Except! I just had to use our bathroom... And I'm home alone. And the cleaners just showed up and always clean that bathroom first. I thought I had another hour to air it out! I would have used a different bathroom. Gross.
ETA: they are cleaning the bedroom, not the bathroom. They walked in and said NOPE.
FFFC: When people say they had sex, but didn't use BC, and "fingers are crossed!" I am like "how on earth?" I mean. SERIOUSLY. I'm one of the crazies that wants pregnant again soon, and just NO.
But we know I'm weird about sex to begin with.
It's incredibly irresponsible IMO unless you don't care if you get pregnant. I would sew my vagina shut if I weren't on BC.
I can't do birth control. I've tried everything. I hate it. It fucks with my body. I get horrible acne no matter how high or low the dose of hormones is. That being said we use condoms. And every single time I'm like CONDOM. No more babies! I don't chance it and hope it works out ok.
pnwlover12, I can see where you are coming from. Not the same but sometimes I wish I hadn't seen my great grandma towards the end of her life because she was not the person I knew and loved and it was worse than her dying.
Please note that I was not a care giver and she was not part of my daily life so in no way to I think I felt the same pain but I do get it.
I hate that your dad has given up and also won't let you get him help.
Saturday was the last day of AF. It was super super light/barely still there, but I still wore a tampon. So when it came time to bang, I just took it out and threw it in the yard of the construction house.
The guy that finds it is going to be so horrified. Like... This will scare him for life.
I've been having a really hard time since my dad's stroke. He is such a different man, now. His language skills are now pretty terrible, he can barely walk without using a walker, but the hardest thing is that he doesn't seem to care about us (family) anymore. My dad and I have always had an amazing relationship. He even bought a house just 10 blocks away from us so he could be closer to us and his grandkids. Since his stroke, he has made zero effort to talk to me or see us. When I call or text, I get one word, basic answers. I also think he resents me for calling 911, because I honestly think he wishes he would have rather died from his stroke, than be trapped inside a body that doesn't work, unable to communicate as well as he understands things in his own head. My brother told me that about a week ago, my dad called him and asked him to come over to help him because he had fallen and was having a hard time getting back up. My brother was working two hours away so he wasn't able to and told him to call me. When my brother called back a half an hour later to check on him, my dad said he never called me because he knew that I would "just call 911". What the fuck, dad?
I forgot to add the confession part.
Anyway, I'm struggling because I don't want my dad to pass away and me regret not spending every single minute I could with him when I had the chance. But he is making it so hard to be around him, that I've sort of given up. I still call and text, but it's like he's just gone. An empty shell of who he used to be. It breaks my heart even being in the same room as him.
I just want to say I'm really sorry and understand what you are going through. My dad passed away two months ago and I have a lot of regret that I didn't try harder to see him more. People tend to take out their frustrations on the ones they love and know will stand by their side no matter what and that sounds like what your dad is doing even if he doesn't realize it. If it were me knowing how I feel now, I would keep trying and at the very least you know that he knows you love him and you have done everything you can. That's just my unsolicited two cents and I really hope things get better for him and for you and your family.
Mine is a "I'm ashamed that I'm judgy, but I am" confession: My hairdresser/friend met me for lunch this week and told me she's pregnant and due in early September. She just got engaged on New Years, and if you do the math... I have other friends who had babes out of wedlock, and I'm very liberal, but I still feel icky about it. I'll support her in every way possible, so I'm not going to do anything other than silently be a teensy bit judgy.
It's incredibly irresponsible IMO unless you don't care if you get pregnant. I would sew my vagina shut if I weren't on BC.
I can't do birth control. I've tried everything. I hate it. It fucks with my body. I get horrible acne no matter how high or low the dose of hormones is. That being said we use condoms. And every single time I'm like CONDOM. No more babies! I don't chance it and hope it works out ok.
BCP mess with me, also. I was on them from 16 until DH and I started trying the first time due to heavy periods. When I was put back on them after my first miscarriage, it was awful.
That being said, I didn't mean to imply we went "fuck it" and didn't bother. It was spur of the moment. I know I'm a fucking idiot for letting it happen no matter how you look at it. I shouldn't have let it get that far, no matter that it was only our third attempt in about 9 months.
