Post by leahks77 on Apr 10, 2015 13:18:31 GMT -5
Hi ladies. I'm so sad to be here, but I think this board is where I need to be right now. I have hung out on CAL and GKU but so much of my life and emotions revolve around my son at this moment and I would never dream of hurting anyone there... I am so grateful that this is here today.
My story... SO and I have a wonderful 20mo DS. He's my joy and light and the happiest kiddo. I would be truly lost without him. We starting TFAS in August (I stopped BC the day he turned 1 in the end of July). We were so lucky to get pregnant in Sept. All went so well at first, baby looked great, had a HB, measured on track. Then at 11wks there was no growth. I had a d&c at 12wks. We were cleared again in Jan, and got pregnant again in March. I was shocked and thrilled and scared, but kept breathing. I started spotting yesterday and just knew. Betas came back at 12 at 5wks 2days and I've been bleeding ever since.
These past 6 months have been so hard. My mom was diagnosed with cancer, and went through chemo and surgery and more chemo, (although she just had a clear scan a couple weeks ago, thank goodness). We lost a dear dear friend, my "other mother", very suddenly a month ago to a freak complication of the flu. It has been unreal. And now the second loss... Right now I'm so scared that all this sadness is making me a bad mother. That he's going to sense it and it's going to hurt him. And that makes me cry more. Also, my friends who I have told about both losses just don't seem to know what to do with me this time... Like I'm broken and there isn't anything to say anymore. And maybe I feel that way too.
Ugh. I'm so sorry this got so long. So many treats and wine to anyone who got through this. I think I really needed to get all that out. Thank you all for being here. I hate that we are. But it means so so much.
My story... SO and I have a wonderful 20mo DS. He's my joy and light and the happiest kiddo. I would be truly lost without him. We starting TFAS in August (I stopped BC the day he turned 1 in the end of July). We were so lucky to get pregnant in Sept. All went so well at first, baby looked great, had a HB, measured on track. Then at 11wks there was no growth. I had a d&c at 12wks. We were cleared again in Jan, and got pregnant again in March. I was shocked and thrilled and scared, but kept breathing. I started spotting yesterday and just knew. Betas came back at 12 at 5wks 2days and I've been bleeding ever since.
These past 6 months have been so hard. My mom was diagnosed with cancer, and went through chemo and surgery and more chemo, (although she just had a clear scan a couple weeks ago, thank goodness). We lost a dear dear friend, my "other mother", very suddenly a month ago to a freak complication of the flu. It has been unreal. And now the second loss... Right now I'm so scared that all this sadness is making me a bad mother. That he's going to sense it and it's going to hurt him. And that makes me cry more. Also, my friends who I have told about both losses just don't seem to know what to do with me this time... Like I'm broken and there isn't anything to say anymore. And maybe I feel that way too.
Ugh. I'm so sorry this got so long. So many treats and wine to anyone who got through this. I think I really needed to get all that out. Thank you all for being here. I hate that we are. But it means so so much.