It's FRIDAY!!
Jul 24, 2015 10:44:21 GMT -5
Post by MrsTinMKE on Jul 24, 2015 10:44:21 GMT -5
I don't know if anyone is around much today... but I need a tad bit of advice.
I mentioned one of my younger brothers (the one w/o) the crazy tattoos recently. He came to H and I a couple of weeks ago asking to borrow money because he had no money, no gas in his car, no way to get to work, and thought his work was scamming him and not paying him. Long story. Any ways, H and I borrowed him some money and paid him some money to help us with some house projects even though he still owed us money for something else. I also have him a bunch of food and H said we could take him grocery shopping and load him up with food.
We we have not heard from him now in like over a week and I see pictures all over facebook of him out at the bar with some of our family last night! I am so pissed that he only comes around when he needs something and when I say something about his irresponsible behavior he tells me I am a judgmental bitch. Then when I am there for him, he tells me how amazing I am and how I am more of a mom to him than our own mother ever was.
This kills me. H is so frustrated with him, and I feel like all he does is take from us and play the guilt trip. I want to say something to him, but not even sure it is worth the fight anymore. I am just beyond hurt by his behavior lately and feeling more and more like all his is doing is playing me when I thought we were actually pretty close and honest with each other.
Should I confront him? I am so pissed to see those pictures. I want to ask him how the hell he had money to go out but his electric and phone are being shut off etc. He also told me he was about to go to jail for being behind on his child support.
Ok rant over, sorry
I mentioned one of my younger brothers (the one w/o) the crazy tattoos recently. He came to H and I a couple of weeks ago asking to borrow money because he had no money, no gas in his car, no way to get to work, and thought his work was scamming him and not paying him. Long story. Any ways, H and I borrowed him some money and paid him some money to help us with some house projects even though he still owed us money for something else. I also have him a bunch of food and H said we could take him grocery shopping and load him up with food.
We we have not heard from him now in like over a week and I see pictures all over facebook of him out at the bar with some of our family last night! I am so pissed that he only comes around when he needs something and when I say something about his irresponsible behavior he tells me I am a judgmental bitch. Then when I am there for him, he tells me how amazing I am and how I am more of a mom to him than our own mother ever was.
This kills me. H is so frustrated with him, and I feel like all he does is take from us and play the guilt trip. I want to say something to him, but not even sure it is worth the fight anymore. I am just beyond hurt by his behavior lately and feeling more and more like all his is doing is playing me when I thought we were actually pretty close and honest with each other.
Should I confront him? I am so pissed to see those pictures. I want to ask him how the hell he had money to go out but his electric and phone are being shut off etc. He also told me he was about to go to jail for being behind on his child support.
Ok rant over, sorry