bluedot you have my full understanding and sympathy re:the hoarding issue. It's so equally infuriating and sad. I guess I consider it lucky my friend "Billy's" mother was a severe hoarder (also hoarded animals), like the kind on the tv shows. Fecal matter, mold, you name it...it was scary and I learned a lot about the illness and gained a lot of empathy from getting to know Billy and his siblings and seeing how hoarding destroyed their family. MIL isn't yet to the level of Billy's mom, but she's closer than she was when I first met her and she already had a pretty bad problem then. Does FIL not live with NMG because of the hoarding issues?
The hoarding is part of the reason, the other reason is he just doesn't like her. They should have gotten a divorce years ago, but there is a large farm in the mix and FIL didn't want her getting control of any of it... So they still go out on date nights and he tolerates her crap... just like the rest of us...
The other day I talked with DH about my baby fever. He said he's no where near ready to start trying again and we decided to revisit the conversation in six months. Then this morning, he tried to put a baby in me (if you catch my drift). WTF? I'm so confused....
Are you not on birth control?
No, i'm not. He normally does the pull out. I know it's not the safest way, but it's what we do. This morning he just didn't.
I'm such a grump this morning. DH and I had a bad night last night, he is working two jobs and it's starting to take a toll on our relationship. We are suppose to have a night alone on the 6th, but it feels like forever from now.
Post by hashtagrainbow on Jan 23, 2015 9:39:55 GMT -5
Y'all I did it! I handed in my resignation!!! February 13 will be my last day here and I hope to tie up loose ends to board a plane by February 20 with my L Bean! #californiagurls #bestcoast #leftcoast
katm84 I hope all goes well talking to your boss. That's not cool about hiring someone else to do less and get paid more. She sounds like a bosshole.
I'm wearing my Athleta lust pants that @elf828 recommended and they're amazing. I got the high waisted ones and I do feel quite lusty with my belly secured.
Y'all I did it! I handed in my resignation!!! February 13 will be my last day here and I hope to tie up loose ends to board a plane by February 20 with my L Bean! #californiagurls #bestcoast #leftcoast
blondemum Thanks for sharing, I haven't seen it before. It did make me a little teary eyed.
katm84 Good luck talking to your boss, I know it's got to be nerve racking, but you will fill better that you expressed your feelings. That's not cool at all.
hashtagrainbow Yay! I know your excited to get to the East coast.
katm84 I hope all goes well talking to your boss. That's not cool about hiring someone else to do less and get paid more. She sounds like a bosshole.
I'm wearing my Athleta lust pants that @elf828 recommended and they're amazing. I got the high waisted ones and I do feel quite lusty with my belly secured.
No, because he knew I was going to do it when we talked yesterday. It's HIS boss that is going to a brick. And he's going to tell her closer to the end of the day to ensure she has a tormented guilt-free weekend.
I'll also be wearing lust pants today. Kids are off from school for end of the quarter stuff. I'm going to attempt to get some seeing done today, but that all depends on how clingy E is. I can't really sew with him in a wrap, though I've tried. When DH gets home from work, we're hitting up Party City for 3's party stuff, then the mall for new bras and undies for me (I'm so excited about this! Like, way more than I should be.) and new jeans for DH. We plan on using our Red Lobster GCs for dinner afterwards.
katm84 and hashtagrainbow good luck today! @other people with other things, I swear I'll get a brain that remembers stuff some day, or a post it.
Post by hashtagrainbow on Jan 23, 2015 10:52:23 GMT -5
Is anybody feeling wild/generous enough to share their Amazon Prime free 2 day shipping rights with me temporarily? bluedot? @elf828? Please? I have got to get a case for my iPhone before I drop it. I plan on renewing my Prime membership soon but no haz the moneties required to do it today.
I can tell they are having an alluring effect. DH said "wow, did you brush your hair this morning or something? It looks really pretty." And then got a little too grabby when he hugged me. Lust, bountiful lust. Thanks pants!
I think that's the only lust you're allowed to inspired, so judiciously played, lust pants.
So I'll be missing LO's first birthday - at least the morning. I was still planning to take her to school, it's not like I'd keep her home to like look at her in wonderment all day, but I just got notice of a meeting scheduled for 8:30 am in NY on the 28th so I have to go up the night before. My boss will be there and it's unmoveable. I just cried on the phone to my coworker that set it up and there's nothing I can do. I can't refuse to go because I haven't heard from the job I interviewed with yet. I will make it home in time to see her after school but I really wanted to see her in the morning. I don't even know why, but I just did.
Fuck being a working mom. Fuck it.
So many hugs to you. I'm SO so so so sorry you can't be there to be the first one she sees on her birthday. I 100% second your declaration about being a working mom. FX you hear about that job and you can tell your current job you're not going.
Is anybody feeling wild/generous enough to share their Amazon Prime free 2 day shipping rights with me temporarily? bluedot? @elf828? Please? I have got to get a case for my iPhone before I drop it. I plan on renewing my Prime membership soon but no haz the moneties required to do it today.
...just go to target? Or Walmart?
I haven't seen the one I want at any stores here, otherwise I would. Because immediate gratification.
I'm so sorry. That really sucks. My boss made a stupid comment about her having no idea what the day was and that rankled me. I hope you get to make the most of the afternoon. LMK if you wanna meet for drinks the 27th.
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