Question about The Dump

[puglife5869]

Is there anyone who hangs out there to send people this way?  I check PAL every so often to see if there is anyone that comes up but I don't have an account.  I saw a few threads on TTCAL that had someone sending PM's but that was some time ago.  I hate that women who need the support of our community may not be able to find it. 

[wifey]

I sent a couple of PM's but don't know if they received them. I feel bad as well. I saw a couple of posts that I was tempted to reply to, but they had such minimal activity on their account, I was cynical to whether is was TD trying to create dialogue (horrible, I know). I hate seeing ignored posts, and try to make others feel comfortable and supported, but I just decided to remain inactive over there.

And, hai puglife5869, How is the wee dude?

[puglife5869]

I know what you mean. I don't even like giving them my page views but I get curious from time to time. The PAL board is pretty much dead and I think most of us made our way here. I just didn't know if we had someone who was fighting the good fight.

And hello! little Wesley is doing awesome! He is falling asleep in my arms right now actually. He has been so healthy and strong that I feel so blessed!

[serenla]

@princessgiselle XO? What is that?

[serenla]

Mar 13, 2015 21:00:25 GMT -5 serenla said:

@princessgiselle XO? What is that?

@enchanted damn this New format

[wifey]

puglife5869, So glad to hear you both are doing well....and big sis!

@enchanted, whoever created the Mrs Tots SN on TD had me rolling at the name and avatar! Hysterical! Glad to hear you are genuinely looking out for our ladies! Thanks

[puglife5869]

Mar 13, 2015 20:53:39 GMT -5 @enchanted said:

I have an account over there solely the purpose of sending PMs. I lurk all the loss boards and if I see someone I think would fit well or honestly, just needs help, I send them an answer to their question and let them know where we all are. I also jump on any old reg I see who pops in.

wifey, Sadly, the people at XO aren't too bright. Pretty much all of the accounts I'm sure are theirs have "xo" in the name somewhere and they all seem to follow the same kind of formula/posting style. I do think, though, that they have enough brains to not pull their stupid shit on the AL boards.

I'm so glad you are still doing that! Thank you!

[bethelgal42]

I was occasionally lurking over there. I hated the thought of people being left behind. I had my account deleted though so I would have to create a new account to respond.

I'm glad that you are still over there, @enchanted.

[happyin14]

Has anyone else seen that they consolidated loss boards? There's now only one "loss" board for early-late-infant loss. And just TTCAL, PGAL and PAL. No TTCAL + 6... I can't remember if there were others. I just noticed those two are gone.

[princezjk]

Mar 14, 2015 18:15:06 GMT -5 happyin14 said:

Has anyone else seen that they consolidated loss boards? There's now only one "loss" board for early-late-infant loss. And just TTCAL, PGAL and PAL. No TTCAL + 6... I can't remember if there were others. I just noticed those two are gone.

I just saw this. I did click through and find the miscarriage board, though. But it doesn't seem to appear on the main page. Not sure what is going on. It's just a mess over there.