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Update (loss mentioned) May 22, 2015 14:12:03 GMT -5 via mobile

Post by teenybenoit on May 22, 2015 14:12:03 GMT -5

Hi ladies,
Unfortunately the news today was not good.
There is no heart beat, we have a blighted ovum and I am going to miscarry again. I have been given a week for this to happen on its own and if not then I have been given a prescription to make it happen.
The Dr has told us that when the process is complete they will do some testing to find out why this continues to happen. At least maybe we can get some answers to our questions.
This is now my 3rd angel baby.
I'm devastated. I'm numb. I'm angry. I'm sad. I think I need to take a break and regroup.
Thank you for having been my support all this time. I honestly did not know how to post this update and all I want to do is let each of you know how much your encouragement has meant to me. I wish you all the best.

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Update (loss mentioned) May 22, 2015 14:16:25 GMT -5 via Tapatalk

Post by wannabmama on May 22, 2015 14:16:25 GMT -5

Oh teenybenoit sending hugs. I know there's nothing to say to make it better, but I have been reading your updates and was so hoping for you. Take care of yourself and come by if you need us.

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vh2014 Gold Trophy Posts: 1,052 Love-Tits: 2,369	Update (loss mentioned) May 22, 2015 14:25:08 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Post by vh2014 on May 22, 2015 14:25:08 GMT -5 I'm so sorry. Big hugs to you.
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zombiesquad Gold Trophy Posts: 1,391 Love-Tits: 3,458	Update (loss mentioned) May 22, 2015 14:26:51 GMT -5 via mobile Post by zombiesquad on May 22, 2015 14:26:51 GMT -5 Oh, I am so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself and I hope you find some answers soon.
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Update (loss mentioned) May 22, 2015 14:45:14 GMT -5

Post by tiresiastheblond on May 22, 2015 14:45:14 GMT -5

I'm so sorry. Sending good thoughts for peace and healing. I hope you find some answers soon.

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URMySunshine77 Moderator Gold Trophy Posts: 1,928 Love-Tits: 4,919	Update (loss mentioned) May 22, 2015 16:01:13 GMT -5 Post by URMySunshine77 on May 22, 2015 16:01:13 GMT -5 I'm so sorry to see this. It's unfair and I hope that you receive some answers. We are here for you.
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wirt2cute "Ashes to Ashes, Dust to Side Chicks" Gold Trophy Posts: 1,376 Love-Tits: 2,819	Update (loss mentioned) May 22, 2015 16:23:02 GMT -5 Post by wirt2cute on May 22, 2015 16:23:02 GMT -5 teenybenoit, I am so sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself.
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Update (loss mentioned) May 22, 2015 18:05:17 GMT -5 via mobile

Post by agpjt413 on May 22, 2015 18:05:17 GMT -5

Omigoodness...I'm so, so sorry teenybenoit. So many ((hugs)) hon. I've been thinking about you all day. Take it easy and allow yourself to grieve and heal. If you have any questions re: loss/loss testing (even though I know it's your third loss), lurk around CAL and introduce yourself if you'd like when you're ready. An amazing group of ladies over there.

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lennonkdc Gold Trophy Posts: 1,098 Love-Tits: 4,690	Update (loss mentioned) May 23, 2015 8:31:03 GMT -5 Post by lennonkdc on May 23, 2015 8:31:03 GMT -5 I am so sorry to see this teenybenoit,. I'm sending love and hugs your way.
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luvmyponies Silver Trophy Posts: 995 Love-Tits: 3,014	Update (loss mentioned) May 23, 2015 9:05:58 GMT -5 Post by luvmyponies on May 23, 2015 9:05:58 GMT -5 I'm so sorry for your loss. I wish you peace and healing, and hope you get some answers from your doctor. Be kind to yourself. ((hugs))
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jess9802 Silver Trophy Posts: 536 Love-Tits: 1,195	Update (loss mentioned) May 23, 2015 10:01:32 GMT -5 Post by jess9802 on May 23, 2015 10:01:32 GMT -5 I am so sorry.
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Update (loss mentioned) May 23, 2015 10:12:24 GMT -5 via mobile

Post by dream2be3 on May 23, 2015 10:12:24 GMT -5

I am so sorry to hear this. I hope you get some much needed answers from the testing. (((hugs)))

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mom2boxers Platinum Trophy Posts: 3,949 Love-Tits: 5,839	Update (loss mentioned) May 23, 2015 10:40:25 GMT -5 Post by mom2boxers on May 23, 2015 10:40:25 GMT -5 So sorry to hear this. Take care of yourself.
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mazzola23 Bronze Trophy Posts: 406 Love-Tits: 794	Update (loss mentioned) May 23, 2015 15:10:49 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Post by mazzola23 on May 23, 2015 15:10:49 GMT -5 I'm so sorry to hear this
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b0710 Gold Trophy Posts: 1,235 Love-Tits: 2,489	Update (loss mentioned) May 26, 2015 10:07:47 GMT -5 Post by b0710 on May 26, 2015 10:07:47 GMT -5 **lurking** I am so sorry teenybenoit! I just saw your update today There are no words.....sending lots of thoughts, prayers, hugs, and support.
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KirstenAlecia Gold Trophy Posts: 1,561 Love-Tits: 3,462	Update (loss mentioned) May 27, 2015 2:50:42 GMT -5 Post by KirstenAlecia on May 27, 2015 2:50:42 GMT -5 So sorry and so many hugs coming your way
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boobacat Bronze Trophy Posts: 325 Love-Tits: 645	Update (loss mentioned) May 27, 2015 9:48:29 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Post by boobacat on May 27, 2015 9:48:29 GMT -5 I'm sorry teenybenoit.
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teenybenoit Silver Trophy Posts: 602 Love-Tits: 791	Update (loss mentioned) May 27, 2015 10:02:20 GMT -5 via mobile Post by teenybenoit on May 27, 2015 10:02:20 GMT -5 Thank you to all of you, as always I'm so grateful for all of your support. I'm hanging out in PL for now, still checking in here every now and again. Hugs.
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flyliceandcoffee Silver Trophy Posts: 953 Love-Tits: 1,819	Update (loss mentioned) May 27, 2015 11:09:52 GMT -5 Post by flyliceandcoffee on May 27, 2015 11:09:52 GMT -5 * lurking * I'm very very sorry to hear this teenybenoit, I hope you get some answers soon and have the time you need to heal.
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PepperPottsJ Gonna get jalapeno business Platinum Trophy Posts: 3,747 Love-Tits: 14,144	Update (loss mentioned) May 27, 2015 15:24:34 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Post by PepperPottsJ on May 27, 2015 15:24:34 GMT -5 I am so sorry teenybenoit... ::hugs:: T&Ps
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callmeKD Moderator Citrine's Sunny Posts: 6,792 Love-Tits: 20,558	Update (loss mentioned) May 28, 2015 10:30:31 GMT -5 Post by callmeKD on May 28, 2015 10:30:31 GMT -5 I'm so sorry
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