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Mar 19, 2015 7:00:07 GMT -5
Post by FunniBunni on Mar 19, 2015 7:00:07 GMT -5
Hello! I'm not 100% sure I belong here, but I thought it might be a good place for advice when drama happens, and that I might have some experience to share.
I'm FunniBunni, am 34, and I don't have any step-kids. I have 3 kids (15, 13 & 8) with my ex. I have full custody of them, and he has visitation, which he exercises. I am now married to a wonderful man, 33. He and I welcomed our little daughter in July of 2014. He's an amazing father to all my littles, and I am so thankful we found each other.
Saying things are are strained between my ex and I, are like calling a tornado a little windy. He's been especially angry with me since I got pregnant, despite the fact that he has 3 additional kids, with 3 additional mothers. He sued me for full custody for the third time, had all the children interviewed by the court, then failed to show up at the 2nd court date this past June. It was dismissed. Now, we only communicate in writing, and most of it is one-way, from me. My big kids see their father 3-4 times a year, per the court order, for stretches. They will be leaving Saturday for a week (spring break), and as always, I'm trying to hold it together. I hate it when they are gone. They also leave in the summer (I get the 1st and last 2 weeks, he gets the balance), Thanksgiving odd years, and winters, starting the day after Christmas.
That's pretty much me. Hello!
I'm FunniBunni, am 34, and I don't have any step-kids. I have 3 kids (15, 13 & 8) with my ex. I have full custody of them, and he has visitation, which he exercises. I am now married to a wonderful man, 33. He and I welcomed our little daughter in July of 2014. He's an amazing father to all my littles, and I am so thankful we found each other.
Saying things are are strained between my ex and I, are like calling a tornado a little windy. He's been especially angry with me since I got pregnant, despite the fact that he has 3 additional kids, with 3 additional mothers. He sued me for full custody for the third time, had all the children interviewed by the court, then failed to show up at the 2nd court date this past June. It was dismissed. Now, we only communicate in writing, and most of it is one-way, from me. My big kids see their father 3-4 times a year, per the court order, for stretches. They will be leaving Saturday for a week (spring break), and as always, I'm trying to hold it together. I hate it when they are gone. They also leave in the summer (I get the 1st and last 2 weeks, he gets the balance), Thanksgiving odd years, and winters, starting the day after Christmas.
That's pretty much me. Hello!