onesweetworld - Scary! Glad you feel better now! I get panic attacks and they are frightening.
If you have a good staff and/or doc who are willing to hear out your story, call tomorrow and see what they think. Doesn't hurt to get their opinion.
Yeah I think I might call just to bounce it off them. I mean it could be a million different things. I do have an appointment on Monday so maybe they can just move it up lol.
Post by onesweetworld on Feb 21, 2017 23:18:36 GMT -5
ugaqueencity thanks love! Glad you are okay. My BP was lower than usual last week at my appointment but I am known to be on the high end due to family history. I think I'll prime a better blood pressure cuff just to make myself feel better.
I'd give them a call, but expect them to just tell you to take it easy and drink water. There might be something they know that we don't, but either way, it's good to have on record, just in case it's going to be a thing now.
@osw that sounds so scary. I would definitely call in the morning just to let your OB know and speak to the nurse. I am sorry your H wasn't helpful in all that.
Yeah I'm really angry with him and I think that made it worse. I feel like I can't rely on him now. I understand that he is sick but he didn't understand what I was trying to explain to him. I tried to communicate what I needed exactly (him to help me calm down) and he kept telling me he is sick and was sleeping. He's a complete asshole if he gets woken up.
I'd give them a call, but expect them to just tell you to take it easy and drink water. There might be something they know that we don't, but either way, it's good to have on record, just in case it's going to be a thing now.
Now that I'm feeling much better, I don't think I'll call until the AM and just continue hydrating and relaxing. If I wasn't off of work for the last 3 days, I'd consider taking tomorrow off to stay in bed and relax.
I'd give them a call, but expect them to just tell you to take it easy and drink water. There might be something they know that we don't, but either way, it's good to have on record, just in case it's going to be a thing now.
Now that I'm feeling much better, I don't think I'll call until the AM and just continue hydrating and relaxing. If I wasn't off of work for the last 3 days, I'd consider taking tomorrow off to stay in bed and relax.
Ah, I meant in the morning, not literally right now. :)
Post by wannabmama on Feb 21, 2017 23:27:07 GMT -5
onesweetworld I would definitely call your doc in the am. Worst case, they say it's no big deal. But I'd want them to be aware and they may want to see you sooner. I'm not usually a call the doc for everything person...but this is a time in life when better safe than sorry could not be more true IMO! Also...to YH...come on, dude, really?!?
TTC since July 2014. CP March 2015. IVF #1 March 2016, 5R, 3M, 2F with ICSI. Transferred 2 on day 3. CP. Surprise BFP and then CP August 2016 (prep cycle for IVF). IVF #2: zero eggs retrieved IVF #3: 6R, 5M, 5F, 3 (2 8A and 1 11A) transferred, one "B" graded embryo frozen on day 5. BFP (at home 7dp3dt, confirmed 14dp3dt with 1552 beta) and U/S at 5w5d, 2 sacs and 2 yolks!
Now that I'm feeling much better, I don't think I'll call until the AM and just continue hydrating and relaxing. If I wasn't off of work for the last 3 days, I'd consider taking tomorrow off to stay in bed and relax.
Ah, I meant in the morning, not literally right now.
onesweetworld I would definitely call your doc in the am. Worst case, they say it's no big deal. But I'd want them to be aware and they may want to see you sooner. I'm not usually a call the doc for everything person...but this is a time in life when better safe than sorry could not be more true IMO! Also...to YH...come on, dude, really?!?
Yeah I'm never a call the doctor person so that's why I messaged hpnegirl because I needed her to push me if it was super necessary to call or to go to the hospital. I know that I needed time and that I needed to calm down before doing anything.
I'm really going to flip out tomorrow on H. He doesn't need to live here if he isn't going to help me. My mom can move in with (me and) my dogs and solve all of my problems.
onesweetworld I would definitely call your doc in the am. Worst case, they say it's no big deal. But I'd want them to be aware and they may want to see you sooner. I'm not usually a call the doc for everything person...but this is a time in life when better safe than sorry could not be more true IMO! Also...to YH...come on, dude, really?!?
Yeah I'm never a call the doctor person so that's why I messaged hpnegirl because I needed her to push me if it was super necessary to call or to go to the hospital. I know that I needed time and that I needed to calm down before doing anything.
I'm really going to flip out tomorrow on H. He doesn't need to live here if he isn't going to help me. My mom can move in with (me and) my dogs and solve all of my problems.
I'm glad you're feeling better and I know that panic feeling and how hard it can be to just "come down" so I'm happy you were able to calm down and talk to someone.
