Feeling much better, side lying is great for getting rest while nursing. The girls took a good nap too so we got some sleep.
I can't remember who recommended side lying to me for DS2, someone here, but it seriously is the best thing ever! That's all I did with the little. We coslept too for like 9 or 10mos. I so miss those snuggles! They seem so much sweeter that way.
"Just tell me and I'll do it" is so ducking annoying. My H does pay bills and does some of that work but still. There's so much mental fatigue and things he doesn't have to create mental space for.
Story of my life. I love that H will do whatever I ask him too, but damn it I wish he could use his brain and figure some things out on his own!
MIL is gone! The visit was actually pretty good. It's different when FIL isn't here. She brought more clothes, cause who doesn't need just one more velour turtleneck circa 1980? Told H I'm throwing it directly in the trash in front of her if she tries this again lol.
One bitch about her... they went out on their own today while I worked. Apparently while one on one with H she told him that we (me and H) need to work with the boys more on sharing because they aren't as good at it as they should be. Really lady? They are by no means perfect, but sharing if something that I actually think they are pretty good at considering their ages. The big constantly says "your turn DS2" and the little will back away/hand over a toy if we tell him to. I almost wish she had said that to my face, cause I would not have been able to keep my mouth shut!
Post by sstwinklinglites on May 22, 2017 22:02:36 GMT -5
bazingaa - I'm glad your MIL visit wasn't the worst. And maybe you can teach my DS to share? He's really bad at it. I've been telling him he's going to share a room with baby brother and that baby brother is taking the crib and we're getting him a big boy bed, and he's not having it.
bazingaa I don't know how you put up with her at all! Kids are terrible at sharing until age 4-5, so if they do any sharing at all before that, you're golden!
bazingaa - I'm glad your MIL visit wasn't the worst. And maybe you can teach my DS to share? He's really bad at it. I've been telling him he's going to share a room with baby brother and that baby brother is taking the crib and we're getting him a big boy bed, and he's not having it.
That sounds totally normal. Trust there are days it's level 10 between my boys when it comes to toys. It never really phrased me before, so extra pissed me off when someone criticized me. Sigh. I gotta let it go lol
Oh and one of DD1s friends will bring z "her" doll. She's princess status.
Similar, but the big makes the little his gopher. It's always "ds2 go get my milk" "go put this in the trash". The little is still at the age where he obeys LOL
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