I'm going to a wedding at 12 wks, and it's going to be with all my favorite wine drinking ladies. There is no way they wouldn't notice and comment. And no excuse would work. When I'm not pregnant, I looooove my wine. I'm going to try to tell that group beforehand, either in person or by message, and also ask them to not make a big deal at the wedding. I would rather tell them intentionally than have them suspect and ask and then freak out on the wedding day.
And why can't you tell them before the wedding, exactly?
I'm glad I asked. As a bride I couldn't have cared less what the guests were chit chatting about, as long as it wasn't something negative about our hosting . I know this news is huge to us, but I guess I figure no one else will really care that much. We'll be met with a bit more excitement than "I got a new job" or "we bought a house". (Obviously not every reaction, the grandparents-to-be were much more enthusiastic, haha)
But knowing the majority on here would side-eye it / be irritated as a bride I will definitely figure something else out, whether we find a time to tell people before or after, depending on how obvious it is.
I'm glad I asked. As a bride I couldn't have cared less what the guests were chit chatting about, as long as it wasn't something negative about our hosting . I know this news is huge to us, but I guess I figure no one else will really care that much. We'll be met with a bit more excitement than "I got a new job" or "we bought a house". (Obviously not every reaction, the grandparents-to-be were much more enthusiastic, haha)
But knowing the majority on here would side-eye it / be irritated as a bride I will definitely figure something else out, whether we find a time to tell people before or after, depending on how obvious it is.
I'm a bit more excited than I should be that someone on here asked advice and is actually *listening* to said advice.
I'm going to a wedding at 12 wks, and it's going to be with all my favorite wine drinking ladies. There is no way they wouldn't notice and comment. And no excuse would work. When I'm not pregnant, I looooove my wine. I'm going to try to tell that group beforehand, either in person or by message, and also ask them to not make a big deal at the wedding. I would rather tell them intentionally than have them suspect and ask and then freak out on the wedding day.
And why can't you tell them before the wedding, exactly?
I am telling them before That was my point. Either in person or by message. Either way I would be more comfortable than telling them at the wedding. ETA sorry if that was confusing the first time. My point was that I will definitely not tell them day of, no matter how I have to go about it.
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