I do wish you could talk to YH and get that help though 😡
TTC since July 2014. CP March 2015. IVF #1 March 2016, 5R, 3M, 2F with ICSI. Transferred 2 on day 3. CP. Surprise BFP and then CP August 2016 (prep cycle for IVF). IVF #2: zero eggs retrieved IVF #3: 6R, 5M, 5F, 3 (2 8A and 1 11A) transferred, one "B" graded embryo frozen on day 5. BFP (at home 7dp3dt, confirmed 14dp3dt with 1552 beta) and U/S at 5w5d, 2 sacs and 2 yolks!
Post by wannabmama on Feb 21, 2017 23:41:40 GMT -5
Omg my dog is dreaming and growling and kicking and making these little yip noises, I so wish I could ask him what he's dreaming about. He's kicking his legs so much he's shaking the bed.
TTC since July 2014. CP March 2015. IVF #1 March 2016, 5R, 3M, 2F with ICSI. Transferred 2 on day 3. CP. Surprise BFP and then CP August 2016 (prep cycle for IVF). IVF #2: zero eggs retrieved IVF #3: 6R, 5M, 5F, 3 (2 8A and 1 11A) transferred, one "B" graded embryo frozen on day 5. BFP (at home 7dp3dt, confirmed 14dp3dt with 1552 beta) and U/S at 5w5d, 2 sacs and 2 yolks!
Yeah I'm never a call the doctor person so that's why I messaged hpnegirl because I needed her to push me if it was super necessary to call or to go to the hospital. I know that I needed time and that I needed to calm down before doing anything.
I'm really going to flip out tomorrow on H. He doesn't need to live here if he isn't going to help me. My mom can move in with (me and) my dogs and solve all of my problems.
I'm glad you're feeling better and I know that panic feeling and how hard it can be to just "come down" so I'm happy you were able to calm down and talk to someone.
I do wish you could talk to YH and get that help though 😡
Omg my dog is dreaming and growling and kicking and making these little yip noises, I so wish I could ask him what he's dreaming about. He's kicking his legs so much he's shaking the bed.
Lol thank goodness Trigger rarely dreams.... my mastiff on the other hand, I will not sleep in bed with her when pregnant because I'll get stomped on like a horse.
Post by LadyNymeria on Feb 22, 2017 7:23:23 GMT -5
onesweetworld - I'm sorry you went through all that and that YH was no help. How are you doing this morning?
I agree that giving the Dr office a call this morning just to let them know what happened is a good idea. The one time my BP was higher than normal at a prenatal appt was when I know I was dehydrated. Water and rest was definitely the right move and I hope you're feeling ok this morning!
Post by ladytiffany24 on Feb 22, 2017 8:03:04 GMT -5
I am so sorry you were dealing with all of that onesweetworld! Now that I know you're feeling better though, I have to say, I'm pissed at your husband. WTF?! I don't care if you're sick. You're wife is pregnant and growing another human and her blood pressure is through the roof and she's scared. Step the fuck up!
So, what would you guys do if you're me- my headache is back and the floaters on my vision are more constant and noticeable and are worse than they had been. My MW okayed periodic Advil but said to not take it daily. I took 400mg yesterday, twice, with 5-6 hours in between doses. It took the edge off but didn't eliminate it. Normally, my head doesn't start to hurt for a couple of hours after waking but it was within an hour this morning. Would you call when they open at 9a, take Advil again, or wait a few hours and re-evaluate?
So, what would you guys do if you're me- my headache is back and the floaters on my vision are more constant and noticeable and are worse than they had been. My MW okayed periodic Advil but said to not take it daily. I took 400mg yesterday, twice, with 5-6 hours in between doses. It took the edge off but didn't eliminate it. Normally, my head doesn't start to hurt for a couple of hours after waking but it was within an hour this morning. Would you call when they open at 9a, take Advil again, or wait a few hours and re-evaluate?
I would take a dose of Advil and wait an hour to see if it helps at all. Then you'll have more info to give when you call. H tells his patients to take the meds first and wait for a little, that way he knows what is or isn't working and can gonfrom there.
My mom took our initial visitation guidelines worse than expected. I told her and my sisters via Skype we want the first week alone because it's all H gets off work and we want to figure it all out together. I will need their help after that. Everyone was fine with that until they realized it meant we don't want them in the waiting room when I deliver. They all live out of state and have to fly in; logically it makes no sense to take an expensive last-minute flight and then leave immediately because we are serious about wanting the first week alone. Plus I do not want them in the waiting room. I don't need extra stress. I stress myself out just fine. When I said that, my mom got all teary and said she feels hurt and it's *her* first grandchild and she just "needs time to process" and hung up on us.
Her M.O. is to make everything about her so I'm not sure why I'm surprised but I was still taken aback.
Ugh I'm sorry. Good for you for standing strong. She'll get over it.
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