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Can a girl get a hug? Jan 19, 2015 22:27:46 GMT -5 via mobile

Post by sweetcali on Jan 19, 2015 22:27:46 GMT -5

I had a CP this month after my IUI. That's why I was MIA. I just can't seem to pull myself back together yet. I'm finding it very hard to be a stepparent right now and I feel like an awful person for it.

I've been lurking both places since but finally signed up here today. I'm really glad you are all here.

And thank you to those who sent me messages after shit hit the fan over at the bad place. It meant a lot that you were thinking of me.

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Me: 27 DH: 35 MFI, failed vas-reversal
TTC since 2011
Met RE 7/2012
6 failed IUIs
9/2014 IUI BFP, MMC @12 weeks, natural mc @ home 11/18/2014
01/2015 IUI, BFP, CP
2/2015 IUI, BFP, due 11/14/15 delivered 9/8/15 via emergency CS for severe preeclampsia. Currently in the NICU.

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Post by o2girl on Jan 19, 2015 22:31:25 GMT -5

Jan 19, 2015 22:27:46 GMT -5 sweetcali said:

I had a CP this month after my IUI. That's why I was MIA. I just can't seem to pull myself back together yet. I'm finding it very hard to be a stepparent right now and I feel like an awful person for it.

I've been lurking both places since but finally signed up here today. I'm really glad you are all here.

And thank you to those who sent me messages after shit hit the fan over at the bad place. It meant a lot that you were thinking of me.

(((((((Big hugs)))))))

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IVF, multiple loss momma, and finally a possible rainbow due 5/6/16!

agpjt413 Moderator Citrine's Sunny Posts: 6,738 Love-Tits: 14,758	Can a girl get a hug? Jan 19, 2015 22:36:28 GMT -5 via mobile Post by agpjt413 on Jan 19, 2015 22:36:28 GMT -5 ((Hugs)) lady...I'm so sorry for your loss.
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rslh10 Alden Emilene will be delivered @ 37 weeks (3/15/17). Please please please be our rainbow girl. Citrine's Sunny Posts: 6,329 Love-Tits: 17,386	Can a girl get a hug? Jan 19, 2015 22:37:31 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Post by rslh10 on Jan 19, 2015 22:37:31 GMT -5 Oh honey. So so many hugs so glad you're here.
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meredithcarole Gold Trophy Posts: 1,563 Love-Tits: 4,595	Can a girl get a hug? Jan 19, 2015 22:51:00 GMT -5 Post by meredithcarole on Jan 19, 2015 22:51:00 GMT -5 I am so sorry for your loss. (((Hugs)))
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menrandes Platinum Trophy Posts: 2,624 Love-Tits: 6,419	Can a girl get a hug? Jan 19, 2015 22:51:58 GMT -5 Post by menrandes on Jan 19, 2015 22:51:58 GMT -5 I am so so sorry to hear that. big hugs
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Post by juliern on Jan 19, 2015 22:53:26 GMT -5

Lots of hugs. I'm sorry for your loss.

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*All Welcome*
BFP #1: January 31st 2012: CP.
BFP #2: June 1st 2012, Due:2/8/13. Born 2/13/13
BFP #3: Sept. 25th, 2014. Due: 6/5/15. MMC on 10/23/14. Confirmed
complete molar pregnancy per D&C 10/29/14

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BFP#4: June 10th, 2015, Due: 2/18/16
F16 Siggy Challenge: Summer Treats

Ann612 Platinum Trophy Posts: 3,457 Love-Tits: 9,094	Can a girl get a hug? Jan 19, 2015 23:01:17 GMT -5 Post by Ann612 on Jan 19, 2015 23:01:17 GMT -5 of course you can ((hugs))! You're not an awful person. It's a lot to handle and of course it will impact you. I hope you find some time for yourself.
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rubysi Gold Trophy Posts: 1,855 Love-Tits: 6,821	Can a girl get a hug? Jan 19, 2015 23:18:49 GMT -5 Post by rubysi on Jan 19, 2015 23:18:49 GMT -5 ((Hugs))
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mrsk91011 Gold Trophy Posts: 1,859 Love-Tits: 4,543	Can a girl get a hug? Jan 19, 2015 23:19:00 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Post by mrsk91011 on Jan 19, 2015 23:19:00 GMT -5 I am so sorry for your loss ((hugs))
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Post by glb30 on Jan 19, 2015 23:19:03 GMT -5

(((Hugs))) so sorry for your loss, but glad your found us.

Don't beat yourself up abt not being the best stepmom right now. Taking care of yourself is always one of the best gifts you can give your loved ones.

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**ALL WELCOME**

Warning- Losses Mentioned.

11/12: BFP, m/c 7 wks.

