Dress me for professional pics

[helenahhandbasket]

Hi Gals-- so if you remember last week all of you basically talked me off the ledge and into taking pics with my DD this Saturday. 

Josie's doing 3 outfit changes- a silly/ fun tutu dress and two more "grown up" looking outfits- a printed shirtdress and riding boots and a striped sweater/ skinny jeans/ sparkly flats combo.

But what do I wear?  My typical casual style is classic with a little edge, but I was thinking of going more classic?  I was thinking definitely jeans-- but what about on top?  Maybe a plain knit with pearls (Josie's middle name is Pearl-- so I do wear them quite a bit.)  A white button down with a fun necklace?

Flats?  Sneakers? Heels?  I have them all and wear them all-- so I wouldn't have to shop.  Just totally lost.

[eyenigh]

Do you know what kind of backdrop/setting that they're using for the photos? That might change things. You def don't want to do white on white or anything where you blend into the background.

[penguin129]

Are they going to be outside pictures? I'd say jeans, a nice shirts, and flats. You can dress it up with the accessories.

[helenahhandbasket]

Jan 19, 2015 13:28:42 GMT -5 eyenigh said:

Do you know what kind of backdrop/setting that they're using for the photos? That might change things. You def don't want to do white on white or anything where you blend into the background.

Good point- I had not thought of that.

From what I understand she's got a bunch of different backdrops.

[helenahhandbasket]

Jan 19, 2015 13:40:02 GMT -5 penguin129 said:

Are they going to be outside pictures? I'd say jeans, a nice shirts, and flats. You can dress it up with the accessories.

No-- unfortunately.  It's too cold up here.

[stellabunny]

I'd go with nice jeans and a nice shirt. Definitely something you're going to be comfortable in!

[eyenigh]

I would just say dress like you, just giving some thought to what J will be wearing. If she's in a sparkle tutu, a white tee and jeans might seem a bit under done, you know? Like wear what you would wear if she were wearing that outfit if you were going anywhere else but maybe spice up your hair and makeup a bit? I totally overthink photos, too and I find the ones that I dress up too much for look really forced.

[TheEleventhHour]

I think jeans, flats, and a solid knit in a complementary color to J's outfits is perfect. It is simple, you will be comfortable, and you can do your hair/makeup/accessories to feel a little more fancy or dressed up.

[BostonKisses]

Complimentary knit top, jeans, and flats. That's a good basic that can fit many situations!


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[kiwi110]

Photographer friends of mine who have done a bunch of pictures for us say they prefer no black or white tops because the viewer's eye goes directly to that major contrast instead of to the faces of those in the pictures.

[tonksy]

i agree with the rest of the suggestions - flats with jeans and a nice top is a good place to start. don't be afraid of patterns though! i personally find all solid colours boring in photos. You do have to be more careful of patterns clashing, so I understand the hesitation. Do you have pics of what DD will be wearing?

[Deleted]

Love the idea of the pearls! I think you should go more classic but then again I have fashion phobia.

[sandandsea]

I would do jeans, a white T, and a bright solid cardigan (pink, red, purple,etc.) over it with white pearls. Cute nude flats or heels.

Our last few family pics I've had a solid black shirt and I like it because it's flattering, since I'm larger than I'd like. I think it also bring attention to our faces since the shirt isn't distracting.

[sandandsea]

Where do you all find nice "knit tops"? I feel like all of my cardigans, and other knit tops look very used very soon after I buy them.

[penguin129]

Jan 19, 2015 14:35:39 GMT -5 helenahhandbasket said:

Jan 19, 2015 13:40:02 GMT -5 penguin129 said:

Are they going to be outside pictures? I'd say jeans, a nice shirts, and flats. You can dress it up with the accessories.

No-- unfortunately.  It's too cold up here.

I forget not everyone lives in FL. I grew up in PA. Its crazy because our weather the past couple of days has been like fall in PA. 

[AleWife]

If you have one, I think even a simple, casual blazer over a v-neck tee with your pearls would be classic/casual and any shoe that's comfortable would look great with that (heels or flats). I think it will give that polished look without being overdone and you don't need to worry about constant adjustment.

[Deleted]

Jan 19, 2015 21:20:33 GMT -5 penguin129 said:

Jan 19, 2015 14:35:39 GMT -5 helenahhandbasket said:

No-- unfortunately.  It's too cold up here.

I forget not everyone lives in FL. I grew up in PA. Its crazy because our weather the past couple of days has been like fall in PA. 

