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rosieelk

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Can I join in? (Pregnancy & miscarriage mentioned) Mar 12, 2015 14:06:32 GMT -5

Post by rosieelk on Mar 12, 2015 14:06:32 GMT -5

Hey everybody. I'm Elke, I'm 32 and I'm 19 weeks and 4 days pregnant with my wife and I's first baby after four failed at home inseminations with unknown donor sperm, and a miscarriage at the beginning of 2014. We have been together for 12 years, entered into a civil partnership 8 years ago, and then got married two and a half years ago. I am German and my wife in Danish, and we live in the north of Germany, though I will be giving birth in Denmark so that my wife can go on the birth certificate.

Is it okay if I join here?

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healz413

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Can I join in? (Pregnancy & miscarriage mentioned) Mar 12, 2015 14:16:59 GMT -5

Post by healz413 on Mar 12, 2015 14:16:59 GMT -5

Hi Elke. Of course! Welcome.

Congratulations on your pregnancy. I'm so sorry to hear about your miscarriage. My partner and I lost our twins last year at 21 weeks. Loss is really difficult in so many ways. If you haven't already found it, there is also a board for pregnancy after a loss called "Carrying a Rainbow." People who have losses at any gestation can be a part of that board.

As for this board, jump right in! We have a weekly check-in on Mondays. And we have little get to know you's every day. And you can always start your own thread as well.

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****loss and living child discussed*****
We're queer. I'm 34, have severe stage 4 endo, and both fallopian tubes are gone. My love ("Manada" 33) was diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve. We did Partner IVF (my eggs, her uterus). We lost our twins Tav.in and Ca.sey at 21 weeks gestation.

Our amazing rainbow El.lis was born Aug 18, 2015.

kh826

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Can I join in? (Pregnancy & miscarriage mentioned) Mar 12, 2015 14:32:49 GMT -5

Post by kh826 on Mar 12, 2015 14:32:49 GMT -5

Welcome! I am sorry to hear of your loss. Congratulations on your pregnancy! We would be happy to have you join us here!

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Me: 32, Wife (J): 33, Together 11 yrs, Married Aug 2012

BABY #1
5 IUIs (Mar - Jul 13) = BFN
IVF Cycle Sept 13 = 18 mature eggs, 16 fertilized, 12 day 5 blasts. Transferred 2 on 9/15/13, and 10 embryos frozen!
BFP on 9/25/13 - betas: 10dp5dt = 232; 12dp5dt = 465; 15dp5dt = 1,581
William George born 6/4/14

BABY #2
FET on 5/7/15 - betas: 11dp5dt = 205; 13dp5dt = 447; 19dp5dt = 3858
Lucie Evelyn born 1/26/16

9 embryos still in the freezer!

wittyandwaiting Gold Trophy Posts: 2,369 Love-Tits: 4,004	Can I join in? (Pregnancy & miscarriage mentioned) Mar 12, 2015 14:49:00 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Post by wittyandwaiting on Mar 12, 2015 14:49:00 GMT -5 Welcome to the group! We'd love for you to join us.
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Can I join in? (Pregnancy & miscarriage mentioned) Mar 12, 2015 14:58:45 GMT -5

Post by RM80 on Mar 12, 2015 14:58:45 GMT -5

Welcome & I'm sorry about your loss last year. Glad you found us!

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Me: 36 (PCOS + Hypothyroid)

Starting life over after divorce, almost married again to an amazing human, and trying to make a baby…

Previous life of infertility (2014): 3 IUI’s (tried both femara & gonal-f)= All BFN’s, IVF#1 = only 1 embryo made it to transfer; 9wk miscarriage

Formerly known as: TwoMomsInTX

officerofthelaw Silver Trophy Posts: 616 Love-Tits: 968	Can I join in? (Pregnancy & miscarriage mentioned) Mar 12, 2015 15:10:38 GMT -5 Post by officerofthelaw on Mar 12, 2015 15:10:38 GMT -5 Welcome, I am sorry to hear about your loss but excited about your current pregnancy.
	PAGE: TOP \| BOTTOM Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Me-30 DW-34 6 failed IUI's starting July 2014. 1-IVF 5 day transfer (2-23-2015):BFP on 2-27-2015 1st Beta on 3-4-2015= 195 2nd Beta on 3-6-2015= 466

ionaerebor Bronze Trophy Posts: 312 Love-Tits: 384	Can I join in? (Pregnancy & miscarriage mentioned) Mar 12, 2015 15:30:50 GMT -5 Post by ionaerebor on Mar 12, 2015 15:30:50 GMT -5 Ah, Willkommen. Wohnen Sie in der Nähe von Hamburg? Sorry about your loss, but congratulations on your current pregnancy!
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calsurb Bronze Trophy Posts: 178 Love-Tits: 266	Can I join in? (Pregnancy & miscarriage mentioned) Mar 12, 2015 20:03:41 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Post by calsurb on Mar 12, 2015 20:03:41 GMT -5 Welcome! We are glad you're here! Ja! Ja!
	PAGE: TOP \| BOTTOM Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Married to my wife since 2013. BFP positive after 3 unmedicated IUIs. S was born in June 2015, currently trying for one more.

