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Hello- Intro (LC mentioned) Jan 22, 2015 10:40:11 GMT -5

Post by jumpingpuddles on Jan 22, 2015 10:40:11 GMT -5

Hello,

Long time former bump (and nest) lurker here. For whatever reason I always felt weird about actually taking the plunge and posting, but loved all of the great information and entertainment the boards offered.

Anyway, I am now jumping in (SN pun intended) as I have been struggling in getting over a recent loss, and feel like I am not getting enough support that I need from friends IRL.

About me: I am 35 with 2 children, 6 and 3, and went back and forth for a long time about going for the 3rd. Got my BFP for #3 a week or so before Christmas, EDD 8/29 (my son's birthday) and was thrilled. Started lightly bleeding the day after my birthday on 1/6, and after a week of limbo hell, got MC confirmed with growth that had stopped at 6 wks, D&C on 1/13. Doctor gave me the green light to try again immediately, so just waiting to either O or get AF.

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grneyes Gold Trophy Posts: 2,103 Love-Tits: 4,483	Hello- Intro (LC mentioned) Jan 22, 2015 10:48:45 GMT -5 Post by grneyes on Jan 22, 2015 10:48:45 GMT -5 Welcome to the board, I am so sorry for your loss. Give yourself time to heal emotionally and physically. A loss and a D&C is a lot of trauma to the body.
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Hello- Intro (LC mentioned) Jan 22, 2015 10:59:05 GMT -5 via Tapatalk

Post by yummybunny on Jan 22, 2015 10:59:05 GMT -5

Welcome. I'm so sorry for your loss.

I'm surprised your doc didn't advise you to wait at least a cycle to help your lining build up and your body and emotions to heal. I am coming from a place of love when I ask you to think about giving yourself a cycle before you try again. One cycle isn't long in the grand scheme of things.

Big (((hugs))) and again I'm sorry for your loss.

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rmpar29 Gold Trophy Posts: 2,183 Love-Tits: 3,847	Hello- Intro (LC mentioned) Jan 22, 2015 11:07:15 GMT -5 Post by rmpar29 on Jan 22, 2015 11:07:15 GMT -5 I'm so sorry for your loss. I also wonder if waiting one cycle might be a good idea, just to give your lining a chance to build up again. Just a thought. Welcome.
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Hello- Intro (LC mentioned) Jan 22, 2015 11:09:25 GMT -5

Post by jumpingpuddles on Jan 22, 2015 11:09:25 GMT -5

Thank you all for your kind words and welcome. I'm not entirely sure about if and when we will try. Every day I change my mind. I've googled about every different combination of "conceiving after D&C" in an effort to learn everything about recommended wait times. It is frustrating that there is such a discrepancy between doctors. I have a lot of trust in my doctor, but his opinion seems to be the minority out there, which is tough.

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Hello- Intro (LC mentioned) Jan 22, 2015 11:12:43 GMT -5

Post by megrae12 on Jan 22, 2015 11:12:43 GMT -5

I am very sorry for your loss. I also recommend waiting a cycle if you can for all of the reasons listed above.

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lickwed Platinum Trophy Posts: 3,151 Love-Tits: 6,070	Hello- Intro (LC mentioned) Jan 22, 2015 11:13:16 GMT -5 Post by lickwed on Jan 22, 2015 11:13:16 GMT -5 Welcome to the board. I had a D&C too and was told we could try again as soon as we wanted. It still took 4 cycles for my body to recover and be ready to get pregnant again. Don't get discouraged if it doesn't happen right away and make sure you give yourself time to heal.
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readinglove Gold Trophy Posts: 2,359 Love-Tits: 4,676	Hello- Intro (LC mentioned) Jan 22, 2015 11:24:06 GMT -5 Post by readinglove on Jan 22, 2015 11:24:06 GMT -5 Welcome to the boars. I'm very sorry for your loss. Be kind to yourself as you heal physically and emotionally.
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Hello- Intro (LC mentioned) Jan 22, 2015 11:46:45 GMT -5

Post by nikolie93 on Jan 22, 2015 11:46:45 GMT -5

Welcome and I am so very sorry for your loss. *hug*

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Hello- Intro (LC mentioned) Jan 22, 2015 12:57:05 GMT -5

Post by mellymel15 on Jan 22, 2015 12:57:05 GMT -5

I'm so sorry for your loss. I know what you mean about people in IRL not providing much support— people often don't how terrible and hard a miscarriage is unless they've been through one themselves. The women on this board are great, and I'm sure you'll find comfort and support here. Welcome.

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Hello- Intro (LC mentioned) Jan 22, 2015 16:47:04 GMT -5

Post by littleducky on Jan 22, 2015 16:47:04 GMT -5

Welcome to the board. I hope this community can be a source of support for you.

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msugirl Gold Trophy Posts: 1,591 Love-Tits: 4,318	Hello- Intro (LC mentioned) Jan 22, 2015 16:58:20 GMT -5 Post by msugirl on Jan 22, 2015 16:58:20 GMT -5 I'm so sorry for your loss
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Hello- Intro (LC mentioned) Jan 22, 2015 17:14:36 GMT -5

Post by therealbug on Jan 22, 2015 17:14:36 GMT -5

I'm so sorry for your loss and welcome to the board ((((hugs)))).

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Hello- Intro (LC mentioned) Jan 22, 2015 17:18:05 GMT -5

Post by juliern on Jan 22, 2015 17:18:05 GMT -5

I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.

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