a child and use you for their own personal gain while your child suffers because of it. If a mom has a concern it shouldn't be shrugged off. I can't make my own referrals. So make them for me. If a kid is behind how far behind do they need to be before treatment becomes more aggressive? And insurance codes. WTAF. What sense does it make to say my kid can't have something because of a few letters and numbers? Come to my house and look at him and then tell me he doesn't qualify. And then stay here with me and take the place of the services you denied.
I just don't want to deal with people anymore. And I realize that I've barely started.

[Deleted]

Ditto. Hugs. It feels like a battle sometimes, and you are in the thick of it.

[luvboston]

We aren't parents we are warriors, playing on an insane battlefield no one understands BC it's unbelievable.

Hugs

[mrsbuttinski]

I'm so sorry.

I hope you are able to find an easier path.

[zaraceligon]

I'm sorry the happened to you. Dealing with people and insurance are a nightmare for my tio. But so far I have learned the I don't need to care for this people and I have learned to push this people to do things for me. Especially insurance and the person who those revaluation. I hate explaining my self over and over to this people. But what I usually do is just to say thank you and contacted my insurance so the insurance can deal with the vendors. And for my kid they denied the service for him, but I don't care if I get help for him what I care is how much I can do for him to have all the therapy the and service he need. If people denied I will find another way to help him the main thing is to never give up.

[chickypoo2468]

Oh hey. Remember that time we were trying to get approved for medical equipment and the lady doing the paperwork kept saying it was sumbitted but never did it and each time she blamed it on the company and said that they intercepted her fax and sabatoged her and said how horrible they were and that they hated children and then she went to work for a different company and stole our child's information and brought it with her and filed it all on her own after I told her not to because someone at the original company was finally getting it done, and then it turned out the original company didn't work with our secondary ins like she said they did but it was already months in and we didn't want to start over so we said F it I'll just pay for the stuff and then we found out that our out of pocket max had increased by 50%, which sucked extra hard because last year we had met our out of pocket and the equipment would have all been free if it had been done when it was supposed to be done.
I just hope karma is real.

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Feb 7, 2017 15:35:05 GMT -5 chickypoo2468 said:

Oh hey. Remember that time we were trying to get approved for medical equipment and the lady doing the paperwork kept saying it was sumbitted but never did it and each time she blamed it on the company and said that they intercepted her fax and sabatoged her and said how horrible they were and that they hated children and then she went to work for a different company and stole our child's information and brought it with her and filed it all on her own after I told her not to because someone at the original company was finally getting it done, and then it turned out the original company didn't work with our secondary ins like she said they did but it was already months in and we didn't want to start over so we said F it I'll just pay for the stuff and then we found out that our out of pocket max had increased by 50%, which sucked extra hard because last year we had met our out of pocket and the equipment would have all been free if it had been done when it was supposed to be done.
I just hope karma is real.

Ok time to give us their address, and we will show up!  Grrr

[URMySunshine77]

Nonprofessionalism is one of my pet peeves, especially in such a crucial industry.

I do believe in karma