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This is a thread posted daily for any of us who need to get out our frustrations about waiting to O, the 2WW, or vent about our cycles.
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Post by negritosmami on Jan 17, 2015 20:32:06 GMT -5
Thanks for posting grneyes Im the only one on the crazy train this weekend???well I guess that is good cause it sucks bein bsc lol
Crazy level from 1-10:9.5
CD/DPO:26/11
Can I just ______ already?!:get a bfp or af
Signs/Symptoms:nothing really other than supppper sore boobs (but my understanding is that they wouldn't be hurting from pregnancy this early sooo yea guess thats pms). Got a negative at 10dpo so now ill just let my temp tell me if/when I should test
Explain your Crazy here:I wanna drink but im scared to..so I wanna know..but I don't want another bfn soo no drinks for me ?
Post by elliecat17 on Jan 17, 2015 20:38:59 GMT -5
actually negritosmami mine actually hurt super early. But i'm not saying that you are pregnant. Because my boobs also hurt when I ovulate and with pms sooooo.... lucky me! FX that you get one or the other soon and know so that you aren't in limbo.
Thanks for posting grneyes Im the only one on the crazy train this weekend???well I guess that is good cause it sucks bein bsc lol
Crazy level from 1-10:9.5
CD/DPO:26/11
Can I just ______ already?!:get a bfp or af
Signs/Symptoms:nothing really other than supppper sore boobs (but my understanding is that they wouldn't be hurting from pregnancy this early sooo yea guess thats pms). Got a negative at 10dpo so now ill just let my temp tell me if/when I should test
Explain your Crazy here:I wanna drink but im scared to..so I wanna know..but I don't want another bfn soo no drinks for me ?
Post by negritosmami on Jan 17, 2015 20:49:39 GMT -5
elliecat17 no I get what ur saying..thanks for sharing cause I read on some random website that your boobs can start hurting as early as two weeks AFTER implantation and I was like oh..well I kno its nowhere near two weeks after any possible implantation so I just assumed pms..I really need to stop googlin shit lool thanks for the feedback?
Post by negritosmami on Jan 17, 2015 20:52:08 GMT -5
Thanks therealbug yea I chart stalked and noticed a good portion of temps seemed to drop on day 12 so I figured I save myself a dollar and wait to see what happens tomorrow...although ive also seems some temps be total bitches and drop on day 14..just EVIL lol
negritosmami You should add your testing to your chart so we can stalk you more It's under 'sharing' then 'chart homepage', 'setup' on then you check 'publish pregnancy test results'. How long is your LP normally? I would test tomorrow as well if your temp is up, FX!
Post by negritosmami on Jan 17, 2015 22:02:31 GMT -5
Lool grneyes..ok ill go try to set that up..this was my first cycle temping but my cycles have always been 28 or 29days..so if I had to guess based on this months o id guess its about 13-14 days...but thats a guess for sure!!so yea I'll go ahead and test tomorrow if my temp doesn't drop..*sigh* fx for at least a offwhite BFN..I cant stand a stark white test man..
Signs/Symptoms: none, I had the tiniest amount of spotting the other day, I would have missed it if I wasn't overanalyzing.
Explain your Crazy here: I'm just over it this is an off cycle. I'm done HIO and OPKs, if I O and happen to hio at the right time great. If not I'm gonna skip temping next month and maybe just stop trying.
TTC #1 starting July 2013, RE last 2014 First Angel baby lost July 11, 2014 IUI #1 with injections successful: EDD 11/24/15 Rainbow baby DD born 11/14/15 TTC#2 October 2016 Second Angel baby lost Jan 5, 2017
Post by negritosmami on Jan 18, 2015 10:45:08 GMT -5
ldubhawksfan yep. Saw that high temp and rushed to the dollar general...BFN early in the morning..and I have cramps that feels like pms cramps so yea..I guess im one of those unfortunate women whose temp will stay high until cd 1..womp womp
ldubhawksfan yep. Saw that high temp and rushed to the dollar general...BFN early in the morning..and I have cramps that feels like pms cramps so yea..I guess im one of those unfortunate women whose temp will stay high until cd 1..womp womp
Boo. I'm sorry. My temps rarely started dropping until 14 dpo or cd1. It's a special kind of MF.
