Post by towerclimberswife on Jan 21, 2015 21:20:25 GMT -5
The one where I didn't know I was on a date until the guy I was on told me that it was a date... My bad. I just bet him lunch that the Lions wouldn't win the football game we were all watching.
It was a pretty good date at the time. What I found out after the date made it my worst date. Met a guy online that was stationed nearby for a few months and met up with him. We had a great time. Fooled around some, but nothing major...thank goodness. Because the bastard was married. Which I found out a few days later from his wife who sent me threatening messages. Good times.
I have to say it was my very first date from match.com
We had been chatting and he asked if I wanted to go to dinner and I said yes. The day came and he asked where I wanted to go and even though I was being indecisive he told me to pick. I picked Bahama Breeze and he said no, let's go to Lee Roy Selmons. That should have been a red flag but I'm dumb.
So, we were chatting on AIM leading up to the date that day. I told him I was starving because I skipped lunch.
I got to the restaurant and he's at the bar, already looks like he's been there drinking a while. Red flag #2? I'm still dumb.
We talked for a while and he asked what I wanted to do and I told him I wanted to eat (wtf, I told you I was starving). For some reason we went outside and he walked to his car. I told him let's eat and then talk about where we wanted to go afterward.
He said, "do you want to go watch a movie at my place? I live right there." he then pointed to apartments in walking distance. I then got a bit undumb and realized that's why he picked that restaurant. I said no, I'd rather eat and he got in his car and drove away.
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It was a pretty good date at the time. What I found out after the date made it my worst date. Met a guy online that was stationed nearby for a few months and met up with him. We had a great time. Fooled around some, but nothing major...thank goodness. Because the bastard was married. Which I found out a few days later from his wife who sent me threatening messages. Good times.
I dated a guy once for a year and a half. I stayed the night in his house, even had clothes there. Come to find he was married the entire time. Both were in the military and so was stationed in another state. Asshole
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It was a blind date my aunt set me up on. We met for lunch and he tried to impress me with his wealth. The cost of his clothes, his furniture and the waterfall he wanted to put on his bedroom wall. We then went to a Renaissance Fair and it started to rain. He pushed me out of the way to run under a tent. Meanwhile I was getting soaked in a white T-shirt since he took the last spot available. Another huge biker guy let me in like a gentleman. We then walked around for another hour or so and went home.
He was upset and pestered my aunt about why I didn't want a second date.
About three months after I lost everything in a really bad fire, I started to online date in the new town I relocated to in an effort to meet new people. I was nothing but upfront with the guys I talked to about my situation because I was really fragile at the time. A guy I met on okcupid was really receptive to what I had going on and planned a surprise "romantic night" where he took me to a fire-themed bar. It had framed photos of burning buildings, a converted fire truck as the actual bar, red and white lighting, fire fighting gear as decor.....
I know there's a lot of us that did Internet dating. Does anyone remember LavaLife?! Is that still around?! Lol Well it was a dude I had met on LavaLife during the dawn of Internet dating. I think his name was Brian, but when my gfs and reminisce about bad dates, we call him the barker. He was a Berklee grad (classical musician) & really cool/interesting - wore a bunch of different fedoras every time I saw him and he was into poetry slam (which was different for me, but thought I'd give it a try). Anyway, the first few dates were ok, actually. Then, one night, he just got WEIRD! We went to this hole in the wall Guatemalan restaurant right outside of DC. After we ordered, he started barking...LOUD! These little kids were sitting at a table close by and turned to look then the dude pointed at ME?! WTF?! I still can't believe I sat through the entire meal...but I never saw him again. And yes, he barked sporadically throughout dinner!
Another one I have was a group date (sorta). Went to a Korean karaoke place (thinking about you renegadewhit!), with a gf and her roommate. It was a blind date and I met the dude & his friend there. Turns out my date apparently raped my friend's roommate a couple of years back! Talk about an "OMG - should we call the cops?!" moment! She was freaking out, pointed at him & screamed so loud. He totally left w/o saying goodbye. It was so, so weird!
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Post by mflowers929 on Jan 21, 2015 21:43:14 GMT -5
I had a tendency to meet guys online when I was younger, so both of mine were stemmed from that.
