n00b, just saying hey

[bbb]

Hey everyone, 

Just wanted to say hi and introduce myself.  I'm 35, married last September, we have been ttc for three months.  I know that is not a very long time at all.  I have short cycles though so I am very worried that I'm dealing with LPD or something of that sort.  We are also (so conveniently) currently planning an international move so I am feeling daunted by the prospect of trying to speak to a doctor about my concerns - who would I even see? Please understand that I know it sounds ridiculous to have "concerns" after only three months, I'm just feeling really old and panicky, you know?  You know.

Really new to the world of family forums, have heard that it can be a sensitive crowd and hope that I have not offended anyone with my newbie nonsense.  

Baby dust all around, 
bbb

[URMySunshine77]

Welcome, bbb! You are still young, lady. I like your avatar.

Have you considered acupuncture to assist you with lengthening your cycles? I believe that it might be a good option for you. Are you also taking a B-complex vitamin?

If you are 35 (or over), it is recommended to see a reproductive endocrinologist (RE) after six months of well timed sex. Are you moving to an international location where doctors might not speak the language? I know a board member in Vietnam who arranged to FaceTime with a RE because they don't have REs there. But you should be able to find a RE who speaks English in many countries.

I can assure you that this board does not easily offend. I will be honest and say that we prefer that people not use the term "baby dust," as it can bring up negative feelings for those members who have experienced a loss.

The ladies here are extremely supportive. I hope that your BFP is right around the corner.

[bbb]

Ohhh hey Sunshine! Thanks for the warm welcome. I like your avatar too!

That is really good advice re: acupuncture, thank you! I am going to look into this tomorrow. I feel like this is something I can do right now. And yes I am taking B vitamins

We are not moving to a non-English speaking country (just the US, actually... we're currently in Canada) so it's not really the move itself just the lack of time before the move and then how long it will take us to get settled down there and find a doctor, etc. I am reluctant to speak to my dr. about it before we move, because honestly chances are good that I will never see her again. I like your advice about seeing an RE, I think that I will wait until we move and then try to find someone there. That timing will actually coincide nicely with six months of trying, assuming that it hasn't worked by then

(My apologies re: "bd" reference, and thanks for letting me know!)

Thanks again,
bbb

[wannabmama]

Welcome! URMySunshine77 has great advice (she always does . Are you temping/charting? That can help a lot with figuring out what's going on with your cycle and gives you good information for when you meet with an RE.
Until then enjoy baby making and FX your stay here in short and sweet!

[lennonkdc]

Hi bbb, Welcome! I'm 35 and married last Sept too, its nice to have another 'youngster' here. I second wannabmama, in suggesting charting and temping. It will shed so much light on what's going on up in your uterus It also helps me feel like I'm 'doing' something every day. Most ladies here use Fertility Friend to track temp and CF ( though I also use an app called ovuview as well) and the book "Taking Charge of Your Fertility" by Toni Weschler is an invaluable resource! Before I read TCOYF and started charting I was a mess of nerves re:TTC, now that I have proof that I ovulate, know the length of my LP and have gotten to know my body a lot better I'm cool as a cucumber (until the TWW, then all bets are off lol...)

Anyway, welcome to TTC>35!

[vh2014]

PPs have given great advice. Welcome!

[mom2boxers]

Welcome!

[Deleted]

Welcome! didn't read other responses so forgive if duplicated. I don't think your feelings are unique- not saying they are warranted just that I understand. Do you chart your bbt, cp/cf? Know what I'm referring to? Have you read Toni Weschler's Taking Charge Of Your Fertility? Looked at fertility friend website? These things I recommend, otherwise take some folic acid and enjoy intercourse. See an re if you like after 3 more months with no bfp. Take care and best wishes

[wirt2cute]

URMySunshine77, always give amazing advice. Welcome bbb, all the ladies have given awesome advice and as @kellbell, stated TCOF is great book to read and learn about your body. Charting will be your best friend. I feel we are a truly supportive group of women, so please do not hesitate to ask question's and join in on the threads. Welcome again.

[tiresiastheblond]

Welcome! (and welcome the the US!)

[summergirl1211]

Welcome to the board! I'm also 35 and just joined in the past month. Everyone is really supportive here. I hope your move goes well and your TTC journey is short. Where in the US are you moving to?

[PepperPottsJ]

Welcome bbb, I'm new also and these ladies are amazing
I see nothing wrong with worrying after 3 months, my obgyn lovingly told me I'm not getting younger and to come back if I'm not KU with 3 months of properly timed sex . Good luck!!

[boobacat]

Welcome. Normal to be anxious. Good advice has been given. My two cents is do not wait to see the RE, I waited and regret it. He found something with my bloodwork my OB missed.

Best of luck with your move!

[mazzola23]

Hi and welcome!

[EmsMama15]

Welcome bbb! Good luck with TTC and with your move.

[agpjt413]

Welcome, bbb!!

[zombiesquad]

Welcome welcome welcome!

[badwolf]

Welcome!

[c76girlie]

Hi welcome, pp have given great advise. Anyway I hope your stay here is short, gl