Post by beyoncepadthai on Aug 18, 2015 10:21:03 GMT -5
Hi, I was wondering if I can join you. I had my OB appointment today and my baby either never developed or stopped growing at 5w2d. I'm not really sure because I couldn't really listen, all I could do is cry. This is my second loss and it just sucks.
I'm sorry to all of you for your losses, I wish none of us have to be here.
Married 01-04-2013 *AMA* 40 in June 2015 **1-19-15 Childless, not by choice" 1st EDD- 12-02-13 MC 5/1/13 @4w6d 2nd EDD 11-13-14 MC 4/15/14: discovered 1st twin @5w 2nd twin @10w 3Rd BFP- 10-10-14 EDD 6/16/15: MC 10-16-14 @5w2d
Post by beyoncepadthai on Aug 18, 2015 21:48:13 GMT -5
Thank you! It was just so shocking, this is my second MC, but it's so different from the first. I had no spotting, or bleeding this time at all. I went there expecting to see it on the ultrasound and instead there was nothing. I keep hoping there was a mistake even though I know there isn't. Sorry I didn't mean to be so long winded.
Thank you! It was just so shocking, this is my second MC, but it's so different from the first. I had no spotting, or bleeding this time at all. I went there expecting to see it on the ultrasound and instead there was nothing. I keep hoping there was a mistake even though I know there isn't. Sorry I didn't mean to be so long winded.
You're hardly long-winded!
I had the same situation. In my first loss, there were signs things weren't right from the get-go (lots of red spotting, cramping). The most recent one was totally different. It was textbook perfect (great betas, saw heartbeat at 6 weeks) until week 7, when the heartbeat was gone.
The shock of it does really suck. I'm nearly three months out now, and feel like I'm starting to get back to feeling (emotionally and physically) somewhat normal.
Later in the grieving process, when I'd feel myself slipping down I'd tell myself - 'This is my journey. It sucks and is unfair, but it is my reality and it's up to me to rebuild myself.' That acceptance of the situation helped me move forward. I got a lot of 'be kind to yourself,' but I never really understood what that meant. I never beat myself up over the losses (well, for very long and not seriously), but I didn't realize what grief was or how to do it.
Anyway, now I'm being long-winded. Once again, I'm sorry for your loss - and allow yourself to do whatever it is you need to do to move forward. (((big HUGS)))
I am so sorry for your losses! So many Hugs! I two have had 2 losses, and as though my second loss was full of spotting, I was still taken aback when the dr could no longer find the heartbeat. I was shocked that this was really happening again. Of course the whole time I was nervous it would but never really thought it would. I a, also a bit wider out from my losses and the day to day is much easier. Take care of yourself and just take it day by day or even hour by hour! **hugs**
Me: 36, DH 32 Bfp#1 June 2014 edd: Feb. 22, 2015,mmc: Aug. 5,2014,D&C Bfp#2 Feb. 2015 edd: Oct.12, 2015, mmc: Mar. 7,2015, D&C
DX: Me: slightly hypothyroid, taking meds DH: SA Showed all low levels, urologist appointment showed all was normal, so no reason why the levels were bad.
Plan: IUI #1 Aug. 25mg clomed, to help boost egg quality - BFN IUI #2 Sept. 25mg clomed, BFN IUI#3 Dec. BFP!! TWINS Edd: Aug. 22, 2016
BFP#1 April 2014 MC: June 9th 2014 BFP#2 Sept 2014 MC: Nov 05th 2014 BFP#3 April 2015 MMC: June 2015 BFP#4 January 2016 Birth : 09/08/2016 Baby A is now 29 months
Hey sweetheart. It is really disappointing to know what you have to face. Don't get hardhearted. It is a part of life. Remember, tough roads often lead to beautiful situations. You can't be low spirited at the moment. Give your self another try. Maybe, you succeed this one. I had to go through two miscarriages too. I can relate to your pain very well. Still, I did not lose hope. My husband had supported me. Today, I am a blessed mother. My dear, stay strong. Face the challenge. My prayers are with you. All the very best to you.
Hey glad that you are going to have a baby through surrogacy. Good choice, I would love to hear from you often about your journey, I am also a surrogacy person and I just can't wait to start my journey too. I would love to say this each comment that is made in reference to this procedure make me much confident to opt this procedure. when I started this was much difficult to get the answers to the so many questions. but cheers to such forums. They helped me out much. would love to interact you, for relative information and suggestions in future. till then love and prayers for you.XX
Post by martina005 on May 12, 2018 22:21:09 GMT -5
Hey there! Hope you are doing fine. I am so sorry to hear about your losses. I had also go through this situation. I can understand your situation and pain. Children are a blessing. I had a baby after 3 losses. Miscarriage is an ever worst thing in a life. But you need to stay positive. Don't take the stress. Try once again. Hope for the best. My best wishes are with you. Goodluck. Stay blessed.