10/13: BFP, m/c 8 wks.

10/14: Dx. unexplained infertility

05/15 IUI #1: BFN
07/15 IVF #1, BFP - M/C, 5 weeks.
11/15 FET #1: BFN
7/16: FET #2: BFP

Our rainbow DD was born 2/22/17, after 4 years of TTC and
4 early losses.

mellymel15 Our little lady is here! Platinum Trophy Posts: 2,738 Love-Tits: 6,654	Can a girl get a hug? Jan 19, 2015 23:42:54 GMT -5 via mobile Post by mellymel15 on Jan 19, 2015 23:42:54 GMT -5 I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending you hugs.
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mrsb22 Gold Trophy Posts: 1,287 Love-Tits: 3,251	Can a girl get a hug? Jan 19, 2015 23:48:52 GMT -5 Post by mrsb22 on Jan 19, 2015 23:48:52 GMT -5 So sorry for your loss (((hugs)))
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littlemrsw Bronze Trophy Posts: 181 Love-Tits: 397	Can a girl get a hug? Jan 20, 2015 0:26:09 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Post by littlemrsw on Jan 20, 2015 0:26:09 GMT -5 Big ((hugs)). I'm so sorry for your loss.
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elliecat17 Gold Trophy Posts: 1,555 Love-Tits: 3,353	Can a girl get a hug? Jan 20, 2015 6:42:42 GMT -5 Post by elliecat17 on Jan 20, 2015 6:42:42 GMT -5 ((hugs)) Sorry for your loss.
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rmpar29 Gold Trophy Posts: 2,183 Love-Tits: 3,847	Can a girl get a hug? Jan 20, 2015 7:28:38 GMT -5 Post by rmpar29 on Jan 20, 2015 7:28:38 GMT -5 I'm so sorry for your loss. ((((HUGS)))) Be kind to yourself.
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Post by therealbug on Jan 20, 2015 7:40:55 GMT -5

I'm so sorry for your loss ((((hugs))))

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BFP1 6/8/12 EDD 2/7/13 Zachary Donald born 9/22/2012 at 20 weeks. You will forever be in our heart.

BFP2 12/21/12 EDD 08/27/13, CP@4w6d
BFP3 01/21/13 EDD 10/02/13, M/C 02/26/13
FET#1 w/2 DEmb, BFP! EDD 06/06/16, M/C 10/08/15
FET #2 w/2 DEmb, BFP at 5dp5dt, EDD 1/22/17, strong hb at 6w3d, no hb at 7w4d

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holdingouthope Who has two thumbs and really needs a nap? This girl! Gold Trophy Posts: 1,901 Love-Tits: 5,326	Can a girl get a hug? Jan 20, 2015 7:53:38 GMT -5 Post by holdingouthope on Jan 20, 2015 7:53:38 GMT -5 Big (((hugs))). I'm so sorry for your loss.
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EmeraldEyes85 Silver Trophy Posts: 710 Love-Tits: 1,185	Can a girl get a hug? Jan 20, 2015 8:50:01 GMT -5 Post by EmeraldEyes85 on Jan 20, 2015 8:50:01 GMT -5 I'm so sorry for your loss. Keeping you in my thoughts.xx
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mrspipp Silver Trophy Posts: 688 Love-Tits: 1,967	Can a girl get a hug? Jan 20, 2015 9:36:01 GMT -5 Post by mrspipp on Jan 20, 2015 9:36:01 GMT -5 I'm so sorry for your loss ((hugs))
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kellybenelly83 Platinum Trophy Posts: 4,125 Love-Tits: 16,814	Can a girl get a hug? Jan 20, 2015 10:17:02 GMT -5 Post by kellybenelly83 on Jan 20, 2015 10:17:02 GMT -5 ((hugs)) I'm really sorry Take the time you need to need to heal, dont beat yourself up.
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Post by nikolie93 on Jan 20, 2015 10:19:00 GMT -5

I'm so sorry hon. So many *hugs* for you

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CAL Sept Siggy Challenge- hot people with animals

Married 01-04-2013
*AMA* 40 in June 2015
**1-19-15 Childless, not by choice"

1st EDD- 12-02-13 MC 5/1/13 @4w6d
2nd EDD 11-13-14 MC 4/15/14: discovered 1st twin @5w 2nd twin @10w
3Rd BFP- 10-10-14 EDD 6/16/15: MC 10-16-14 @5w2d

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cavewmn Come on Friday! Platinum Trophy Posts: 3,748 Love-Tits: 7,509	Can a girl get a hug? Jan 20, 2015 10:29:35 GMT -5 Post by cavewmn on Jan 20, 2015 10:29:35 GMT -5 I'm sorry for you loss. huggles
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