Same! I live in Alabama and it's been crazy warm.

[tarheelmom]

I am currently about 30lbs over my preferred weight, so I dress to minimize my size (I think you mentioned feeling similar?). Black top and dark jeans with a pretty/bright and/or colorful long cardigan on top...flats or heeled boots and some eye-catching jewelry.

[helenahhandbasket]

Jan 19, 2015 23:04:39 GMT -5 AleWife said:

If you have one, I think even a simple, casual blazer over a v-neck tee with your pearls would be classic/casual and any shoe that's comfortable would look great with that (heels or flats). I think it will give that polished look without being overdone and you don't need to worry about constant adjustment.

Thanks!  I thought about a blazer.  I have a navy one and a black one.  I am going to try on a bunch of stuff tomorrow night after Josie's in bed and see what works.  I am leaning towards just a knit top, even though I do typically waer a lot of prints and color.

sandandsea - I have a few very light weight (like, almost t-shirt gauge) merino wool crew necks and V - neck sweaters that I bought from Gap this past season.  To keep them looking "new" I hand wash them in the sink with baby shampoo and just lay them flat to dry. I hand wash a lot of stuff, because I am unaturally obsessed with my clothes.

[eyenigh]

Jan 20, 2015 9:11:40 GMT -5 helenahhandbasket said:

Jan 19, 2015 23:04:39 GMT -5 AleWife said:

If you have one, I think even a simple, casual blazer over a v-neck tee with your pearls would be classic/casual and any shoe that's comfortable would look great with that (heels or flats). I think it will give that polished look without being overdone and you don't need to worry about constant adjustment.

Thanks!  I thought about a blazer.  I have a navy one and a black one.  I am going to try on a bunch of stuff tomorrow night after Josie's in bed and see what works.  I am leaning towards just a knit top, even though I do typically waer a lot of prints and color.

sandandsea - I have a few very light weight (like, almost t-shirt gauge) merino wool crew necks and V - neck sweaters that I bought from Gap this past season.  To keep them looking "new" I hand wash them in the sink with baby shampoo and just lay them flat to dry. I hand wash a lot of stuff, because I am unaturally obsessed with my clothes.

You're not alone. I do this with mine and my kid's clothes. I hate when stuff pills, fades or loses shape.

[helenahhandbasket]

Jan 20, 2015 9:18:45 GMT -5 eyenigh said:

Jan 20, 2015 9:11:40 GMT -5 helenahhandbasket said:

Thanks!  I thought about a blazer.  I have a navy one and a black one.  I am going to try on a bunch of stuff tomorrow night after Josie's in bed and see what works.  I am leaning towards just a knit top, even though I do typically waer a lot of prints and color.

sandandsea - I have a few very light weight (like, almost t-shirt gauge) merino wool crew necks and V - neck sweaters that I bought from Gap this past season.  To keep them looking "new" I hand wash them in the sink with baby shampoo and just lay them flat to dry. I hand wash a lot of stuff, because I am unaturally obsessed with my clothes.

You're not alone. I do this with mine and my kid's clothes. I hate when stuff pills, fades or loses shape.

Yes-- most people think I am insane.  I can't deal with even the tiniest stain or even a few pills-- which is why I never accepted any offers from friends that wanted to lend me their maternity clothes.  I was convinced that eveything would be stained and or pilled.

I also toss/ donate or relagate any of josies stuff that's really badly stained to pajamas or if they are leggings-- to wear only as tights under a dress that would hide the stain.

I need help.
Edit-- stuck in your box

[eyenigh]

Jan 20, 2015 9:26:14 GMT -5 helenahhandbasket said:

Jan 20, 2015 9:18:45 GMT -5 eyenigh said:

You're not alone. I do this with mine and my kid's clothes. I hate when stuff pills, fades or loses shape.

Yes-- most people think I am insane.  I can't deal with even the tiniest stain or even a few pills-- which is why I never accepted any offers from friends that wanted to lend me their maternity clothes.  I was convinced that eveything would be stained and or pilled.

I also toss/ donate or relagate any of josies stuff that's really badly stained to pajamas or if they are leggings-- to wear only as tights under a dress that would hide the stain.

I need help.
Edit-- stuck in your box

Hot.

No, I'm with you. I get irrationally, quietly upset about stains even on A's clothes, which I really need to get over with an almost 3 year old boy who likes chocolate pudding a lot.