Meeting the surrogate mother!

[CharleneMontana]

Hi everyone, 
I am currently undergoing surrogacy through one of the best clinics and they helped me so much during my journey so far. Now I am to meet the surrogate mother for the first time in some days and I am very nervous about the meeting. She was our own choice from a list of profiles but I would like to know what to expect and what to ask. Anyone with the surrogacy experience, please, guide me on how to proceed. I am excited about this journey and don't want anything to spoil the perfection.

[rihannadennis]

Well, best of luck first of all! I'm also having the process sooner. Anyhow, you can check out videos on YouTube for it. www.youtube.com/watch?v=IHp-3NEaQjA This is really a helpful video regarding the process. Even other videos are also on the channel with regard to anything for the process of surrogacy. I've personally seen them before opting for it. Anyway! Stay blessed! I hope you find her amazing and things work out! x

[monika]

Hey, I hope everything goes well. I am sure this must be so exciting for you! I remember when I met the surrogate for the first time I was so nervous. However, upon meeting her I felt so good. She was so nice and down to earth. She told us that she was doing this to help us. I am sure your experience will go smoothly as well. Good luck to you.

[hansonleslie]

Hey! That's very great to hear. Congratulations! I think you'll do so well on this journey. I think if your clinic was a good one then you shouldn't be so afraid and tensed. The surrogate mother will be wonderful too. Do clear any confusions you have with her no matter how silly they may seem. Good luck with it all!

[sheilahayes]

Hi, Charlene. This is so good to hear. We are praying for you. I hope this goes perfectly well. Without any kind of complications. Surrogacy is a very easy procedure if handled skillfully. Our doctors were great in this regard. We had it at a clinic in Europe. And safe to say, the whole experience has been life changing for us. Our surrogacy was a total success. Our surrogate was great too. We didn't have any sort of problems during our visits. It was amazing. Our little girl is about to turn one very soon. Keep us with you on your journey. Good luck!

[hanna58]

Hello! That is extremely extraordinary to hear. Congrats! I figure you'll do as such well on this. I think if your center was a decent one then you shouldn't be so perplexed and strained. The surrogate mother will be superb as well. Do clear any perplexities you have with her regardless of how senseless they may appear. Good fortunes with everything!

[we89]

This is great and glad that you have found your perfect match for the surrogate. How did your first consultation meeting go? am surprised that they have an extensive database of surrogates. It makes easier for you to choose according to your preferences. I am sure, this won't have been easy. When you have so many choices. But yeah the one made for you comes easily. You can ask about her preferences, What she thinks about surrogacy? Why did she choose surrogacy? How many children e she has? Has she given birth to others? married, unmarried? How many kids of her own? How did your first surrogacy journey go? What complication did you face? What are your views on building bonds with the baby after the birth? Do you like to get in touch? There are tons of question you can ask, list them down. And take it with you to the meeting. I am waiting for my turn these days. So desperate to meet her

[mirandajames]

This is great news! I'm so happy for you. I remember when I met my surrogate for the first time. I was confused just like you. But things went so well. She is this incredible woman. I'm glad we found her. I'm sure your surrogate is going to be just as delightful.

[trisha098]

Hey. Such delightful news. I'm so happy for you. It is normal to feel this way. Don't be so nervous about this. I'm sure she is going to be great. You'll love her. Do tell us about the meeting okay? Just make sure she is comfortable around you. Good luck to you!!!

[jennifer123]

Hey, I hope you are well. That is amazing. I hope your experience goes well. This must be so exciting for you. The clinic you are visiting is really known for the process therefore, I am sure you must be relaxed. They take care of everything. The way they match the surrogate is also amazing! They first make sure that the woman who applies for surrogacy has her own children and doesn't smoke. There are other things that they check as well. Such as medical health reports. However, even after all of these things they do a medical checkup. To ensure that she doesn't suffer from any past or present health issue. I thought that was really amazing. Good luck to you. Sending baby dust your way.

[linda]

Hey! I hope you're okay. Surrogates are honestly heroes. Don't be nervous. You guys will become real friends over time. Just be yourself. Good luck with this!

[lucia]

Hello, Charlene! I hope you're doing okay. I just wanna say that good luck! This is exciting times. Just be yourself. That should do it! I'm really happy for you. I hope the procedure goes smoothly from here.

[hally]

It must be so exciting. Good luck, Charlene. You're really lucky, great to see everything went so well! I know you're obviously excited, and you deserve to be! There's no need to be nervous or to worry. It'll be fine, I'm sure. Hopefully, she has a healthy pregnancy!