I finally found you all.......BFN mentioned

[karenb676]

After only being a part of your boards for about 2 weeks now I have no idea what caused everything to go down.  I don't have the opportunity to check the boards every day, so I missed posts earlier in the week and checked in on the day everyone was in their 24 hours of silence. I have to say I was trying to put the pieces together and I did lurk over to the Parenting board.  Wow....hysterical.  Naria, I am so sorry about what happened with you.  How wonderful to have the support of all of these ladies.  I am sure that has helped you move on!  Thank you to Phoenixrising2015 who sent private messages to our inboxes to let us know where you all went.  All of you ladies have been so helpful these past few weeks, either answering my questions or others.  i have learned so much, that I would like to keep following you if that is ok?  Like many I will still participate on TB as well, but I really wanted to stick with your expertise as well.  

  I was wondering if the IUI check-ins were still going to happen over here? 

I just received a BFN for my 2nd IUI cycle.  So on to round 3 this coming week.  I am doing ok with it.  My nurse told me that they want us to try 3-4 cycles before meeting with the DR (RE) to determine next steps. My frustration is that one of my sisters is getting married in the Canary Islands March 29, 2015 and my nurse said if I get pregnant during this next cycle I could travel, but if this next cycle doesn't work I will have to skip a cycle because they of course would need me here to monitor. Ugh .... you know I didn't cry over the negative result, I cried because I may have to skip a cycle if #3 doesn't work, and I am getting tired/frustrated with all of this waiting!!!!!
         
I hope everyone has a great holiday weekend and is able to get some rest and relaxation!!!!!

[NariaDreaming]

Oh Karen I'm so sorry for the BFN. I just saw your post over on the other site.

I would want to talk with the doctor sooner than 3 more failed cycles! that seems insane to me.

[BunnyBerry]

Welcome. Sorry for the BFN.

Perhaps plan your RE consult for the month you have to travel? That way you would feel like something useful is happening (figuring out next steps) if you don't already have a BFP and need to take a break for travel. Also, if you are currently on your 3rd IUI, it sounds like the perfect time to schedule a consult!

[karenb676]

@nariadreaming thank you for your support. I think I need to clarify....I don't need to wait 3-4 more cycles, they wait until we have done 3-4 cycles, which means after this next cycle if it doesn't work I think I can schedule a consult with the RE.

BunnyBerry, thank you for your support as well. I like your advice. I would feel a lot better traveling knowing that when I came back from the wedding, I would have plan. I will talk to my nurse next week about scheduling an appointment for March.

[lindseyp2012]

I'm so sorry about the BFN.

It sounds typical to re-evaluate things after the 3rd unsuccessful cycle. I would get something on the books now for right after this next cycle just in case. You can always cancel it if you get your BFP (hope for the best, but prepare for the worst - that seems to be my motto). I really hope you won't need the WTF appointment. Good luck with this next cycle.

[cateyes]

I don't have any advice but just wanted to say sorry for your BFN, FX that a WTF consult in the books will be just what you need to get your BFP.

[hrushka]

I think I replied to you on that other place, so here I'll just say that a trip to the Canary Islands sounds amazing!

[remylove1011]

Glad you found us! Sorry for the BFN. I agree with PP's that it is pretty standard to discuss changes after 3 cycles of IUI. They will probably discuss either changing your protocol (injects?) or possibly moving on to IVF. FX for this next cycle! Canary Islands sounds like fun!

[lillee]

I'm glad you found but but I'm sorry for the BFN. I agree with buttmonkey, maybe you can try BCP's to schedule another cycle around your trip.

[daydreamsam]

Glad you found us! Welcome to GBCB! I'm so sorry to hear about your BFN, hopefully the next one works and you won't even have to worry about making things work with your trip.

[kensie5226]

Glad you found us! Sorry for the BFN.

[karenb676]

Oh my goodness...See I am really glad I am here because I LOVED how you called my check in with the RE a WTF appointment. I laughed so hard at that. It will truly be a WTF appointment because that is what DH and I are basically saying to one another. I just wish I could say that to my RE. LOL....He has a really good sense of humor, he just may think it is funny if I ask him that!

[MrsRC88]

Sorry about the BFN, Glad you found us

[snd1231]

Sorry for the BFN. But glad you found us so welcome!

[deelopi9]

Hugs I'm sorry!

[bluefairy5]

I'm sorry about the BFN. They never seem to get any easier. Hopefully the next cycle will be it, but if not, it sounds like your RE is on top of what you guys need to go over at your WTF.