We havnt had one of these in a long time so spill it!
I finally went to the gyno yesterday because of how painful sex is and it turns out I have scar tissue from my tear. She gave me a cream but I'm highly pessimistic it will help. I really miss sexy time.
I'm having serious hormone shifts. Probably I'm just getting my first post partum period. But after having two oops pregnancies, I can't suppress the fear I'm pregnant. The timing would be right for when we last had sex. DH's V was verified in November, so there should be no chance, but I'm still fixated. If my period doesn't show up soon I'm going to have to buy a test soon, but the idea of buying a test while carrying DD in the infant seat just makes me cringe.
It hurts to use a tampon. This is probably why I am afraid to have sex as well.
it feels kind wierd ever since giving birth to us a tampon as well. like doesnt hurt but just doesnt feel like its in there as it should be. Very annoying!
Even so, sex doesnt hurt for me. It feels gooooooooood! Hopefully youll find it to be the same for you!
Married to my soulmate April 19, 2013.
Mother to 2 angel babies - Rue & Seahorse, Always in my thoughts
Mother to my rainbow baby Emily - born July 31 2014, Always making me smile
I alternate between thinking the smell of my dried breastmilk (on like nursing pads or the occasional leaks on my bra, etc.) is totally gross or kinda good. Wtf.
Oh, also, I'm really worried about using my menstrual cup for the first time PP. My period's not back yet, so now it's been 15 months without using it, and like... I imagine I might have forgotten how to insert the thing, or it'll be the wrong size, or my body has changed and it won't work anymore.
I have been trying to have sex with hubby daily for a week or so to jumpstart my sex drive (Thank you, Steve Harvey Show for that suggestion). It seems to be working but my lady bits are not too happy. The soreness, my god.... My body may never be the same.
We are on the road to head off on our first family vacation. I'm getting car sick typing this.
I'm with you on the soreness Chrisse. I had my IUD interred Friday, I agreed let a student insert the spectrum and it must have been her first time. Or she must not have a vagina because she tried to split me in two with it. Then my cervix was apparently bobbing around so they had to use a tenaculum to hold it still, which punctured it. Then DH and I had some rough sex a few times yesterday. I'm lucky I'm walking around today.
That visit sounds like the stuff of nightmares! (And good on you for the other activities )
I'm with you on the soreness Chrisse. I had my IUD interred Friday, I agreed let a student insert the spectrum and it must have been her first time. Or she must not have a vagina because she tried to split me in two with it. Then my cervix was apparently bobbing around so they had to use a tenaculum to hold it still, which punctured it. Then DH and I had some rough sex a few times yesterday. I'm lucky I'm walking around today.
I had to cross my legs while reading this. I had a student poking my stomach trying to feel baby's head when I was PG and I wanted to punch her in the face. And I had a resident stitch me up after DS1 was born. Never again will they be allowed in my business.
Post by toratoratori on Jan 20, 2015 12:55:04 GMT -5
I have my second PP period and totally forgot what periods are like so of course I have no pads or tampons with me at work. Ughhh.
Also, all y'all doin' sexy time, please remind me that it's fun? My husband has been on my case lately but I am just so tired I can't even fathom having to do additional things besides eat, sleep, and take care of this baby.
Post by skylark002 on Jan 20, 2015 14:17:16 GMT -5
I had a student do my epidural!! I didn't realize until he was actually inserting it and the doctor started giving instructions on what to do. I was like wtf!!!!
Married to my soulmate April 19, 2013.
Mother to 2 angel babies - Rue & Seahorse, Always in my thoughts
Mother to my rainbow baby Emily - born July 31 2014, Always making me smile
I forgot I have the best TMI and the hair loss post reminded me. I once pooped and could feel a hair tickling my butthole as it came out wrapped around the poo. PP hair loss is a real problem.
I glanced at my body in the mirror before showering and almost cried. My boobs are like fat pancakes hanging off my armpits.
Me too.
Tampons still feel freaking weird. Which itself is weird because I didn't have a vaginal birth this time.
My hedge has gone from 'hedge' to full on rainforest. I'm actually afraid to trim it because DH's trimmers need new blades and I'm worried that I'll break it or something-- but I don't want to tell him to get new blades (he doesn't shave in the winter) because he doesn't know that I use it. Gross, I know, but its just that one thing that we don't talk about! At least I'm really careful about cleaning it out when I'm done.
Seriously, I've got so much vag juice going on down there, it makes pregnancy swamp crotch seem like a walk in the park. Part of me is actually worried. The only time I ever get that much yuck is pregnant. But I already had to go into the store with then baby DS on my hip to buy a pregnancy test when I was pregnant with A. I can't imagine having to do it again with baby A and toddler DS! I think I'll have to start ordering them on amazon just so I don't have to see people.(minervamae)
I use DH'S shaver as well. When he found out, he complained "But those go on my face. " I responded "Well, so doesn't this"
I glanced at my body in the mirror before showering and almost cried. My boobs are like fat pancakes hanging off my armpits.
Me too.
Tampons still feel freaking weird. Which itself is weird because I didn't have a vaginal birth this time.
My hedge has gone from 'hedge' to full on rainforest. I'm actually afraid to trim it because DH's trimmers need new blades and I'm worried that I'll break it or something-- but I don't want to tell him to get new blades (he doesn't shave in the winter) because he doesn't know that I use it. Gross, I know, but its just that one thing that we don't talk about! At least I'm really careful about cleaning it out when I'm done.
Seriously, I've got so much vag juice going on down there, it makes pregnancy swamp crotch seem like a walk in the park. Part of me is actually worried. The only time I ever get that much yuck is pregnant. But I already had to go into the store with then baby DS on my hip to buy a pregnancy test when I was pregnant with A. I can't imagine having to do it again with baby A and toddler DS! I think I'll have to start ordering them on amazon just so I don't have to see people.(minervamae)
Yeah, I just told DH to pick one up. I don't want to be buying one with a 4 yo, 2 yo and 5 mo. Can you imagine the looks?
I've been obsessing all day. I almost talked myself into going and getting one rather than waiting for DH as he won't be home until midnight. I think sanity has returned. I wouldn't have time to pee by myself until tomorrow anyway.
I have so many ingrown hairs right now that my vag looks like a war zone. Also because I am trying to not make them any worse there is no landscaping happening so in reality it looks like a sasquatch that was shot multiple times with a pellet gun. UGH!
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