PGAL/PAIF Check-In (March)

[caer]

It's March! I figured we could do an informal check-in this month since we're almost there and some have already had their LOs. Please feel free to use this space in any way you need it. Lots of love to you all, friends.

[caer]

I also wanted to say that all of our March loss moms are in my thoughts. I don't want to tag but your angels are not forgotten and I'm hoping that each and every one of you is holding your rainbow soon. 💞

[mosdub]

Mar 1, 2017 11:00:37 GMT -5 caer said:

I also wanted to say that all of our March loss moms are in my thoughts. I don't want to tag but your angels are not forgotten and I'm hoping that each and every one of you is holding your rainbow soon. 💞

This.  

I stayed away from my old BMB (August 15) but did end up lurking around the EDD and it was really difficult.  I was a mix of happy for all of the women I got to know while I was there and so sad for myself.  

If you're lurking, we love you and remember your precious angels. 

[madameovary]

Mar 1, 2017 18:48:01 GMT -5 mosdub said:

Mar 1, 2017 11:00:37 GMT -5 caer said:

I also wanted to say that all of our March loss moms are in my thoughts. I don't want to tag but your angels are not forgotten and I'm hoping that each and every one of you is holding your rainbow soon. 💞

This.  

I stayed away from my old BMB (August 15) but did end up lurking around the EDD and it was really difficult.  I was a mix of happy for all of the women I got to know while I was there and so sad for myself.  

If you're lurking, we love you and remember your precious angels. 

I second this.

[mosdub]

Just had a nice check-up, and the doctor said "wasn't it around this time 2 years ago?" and I said "Yeah, we were just reflecting on that." Almost 2 years ago I had my D&C for the partial molar pregnancy. He said he remembered it was around St. Patrick's day. It was kind of nice he remembered.

When we got in the car to leave I saw a woman crying in the parking lot hugging her Mom (guessing) and husband (guessing again) and I felt so sad. I totally read into the situation, but I'm wondering if she just got bad news like I did 2 years ago. I wanted to run out and hug her, and tell her it's not fair, and that I'm so sorry - but of course I didn't.

Just some PGAL thoughts. Hope you're all doing well, and hope our loss mamas are doing okay this month too

[madameovary]

Big hugs mosdub. My rainbow came exactly one week before the anniversary of my d&c, almost down to the hour.


Hang in there, ladies!!!!

[caer]

(((mosdub))) March is the month of my loss as well. It definitely added a bittersweet element to the excitement and anticipation of waiting for our rainbow.