Post by ThePregosaurus on May 25, 2015 9:23:01 GMT -5
OK, ladies. Some of us are back in the sexy saddle and some of us are still figuring out how to climb back up. I, myself, am somewhere in the middle. We can finally get it on with only a little bit of discomfort for me, but I am just so not into it yet. I thought maybe we could all share any advice, tips, problems, successes, and whatever else?
I bought all new bras and underwear, all sexy but practical still. (I know those that are bf'ing still that new bras might not be an option yet). But they make me feel more confident just knowing that they look good. I'm not quite comfortable in my body yet, but these sure boosted my confidence.
DH doesn't need sexy, he needs about 30 seconds. He has type one diabetes and I would be lying if I said it didn't affect our sex life, once he gets going he needs to get it done ASAP otherwise everything deflates.
That's sounds like how we were pre-baby. MH had a similar problem that ended up being caused by a tumor on his pituitary gland. It was removed the week after I had DS and his drive/stamina have since skyrocketed. Meanwhile, I've mostly been out of commission since then and I'm finally trying to help him out more. He's been SO patient.
DH and I had a date night a week or so ago and it definitely helped bring the sexy back. I bought a new top to wear and it was so nice to get something because I thought DH would like it instead of how practical it would be for work or BFing. I also took the time to do my hair and makeup and DH definitely noticed because he kept saying how pretty I looked. But it was so nice to finally have some time to just be us. We didn't do anything crazy and we were only gone for a few hours, but it has made such a difference!
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