I am so sad for your misfortunes! Such a significant number of Embraces! My companion too have had numerous misfortunes, and just as her second misfortune was loaded with spotting, she was as yet shocked the specialist could never again discover the pulse. She was stunned this was truly happening once more. Obviously the entire time she was apprehensive it would yet never truly figured it would. She is likewise somewhat more extensive out from her misfortunes and the everyday is substantially less demanding. Deal with yourself and simply take it step by step or even step by step!
I'm awfully sorry for your loss. I can relate. I've gone through something similar. Trust me, I know there's nothing worse. I really hope you can find the energy to move on. I'd suggest you sign up for counseling. It'll help, it helped me.
Post by rihannadennis on May 22, 2018 11:10:55 GMT -5
Hello there! I'm very sorry for your situation or loss. I've been there. I can feel you. So, yeah! I personally have had 3 MCs. So, yeah! Wish me luck! Now, this year I'm going for an IVF. Because my case is of PCOS. So, yeah! Get yourself checked through your obs. I hope you will be able to come out of grief. Stay strong! Now, is the time. Seek your options. Keep trying, you can still become a mother. Pretty soon! xx
Post by lindajames998 on May 22, 2018 13:50:38 GMT -5
Hey there. Really sorry for what you went through. I know how it feels. I have been through it too. I wish you good luck. I hope you get what you want. don't give up. Take care.
Post by scarlett9999 on May 23, 2018 21:24:47 GMT -5
hello there. how are you now? it feels sad for me to hear this. indeed infertile parents go through a lot. we should pray for everyone.support is necessary to give them hope.
Hi dear, I am so sorry to hear your miscarriage. You should concern with a doctor as soon as possible. I also suggested you that find out the reason for the miscarriage. well, I Hope you will recover soon. I will pray for you next pregnancy soon. GOD Blessed you.
Hello there! Hope you are doing great. I am sorry to hear about your miscarriage. I have also gone through such consequences. I have an idea about the pain you are bearing. But you need to stay positive and optimistic. Hope for the best and go for surrogacy. I'm sure this time it'll for you.
Hello beautiful. I hope you feel any better now. I am so sorry for your miscarriage. I can relate to your pain. I am in the same boat. I know how devastated you must be at the moment. Dear, don't get upset. Keep your hopes high. Remember, tough roads often lead to beautiful destination. Sending virtual hugs for you. All the best for your future. Take good care of yourself.
Post by sarahlietzo on May 31, 2018 4:05:27 GMT -5
Hello all! Now at the age of 43 i am married again to someone else and we want a baby of our own. I know at this age it is quite difficult to have a baby off my own womb. Thinking of previous complications regarding pregnancy i would not try to be pregnant again. From my last marriage i had many complications regarding pregnancy. I don't have any other options left so far so surrogacy is the only solution to my problems i guess. My husband agreed for surrogacy so i started looking for clinics with good surrogacy records. I founded many clinics regarding surrogacy and i picked up the few clinics too for further discussion with them. I contacted many clinics and told them every aspect of our complications. From their satisfied answers i guess some clinics are the best solution for having a baby. So i suggest that you people should also do your own research regarding surrogacy and should contact different clinics for further details. Everytime miscarriage happened to me. But i'm worried about many other aspects like my behavior towards the baby after knowing everything. Like when the baby grows up what i should tell him/her. So i persuaded my husband to go for surrogacy to have our own children. Someone raising a child via surrogacy should share their experience.
I am really sorry to hear about your loss. We are settled in Japan from last few decades.
I had hysterectomy cancer. All of you should know its treatment and its result.As a result i was cancer free but for the lifetime i'm infertile now.So i was worried and tensed and than my husband came to know about surrogacy.Surrogacy is a method of raising a baby from someone's else egg. I was amazed at this method but when i studied about it i was happy.Here in Japan it is totally prohibited.So we moved to Europe and roamed in Europe for sometime and contacted many clinics there, Than we heard about a clinic and we moved to Ukraine. It is a very good clinic and we consulted them.
They are the best they have best solution for us now.
Then we found a surrogate mom and we donated the eggs and now surrogate is carrying our twin daughters. Now when i sit alone i thank god that he is giving us two gifts in one time. We are so happy and excited to have our babies.
The news of your miscarriage has broken my heart up. I also concur with you on these problems. I also faced miscarriage years ago. Believe me, everything will get well one day. I hope you will gather enough energy to move on. I will suggest you visit some clinic offering counseling. Wishing you good luck!
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