TTC #1 starting July 2013, RE last 2014 First Angel baby lost July 11, 2014 IUI #1 with injections successful: EDD 11/24/15 Rainbow baby DD born 11/14/15 TTC#2 October 2016 Second Angel baby lost Jan 5, 2017
Signs/Symptoms: none, I had the tiniest amount of spotting the other day, I would have missed it if I wasn't overanalyzing.
Explain your Crazy here: I'm just over it this is an off cycle. I'm done HIO and OPKs, if I O and happen to hio at the right time great. If not I'm gonna skip temping next month and maybe just stop trying.
Sorry for the frustrations. It's tough waiting when our bodies don't behave the way we want them to! Are you aware of when you usually O? I saw a couple cycles ago it was CD 18 for you, so being CD 20 isn't too far off. What kind of OPKs do you use? Are you seeing any difference in the shades of the line? Personally, I would continue to use the OPKs since I tend to have more stress not knowing what my body is doing.
I completely understand going the NTNP route next month, it certainly can be more relaxing on your sex life!
Signs/Symptoms: Nothing that I've noticed, but I've felt like crap from a cold for like the last week so far.
Explain your Crazy here: I know its still a little early for AF to show, but I'm just ready for her to show so that I can move past this cycle. We had decided to actually start trying this next cycle around instead of NTNP. And I'm just ready to start getting that show on the road.
Post by negritosmami on Jan 18, 2015 10:54:51 GMT -5
Yea ldubhawksfan that is soooo wrong of our bodies!!as a result,im tryin to sort out which method is less of a MF..temping..ntnp..opks...they all seem to make me crazy so I don't know how I will proceed from here..debating!!
negritosmami So sorry again for the BFN, (((hugs))).
ldubhawksfan I would probably encourage you to PM ladies instead of asking on the train if they've tested at the end of their cycle so no one is put in a spot where they may inadvertently allude to a BFP if their test was positive. (Not that I think you would have done that negritosmami). Just so we can avoid it being an issue.
Signs/Symptoms: Nothing that I've noticed, but I've felt like crap from a cold for like the last week so far.
Explain your Crazy here: I know its still a little early for AF to show, but I'm just ready for her to show so that I can move past this cycle. We had decided to actually start trying this next cycle around instead of NTNP. And I'm just ready to start getting that show on the road.
negritosmami So sorry again for the BFN, (((hugs))).
ldubhawksfan I would probably encourage you to PM ladies instead of asking on the train if they've tested at the end of their cycle so no one is put in a spot where they may inadvertently allude to a BFP if their test was positive. (Not that I think you would have done that negritosmami). Just so we can avoid it being an issue.
Good point. Sorry about that. I thought since people were talking about her testing today it would be ok but I totally understand how it could have been a trigger. Thanks!!
TTC #1 starting July 2013, RE last 2014 First Angel baby lost July 11, 2014 IUI #1 with injections successful: EDD 11/24/15 Rainbow baby DD born 11/14/15 TTC#2 October 2016 Second Angel baby lost Jan 5, 2017
negritosmami So sorry again for the BFN, (((hugs))).
ldubhawksfan I would probably encourage you to PM ladies instead of asking on the train if they've tested at the end of their cycle so no one is put in a spot where they may inadvertently allude to a BFP if their test was positive. (Not that I think you would have done that negritosmami). Just so we can avoid it being an issue.
Good point. Sorry about that. I thought since people were talking about her testing today it would be ok but I totally understand how it could have been a trigger. Thanks!!
No worries, it's fine! Honestly, I don't think it's an issue right now since there isn't anyone on this board at the moment who is a special unicorn who might have done that, just more for future reference or in case some ladies were having a hard time at the end of their cycle.
Good point. Sorry about that. I thought since people were talking about her testing today it would be ok but I totally understand how it could have been a trigger. Thanks!!
