Confession- feeling sorry/not sorry (SIL LC mentioned)
Mar 23, 2015 9:54:23 GMT -5
Post by mrswheelo on Mar 23, 2015 9:54:23 GMT -5
As with many of you, my relationship with SIL is a difficult one. I am feeling especially hateful towards her lately and am having a hard time getting a handle on it. I'm starting to enjoy disliking her
SIL is a special kind of lying bitch. Even before we conceived, she was plotting against us. Younger SIL made a beautiful cherry cradle with their dad when she was in high school. Older SIL used it for her DS1 who was @ the time 3yo. We announced that we were ttc and that we would love to use the cradle. SIL assured us that would be fine, as they weren't planning to have any more children and she would get it out of storage for us. 2 weeks later, she calls younger SIL and tells her she isn't giving it up and that she now wants to have another baby. >( Grrr! I'll never understand ppl like her. She either lied when we asked her or decided to conceive bc we were.
SIL is a special kind of lying bitch. Even before we conceived, she was plotting against us. Younger SIL made a beautiful cherry cradle with their dad when she was in high school. Older SIL used it for her DS1 who was @ the time 3yo. We announced that we were ttc and that we would love to use the cradle. SIL assured us that would be fine, as they weren't planning to have any more children and she would get it out of storage for us. 2 weeks later, she calls younger SIL and tells her she isn't giving it up and that she now wants to have another baby. >( Grrr! I'll never understand ppl like her. She either lied when we asked her or decided to conceive bc we were.
Wouldn't ya know it, we got pregnant at the same f ing time! She actually called DH and told him she was sorry for "stealing our thunder". Like she was somehow taking away from the excitement surrounding our pregnancy. Not to mention she thinks she is a doctor and told everyone we would probably lose 1 twin in the first trimester.
MIL is very crafty and I asked her to make these cute hats I saw on etsy for the twins. She did and they were so cute! And of course, she had to make one for fucking bitch SIL! But bc we lost our twins, she never gave them to us.
A few days ago SIL had DS2. It was painful for me bc our twins were supposed to be here too. Made even more painful when I saw a picture on fb of the new baby wearing one of the hats I asked MIL to make for the twins. :''''''(
I just don't think she should have given it to her. I was the one who asked her to make them for MY babies. It hurts that she made one for SIL & still gave it to her after our loss. This may be selfish, but I am so angry with them both!
MIL is very crafty and I asked her to make these cute hats I saw on etsy for the twins. She did and they were so cute! And of course, she had to make one for fucking bitch SIL! But bc we lost our twins, she never gave them to us.
A few days ago SIL had DS2. It was painful for me bc our twins were supposed to be here too. Made even more painful when I saw a picture on fb of the new baby wearing one of the hats I asked MIL to make for the twins. :''''''(
I just don't think she should have given it to her. I was the one who asked her to make them for MY babies. It hurts that she made one for SIL & still gave it to her after our loss. This may be selfish, but I am so angry with them both!