Post by happymama on Feb 24, 2015 11:26:45 GMT -5
DD isn't an overly cuddly baby. I am very cuddly so I'm always thrilled when she is in a cuddly mood. She also rarely kisses us. If we ask for a kiss, she will slam her forehead into our lips for a forehead kiss. At bedtime she will generally pucker up for a kiss on the lips, but we always have ask, she almost never offers a kiss or hug.
So I am sitting on the couch and she comes crawling up, plops on my lap, puckers up and goes "mmmmmmmmm" for a smooch. Of course, my heart totally melts. As I wrap my arms around her and give her a big kiss...she goes in for the kill and snatches my phone! She then sits down all satisfied, holds my phone out to me so I will unlock it for her, and just in case she didn't have me totally convinced yet, leans in and puckers up for another kiss.
We have never bribed her to do anything, including giving kisses, she came up with this all on her own. I give mom something she wants...she then feels obligated to reciprocate.
So I am sitting on the couch and she comes crawling up, plops on my lap, puckers up and goes "mmmmmmmmm" for a smooch. Of course, my heart totally melts. As I wrap my arms around her and give her a big kiss...she goes in for the kill and snatches my phone! She then sits down all satisfied, holds my phone out to me so I will unlock it for her, and just in case she didn't have me totally convinced yet, leans in and puckers up for another kiss.
We have never bribed her to do anything, including giving kisses, she came up with this all on her own. I give mom something she wants...she then feels obligated to reciprocate.