PiradicalMaid Gold Trophy Posts: 2,039 Love-Tits: 3,247	Can I join in? (Pregnancy & miscarriage mentioned) Mar 12, 2015 20:52:00 GMT -5 via mobile Post by PiradicalMaid on Mar 12, 2015 20:52:00 GMT -5 Welcome! I'm so sorry for your loss. Congratulations on your pregnancy and glad you're here
	PAGE: TOP \| BOTTOM Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top SPOILER: Click to show Surrogate for C&B BFP 1: EDD 11.22.15, MC 4.12.15 - 8w BFP 2: EDD 3.13.16, CP 7.8.15 - 4w3d BFP 3: EDD 4.13.16, Baby Charlie was born 4/14/16 beautiful, healthy, strong, loved Baby November & Baby March, forever in our hearts

karlamo Gold Trophy Posts: 2,089 Love-Tits: 5,446	Can I join in? (Pregnancy & miscarriage mentioned) Mar 13, 2015 7:11:13 GMT -5 Post by karlamo on Mar 13, 2015 7:11:13 GMT -5 Welcome! Sorry to hear of your loss but congrats on the new pregnancy.
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megd893 Silver Trophy Posts: 762 Love-Tits: 1,559	Can I join in? (Pregnancy & miscarriage mentioned) Mar 13, 2015 8:12:35 GMT -5 Post by megd893 on Mar 13, 2015 8:12:35 GMT -5 Absolutely you can join - we're glad to have you Sorry to hear about your miscarriage, but congratulations on your pregnancy!
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mahler5 Silver Trophy Posts: 792 Love-Tits: 746	Can I join in? (Pregnancy & miscarriage mentioned) Mar 13, 2015 13:31:52 GMT -5 via mobile Post by mahler5 on Mar 13, 2015 13:31:52 GMT -5 Congratulations on your pregnancy. I'm sorry to hear about your loss. I'm glad you found our board. I hope you enjoy it.
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rosieelk n00b Posts: 69 Love-Tits: 81	Can I join in? (Pregnancy & miscarriage mentioned) Mar 13, 2015 13:46:12 GMT -5 Post by rosieelk on Mar 13, 2015 13:46:12 GMT -5 Thanks everybody! Und, ionaerebor, Ja, etwa eine Stunde entfernt.
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luckypanda Bronze Trophy Posts: 131 Love-Tits: 173	Can I join in? (Pregnancy & miscarriage mentioned) Mar 13, 2015 14:26:12 GMT -5 Post by luckypanda on Mar 13, 2015 14:26:12 GMT -5 Welcome!!
	PAGE: TOP \| BOTTOM Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Same-Sex Couple TTC Baby #1 Married: 5/31/13 ❤️ Jan 2015 - Cancelled cycle due to immature follicles Feb 2015 - IUI #1 (Letrozole) - BFN March 2015 - Cancelled cycle due to early ovulation April 2015 - Letrozole, Trigger Shot, IUI - BFN GKU May Siggy Challenge: SomeECard

mrsnorris utopian domestic goddess Citrine's Sunny Posts: 5,575 Love-Tits: 16,471	Can I join in? (Pregnancy & miscarriage mentioned) Mar 14, 2015 1:23:26 GMT -5 via mobile Post by mrsnorris on Mar 14, 2015 1:23:26 GMT -5 Welcome! Glad you're here!
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Can I join in? (Pregnancy & miscarriage mentioned)

Post by rosieelk on Mar 12, 2015 14:06:32 GMT -5

Post by healz413 on Mar 12, 2015 14:16:59 GMT -5

Post by kh826 on Mar 12, 2015 14:32:49 GMT -5

Post by wittyandwaiting on Mar 12, 2015 14:49:00 GMT -5

Post by RM80 on Mar 12, 2015 14:58:45 GMT -5

Post by officerofthelaw on Mar 12, 2015 15:10:38 GMT -5

Post by ionaerebor on Mar 12, 2015 15:30:50 GMT -5

Post by calsurb on Mar 12, 2015 20:03:41 GMT -5

Post by PiradicalMaid on Mar 12, 2015 20:52:00 GMT -5

Post by karlamo on Mar 13, 2015 7:11:13 GMT -5

Post by megd893 on Mar 13, 2015 8:12:35 GMT -5

Post by mahler5 on Mar 13, 2015 13:31:52 GMT -5

Post by rosieelk on Mar 13, 2015 13:46:12 GMT -5

Post by luckypanda on Mar 13, 2015 14:26:12 GMT -5

Post by mrsnorris on Mar 14, 2015 1:23:26 GMT -5