#1 - I don't even know how, but this guy randomly started talking to me on MSN. He seemed nice enough, so we talked for a bit and then he asked to meet up with me. I was a bit weirded out, but told him he could meet me and my friends at Rocky Horror. The night came and I was dressed up nice-ish, but still, I was going to Rocky Horror, so I borrowed some boots from my friend with like a 2" heel. I was already 5'4" at the time. Turns out this guys is Brazilian, barely speaks English, and is like 5'2". I just got really spooked, ran into the bathroom, and told my friends to get rid of him. He messaged me the next day apologizing and asking if I wanted to try again. I never messaged him back
#2 - I don't remember how I met this kid, probably through a friend of a friend of a friend, but we had been talking all summer. At the beginning of the school year, I finally agreed to meet up with him, and drove the hour to pick him up. Turns out he doesn't look anything like his picture (like probably 50 lbs heavier), and all he wanted to do was go parking and was really aggressive about it. Yeah, no thanks, especially because I had just gotten out of the relationship with my ex who was sexually abusive. Dropped him off like half an hour later and cried most of the way home.
I don't really have bad date stories, but maybe not a date so much as a creepy try at one. 4:30 in the morning, coming down to workout at my apartment and the downstairs neighbor I have seen maybe 2 times in my whole 2 months there makes conversation. Talk about tennis and he mentions it is on and asks if I want to come in and watch it. Hello, stranger danger! So I say no thanks need to go work out maybe some other time. Come back from the workout room to find a note taped to my door with the following "I can think of a better way to work out. Come on down when you are done." I'm all WTF? Eww no, and turns out he has a girlfriend making him a total douche. Thank gosh he moved a few months later. It was an awkward few months.
littlecabbage1019 clueless. We had really hit it off over message and text - and he wanted to take me to his favorite place in the city. He knew what I had been through but I think he was just so pumped about sharing his neighborhood bar that he forgot the reason I relocated to begin with. He also wore sweatpants to the date. Dear god why?!
I don't really have bad date stories, but maybe not a date so much as a creepy try at one. 4:30 in the morning, coming down to workout at my apartment and the downstairs neighbor I have seen maybe 2 times in my whole 2 months there makes conversation. Talk about tennis and he mentions it is on and asks if I want to come in and watch it. Hello, stranger danger! So I say no thanks need to go work out maybe some other time. Come back from the workout room to find a note taped to my door with the following "I can think of a better way to work out. Come on down when you are done." I'm all WTF? Eww no, and turns out he has a girlfriend making him a total douche. Thank gosh he moved a few months later. It was an awkward few months.
On my worst date, I was the one that made it awful. It was sort of a blind date. The guy was cute and really nice. However, I had stayed up all night the night before working on homework. We're talking an all nighter. During our date we went to the movies where I proceeded to fall asleep. I was fighting it so hard but my head would nod every couple of minutes. I apologized profusely and was so embarrased. We never went on another date.
Me: 27 DH: 35 MFI, failed vas-reversal TTC since 2011 Met RE 7/2012 6 failed IUIs 9/2014 IUI BFP, MMC @12 weeks, natural mc @ home 11/18/2014 01/2015 IUI, BFP, CP 2/2015 IUI, BFP, due 11/14/15 delivered 9/8/15 via emergency CS for severe preeclampsia. Currently in the NICU.
I have to say it was my very first date from match.com
We had been chatting and he asked if I wanted to go to dinner and I said yes. The day came and he asked where I wanted to go and even though I was being indecisive he told me to pick. I picked Bahama Breeze and he said no, let's go to Lee Roy Selmons. That should have been a red flag but I'm dumb.
So, we were chatting on AIM leading up to the date that day. I told him I was starving because I skipped lunch.
I got to the restaurant and he's at the bar, already looks like he's been there drinking a while. Red flag #2? I'm still dumb.
We talked for a while and he asked what I wanted to do and I told him I wanted to eat (wtf, I told you I was starving). For some reason we went outside and he walked to his car. I told him let's eat and then talk about where we wanted to go afterward.
He said, "do you want to go watch a movie at my place? I live right there." he then pointed to apartments in walking distance. I then got a bit undumb and realized that's why he picked that restaurant. I said no, I'd rather eat and he got in his car and drove away.
I was talking with this guy online when I was a senior in high school. He was from like three hours away and I knew it probably wasn't going anywhere. We had texted back and forth and talked about hanging out, but nothing ever set in stone.
Well, one Saturday, I get this phone call from an unknown number and it was the guy. He was in my town and had wanted to hang out. I was so shocked that I didn't know what to do, so I brougt my sister with and went into town to meet him. It was something straight out of Catfish. He wasn't who I had seen in pictures. He was supposed to be this cute blond hair, blue eyed guy. Instead he was this large guy with dark hair, thick glasses, and smelled like old shoes.
I tried to be really nice since he has came since a long way, but it was seriously the most awkward date, if that's what you would even call it. He kept on trying to hug/touch me and I made my sister be between us so he would leave me alone. i finally told him that I wasn't really interested and that I had a boyfriend just to get him to leave alone. He did leave, but then tried following my sister and I home, so we had to lose him. We never talked again after that.
