Post by deedeefernandez on Jan 23, 2015 16:38:47 GMT -5
Hello everyone! I've been looking for a support community to join and was told this was the place to be.
I'm looking forward to getring to know you and taking this journey with you all.
My name is DeeDee. My husband and I have been ttc officially for 5 months and charting for 3, but have been "going with the flow" for over a year. We each have a child, 5&6. I had my daughter very young and had a very stressful pregnancy. She was born premature after going into preterm labor twice and being on bedrest for 3 1/2 months. I had a mc a year and a half ago where they discovered I have some pretty bad scarring on my cervix. My doctor has tried to reassure me that I still have a shot but it may just be more difficult. I'm glad to finally be able to join a group of ladies that understand what im going through as I'm having a hard time getting support from friends and family that can't relate..
*Meltdown which led me to seek*
My close friend, which knows we are ttc found out she is
pregnant today. She has only been with her boyfriend for 3 months...has a daughter whos father isn't around.. her brilliant way of telling me was to text me a photo of her pee sticks on the day af arrived for me.. I didnt expect myself to breakdown the way I did. I left work crying and I'm just so angry. I feel she should have called or done anything but rub it in my face.. I'm so angry... I called to check in with her after I had calmed a bit and was met with the "don't worry it'll happen when it's meant to" speech.. needless to say I exploded and said some hurtful things. My question for you ladies is this..
How do you manage to keep from being resentful? I can feel myself turning bitter and I'm not sure how to get myself back on track.
Thank you all. I am very happy to join this community. I apologize for any typos, my phone keyboard and I are not friends at the moment.
I'm looking forward to getring to know you and taking this journey with you all.
My name is DeeDee. My husband and I have been ttc officially for 5 months and charting for 3, but have been "going with the flow" for over a year. We each have a child, 5&6. I had my daughter very young and had a very stressful pregnancy. She was born premature after going into preterm labor twice and being on bedrest for 3 1/2 months. I had a mc a year and a half ago where they discovered I have some pretty bad scarring on my cervix. My doctor has tried to reassure me that I still have a shot but it may just be more difficult. I'm glad to finally be able to join a group of ladies that understand what im going through as I'm having a hard time getting support from friends and family that can't relate..
*Meltdown which led me to seek*
My close friend, which knows we are ttc found out she is
pregnant today. She has only been with her boyfriend for 3 months...has a daughter whos father isn't around.. her brilliant way of telling me was to text me a photo of her pee sticks on the day af arrived for me.. I didnt expect myself to breakdown the way I did. I left work crying and I'm just so angry. I feel she should have called or done anything but rub it in my face.. I'm so angry... I called to check in with her after I had calmed a bit and was met with the "don't worry it'll happen when it's meant to" speech.. needless to say I exploded and said some hurtful things. My question for you ladies is this..
How do you manage to keep from being resentful? I can feel myself turning bitter and I'm not sure how to get myself back on track.
Thank you all. I am very happy to join this community. I apologize for any typos, my phone keyboard and I are not friends at the moment.