No worries, it's fine! Honestly, I don't think it's an issue right now since there isn't anyone on this board at the moment who is a special unicorn who might have done that, just more for future reference or in case some ladies were having a hard time at the end of their cycle.
I thought we were all special unicorns!!! ::Disappointed::
TTC #1 starting July 2013, RE last 2014 First Angel baby lost July 11, 2014 IUI #1 with injections successful: EDD 11/24/15 Rainbow baby DD born 11/14/15 TTC#2 October 2016 Second Angel baby lost Jan 5, 2017
No worries, it's fine! Honestly, I don't think it's an issue right now since there isn't anyone on this board at the moment who is a special unicorn who might have done that, just more for future reference or in case some ladies were having a hard time at the end of their cycle.
I thought we were all special unicorns!!! ::Disappointed::
One of my best friends tells me I'm a special snowflake. Does that count?
Post by mrsmccoy612 on Jan 18, 2015 11:28:29 GMT -5
Crazy level from 1-10: 7
CD/DPO: 13
Can I just ______ already?!: HIO at the perfect time
Signs/Symptoms: EWCM/ OPK said high fertility
Explain your Crazy here: So I tested this morning definitely not expecting it to tell me high... FF said I didn't O until CD 24 last month. So now I have that panicky feeling that I'm not going to HIO at the right time. Anyone else ever feel that way?
Me: 24 (hypothyroidism) DH:25 Married June 2012 TTC September 2014 BFP #1 October 17, 2014 MC #1 October 26, 2014 Benched 2 cycles- Off the bench as of Jan 2015
Can I just ______ already?!: HIO at the perfect time
Signs/Symptoms: EWCM/ OPK said high fertility
Explain your Crazy here: So I tested this morning definitely not expecting it to tell me high... FF said I didn't O until CD 24 last month. So now I have that panicky feeling that I'm not going to HIO at the right time. Anyone else ever feel that way?
Can I just ______ already?!: HIO at the perfect time
Signs/Symptoms: EWCM/ OPK said high fertility
Explain your Crazy here: So I tested this morning definitely not expecting it to tell me high... FF said I didn't O until CD 24 last month. So now I have that panicky feeling that I'm not going to HIO at the right time. Anyone else ever feel that way?
Me: 24 (hypothyroidism) DH:25 Married June 2012 TTC September 2014 BFP #1 October 17, 2014 MC #1 October 26, 2014 Benched 2 cycles- Off the bench as of Jan 2015
Signs/Symptoms: none, I had the tiniest amount of spotting the other day, I would have missed it if I wasn't overanalyzing.
Explain your Crazy here: I'm just over it this is an off cycle. I'm done HIO and OPKs, if I O and happen to hio at the right time great. If not I'm gonna skip temping next month and maybe just stop trying.
Sorry for the frustrations. It's tough waiting when our bodies don't behave the way we want them to! Are you aware of when you usually O? I saw a couple cycles ago it was CD 18 for you, so being CD 20 isn't too far off. What kind of OPKs do you use? Are you seeing any difference in the shades of the line? Personally, I would continue to use the OPKs since I tend to have more stress not knowing what my body is doing.
I completely understand going the NTNP route next month, it certainly can be more relaxing on your sex life!
I tend to O CD 14-16 that CD 18 O was the first cycle post my MMC which wasn't a normal cycle for me so the fact that I havent O yet will have my period starting later than usual. I just have a strong feeling that something isn't right mid cycle spotting isn't normal for me and it's happened quite a bit this cycle and the lines on the OPKs are faint lines, darker lines, no lines there is no consistency what so ever and I get my hopes up every time I get a darker line only to be let down. It's overly frustrating, so only time will tell what's going on this cycle.
Explain your crazy: well tested at 15dpo per my RE and got another BFN. Great way to conclude month 25 of TTC. So I stopped my progesterone and now just really really want AF to come so I can move on and have my WTF convo with my RE. Definitely time for something different. This was cycle #4 of Clomid for me and the last two cycles I've had a shitty response.
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