I had diarrhea in my underwear on a date due to an intense round of antibiotics and had to be taken back to my dorm room to clean up because I got my "period". That guy is now my H and he thinks the truth about that day is hilarious.
I was talking with this guy online when I was a senior in high school. He was from like three hours away and I knew it probably wasn't going anywhere. We had texted back and forth and talked about hanging out, but nothing ever set in stone.
Well, one Saturday, I get this phone call from an unknown number and it was the guy. He was in my town and had wanted to hang out. I was so shocked that I didn't know what to do, so I brougt my sister with and went into town to meet him. It was something straight out of Catfish. He wasn't who I had seen in pictures. He was supposed to be this cute blond hair, blue eyed guy. Instead he was this large guy with dark hair, thick glasses, and smelled like old shoes.
I tried to be really nice since he has came since a long way, but it was seriously the most awkward date, if that's what you would even call it. He kept on trying to hug/touch me and I made my sister be between us so he would leave me alone. i finally told him that I wasn't really interested and that I had a boyfriend just to get him to leave alone. He did leave, but then tried following my sister and I home, so we had to lose him. We never talked again after that.
9th grade...this guy that was a junior asked me out and I didn't realize that he was asking me out on a date. I fought him for the right to pay for my movie and pretzel. At the end of the night after we had gotten ice cream, I made it extremely clear that I thought we were just friends....and he put his ice cream / cone in his pocket and walked away, leaving me without a ride home. I had to call my mom and tell her I needed a ride home because my date stuck ice cream down his pants and ditched me...
I was talking with this guy online when I was a senior in high school. He was from like three hours away and I knew it probably wasn't going anywhere. We had texted back and forth and talked about hanging out, but nothing ever set in stone.
Well, one Saturday, I get this phone call from an unknown number and it was the guy. He was in my town and had wanted to hang out. I was so shocked that I didn't know what to do, so I brougt my sister with and went into town to meet him. It was something straight out of Catfish. He wasn't who I had seen in pictures. He was supposed to be this cute blond hair, blue eyed guy. Instead he was this large guy with dark hair, thick glasses, and smelled like old shoes.
I tried to be really nice since he has came since a long way, but it was seriously the most awkward date, if that's what you would even call it. He kept on trying to hug/touch me and I made my sister be between us so he would leave me alone. i finally told him that I wasn't really interested and that I had a boyfriend just to get him to leave alone. He did leave, but then tried following my sister and I home, so we had to lose him. We never talked again after that.
I had diarrhea in my underwear on a date due to an intense round of antibiotics and had to be taken back to my dorm room to clean up because I got my "period". That guy is now my H and he thinks the truth about that day is hilarious.
I was curious to see if any of these horrible, nightmarish dates turned out to be w/ "the one" for anyone!!
9th grade...this guy that was a junior asked me out and I didn't realize that he was asking me out on a date. I fought him for the right to pay for my movie and pretzel. At the end of the night after we had gotten ice cream, I made it extremely clear that I thought we were just friends....and he put his ice cream / cone in his pocket and walked away, leaving me without a ride home. I had to call my mom and tell her I needed a ride home because my date stuck ice cream down his pants and ditched me...
Wow, sounds like he was a loser. Who just ditches someone like that?
I had diarrhea in my underwear on a date due to an intense round of antibiotics and had to be taken back to my dorm room to clean up because I got my "period". That guy is now my H and he thinks the truth about that day is hilarious.
I just died.
I will say though, before H was my H, I said "I'm going to shit myself in your truck if you don't drive faster". He loves my honesty.
Me: 27 DH: 35 MFI, failed vas-reversal TTC since 2011 Met RE 7/2012 6 failed IUIs 9/2014 IUI BFP, MMC @12 weeks, natural mc @ home 11/18/2014 01/2015 IUI, BFP, CP 2/2015 IUI, BFP, due 11/14/15 delivered 9/8/15 via emergency CS for severe preeclampsia. Currently in the NICU.
9th grade...this guy that was a junior asked me out and I didn't realize that he was asking me out on a date. I fought him for the right to pay for my movie and pretzel. At the end of the night after we had gotten ice cream, I made it extremely clear that I thought we were just friends....and he put his ice cream / cone in his pocket and walked away, leaving me without a ride home. I had to call my mom and tell her I needed a ride home because my date stuck ice cream down his pants and ditched me...
And did you continue to be friends after the ice cream in pants incident? I can only imagine what your mother though. Bahaha!
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