Mine is a "I'm ashamed that I'm judgy, but I am" confession: My hairdresser/friend met me for lunch this week and told me she's pregnant and due in early September. She just got engaged on New Years, and if you do the math... I have other friends who had babes out of wedlock, and I'm very liberal, but I still feel icky about it. I'll support her in every way possible, so I'm not going to do anything other than silently be a teensy bit judgy.
But if you do the math.. isn't it possible she didn't know yet by the time she got engaged?
I can't do birth control. I've tried everything. I hate it. It fucks with my body. I get horrible acne no matter how high or low the dose of hormones is. That being said we use condoms. And every single time I'm like CONDOM. No more babies! I don't chance it and hope it works out ok.
BCP mess with me, also. I was on them from 16 until DH and I started trying the first time due to heavy periods. When I was put back on them after my first miscarriage, it was awful.
That being said, I didn't mean to imply we went "fuck it" and didn't bother. It was spur of the moment. I know I'm a fucking idiot for letting it happen no matter how you look at it. I shouldn't have let it get that far, no matter that it was only our third attempt in about 9 months.
I've been with DH for 15 years so we don't really have "spur of the moment" encounters but NO!
Mine is a "I'm ashamed that I'm judgy, but I am" confession: My hairdresser/friend met me for lunch this week and told me she's pregnant and due in early September. She just got engaged on New Years, and if you do the math... I have other friends who had babes out of wedlock, and I'm very liberal, but I still feel icky about it. I'll support her in every way possible, so I'm not going to do anything other than silently be a teensy bit judgy.
Interesting. So you think people should be married before they have kids together?
Mine is a "I'm ashamed that I'm judgy, but I am" confession: My hairdresser/friend met me for lunch this week and told me she's pregnant and due in early September. She just got engaged on New Years, and if you do the math... I have other friends who had babes out of wedlock, and I'm very liberal, but I still feel icky about it. I'll support her in every way possible, so I'm not going to do anything other than silently be a teensy bit judgy.
LOL at "having a baby out of wedlock". Didn't realize I woke up this morning in 1950.
Mine is a "I'm ashamed that I'm judgy, but I am" confession: My hairdresser/friend met me for lunch this week and told me she's pregnant and due in early September. She just got engaged on New Years, and if you do the math... I have other friends who had babes out of wedlock, and I'm very liberal, but I still feel icky about it. I'll support her in every way possible, so I'm not going to do anything other than silently be a teensy bit judgy.
Interesting. So you think people should be married before they have kids together?
Mine is a "I'm ashamed that I'm judgy, but I am" confession: My hairdresser/friend met me for lunch this week and told me she's pregnant and due in early September. She just got engaged on New Years, and if you do the math... I have other friends who had babes out of wedlock, and I'm very liberal, but I still feel icky about it. I'll support her in every way possible, so I'm not going to do anything other than silently be a teensy bit judgy.
I had my first baby out of wedlock. I give no fucks and we waited 2 years before we married.
Post by mrssarahrenee on May 8, 2015 13:08:35 GMT -5
Who says wedlock anymore? Even just the word makes me feel icky. Way more icky than people have babies in committed relationships but aren't Locked up in a Wedded state.
Mine is a "I'm ashamed that I'm judgy, but I am" confession: My hairdresser/friend met me for lunch this week and told me she's pregnant and due in early September. She just got engaged on New Years, and if you do the math... I have other friends who had babes out of wedlock, and I'm very liberal, but I still feel icky about it. I'll support her in every way possible, so I'm not going to do anything other than silently be a teensy bit judgy.
Dude. Why does it matter? They're engaged to be married anyway, not like it matters in the first place.
Mine is a "I'm ashamed that I'm judgy, but I am" confession: My hairdresser/friend met me for lunch this week and told me she's pregnant and due in early September. She just got engaged on New Years, and if you do the math... I have other friends who had babes out of wedlock, and I'm very liberal, but I still feel icky about it. I'll support her in every way possible, so I'm not going to do anything other than silently be a teensy bit judgy.
Now I know I don't post here much anymore, but JFC. You're batting 1,000.
Still laughing about the wedlock thing. I seriously do not understand why in 2015 we still give a flying fuck. People can go to Vegas and get married in 2 seconds and divorce just as fast. There are marriage shows on TV where people get married who have never even MET until they walk down the isle. WTF is so sanctimonious about marriage anymore?
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