The 14 day agonizing and nerve wracking mindfuck 4/28-5/5

[wannabmama]

Let's go ladies. This is the place you can talk about all the craziness that comes with the dreaded two week wait. Phantom symptoms, implantation dips and possible spotting, what you are doing to make the time fly by, and much much more. Post as often or as little as you want. We are here for you. Chart stalks available upon request or if there is a link, we may look just to pass the time or out of curiosity. Gifs are also welcome.

GTKY: What is your favorite way to spend a warm weekend day?

[happyktmom]

I have to again praise the title of this thread! It's so right on!

Sooooo, I am CD20 5dpo. I get my beta drawn 5/5 morning and am hosting a Cinco de Mayo party for clients that evening, so I'll probably get the call while I'm there. So, either I walk in and double fist margaritas or I get to cry happy tears and just smile and glow for the evening. I'm praying for the latter, although I'm a bit pessimistic this month.
DH was not uh em, 'productive', this month. Meaning he wasn't able to ejaculate during sex, so I sent him off to deposit into a soft cup loaded with Preseed in which I would then insert for the night with hips elevated. This happened O-3, O-1 and O day.
I was having sharp spurts of pain on my right side when sneezing yesterday and kind of got my hopes up. I remember that feeling like mittelschmerz, which I sometimes get, and round ligament pain, which is waaaaay too early. Either way, hopes are high. I have been super crampy and breasts tender this am, but I am doing progesterone suppositories.
I don't have enough wondfo's to test out my trigger, so I'm going to try to withhold POAS this month. Is that even possible? I have 2 wondfo's and a Clearblue Easy Digital for some reason?

I have already decided if I don't have a BFP this month, I'm putting myself in a time out from ALL of it for next month. DH is still against IUI. Maybe I can change his mind by June

GTKY: Warm weekend days? I love bee bopping around my yard planting things and making the yard pretty. I also miss winery hopping on these kinds of days. Virginians looooove their wine!

[wannabmama]

happyktmom fx for happy cinco de mayo news!
I lived in Virginia most of my life and miss the winery weekend days (and so much else about VA!)

[URMySunshine77]

I go here now. I think I'm going into 2DPO on Saturday. I had strange period-like cramps today, so I've already boarded the crazy train in this 2WW. I don't even have cramps during my period anymore.

So here's a question--do you think that the egg is still viable as long as we have fertile CM? We had sex on the morning of ovulation day, so now I'm wondering if those sperm might have made it to the egg. I had fertile CM all day.

[agpjt413]

May 2, 2015 1:26:44 GMT -5 URMySunshine77 said:

I go here now. I think I'm going into 2DPO on Saturday. I had strange period-like cramps today, so I've already boarded the crazy train in this 2WW. I don't even have cramps during my period anymore.

So here's a question--do you think that the egg is still viable as long as we have fertile CM? We had sex on the morning of ovulation day, so now I'm wondering if those sperm might have made it to the egg. I had fertile CM all day.

I'm so hoping it is!!! FX'd for everyone in the 2WW!!!

[wannabmama]

URMySunshine77 I have definitely read that O day and sometimes even O +1 can be fertile days. I know you can have ewcm anytime so it's not necessarily true that anytime you have it you're fertile but O day seems like a good day and presence of ewcm means your body is sayin' "hey there swimmers, come right this way..." fx for you!!

[luvmyponies]

Just want to wish all you ladies in the TWW good luck! I haven't been in the TWW in a while... just started IVF, so I'm hoping to join you here in the next couple of weeks!

[hauteone]

Ok! officially 2 days late but I am freaking out! I am in the midst of job searching and if this BFP happens I am so screwed with job change, career etc...but then I won't care as I will have the most precious job in the world ever!

I know I should just go to the pharmacy and POAS already but I don't want to be disappointed. I mean we did not time sex and nor did we do it often enough so I know chances are really low- it wont be anything short of a miracle if it happens- maybe I will wait say 5 DPO?

[rnmommy]

URMySunshine77, We *only* BD on Ovulation day and I never had EWCM this cycle, only watery. FX for all of you!

[lolbraun]

hauteone- my good friend got pregnant the month she and DH only had sex once and it wasn't even at the best time! Fingers crossed this is your month!!!

[hauteone]

May 7, 2015 7:36:07 GMT -5 lolbraun said:

hauteone- my good friend got pregnant the month she and DH only had sex once and it wasn't even at the best time! Fingers crossed this is your month!!!

lolbraun, aw thanks you are sweet!

Yeah still no sign of aunt flow but have absolutely no other symptoms so am not keep high hopes but deep down I cannot wait. I ordered some cheap pregnancy tests in bulk from amazon yesterday that arrive tomorrow as I don't want to go through waiting again.  (Yes I know the pharmacy is just down the street and it will take a min to run there and just get a freaking test but I think I like this sweet torcher of not knowing just yet.-Officially declared myself crazy!)

BOL to all others waiting to find out!

[scorpioscuba]

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