I dont know if I should laugh or cry. I quit my job today.

[nocatanywhere]

Aaaack I'm glad you're out of the crap work situation, but I know that having things up in the air plus the concern about financials can be a blow. Whatever you end up doing, I'm sure you'll figure it out. Good luck! And for now, rejoice at being away from that toxic environment.

[kbeazly]

oh goodness! That would be scary. I'm sorry that it's taken such an abrupt and stressful turn. Try to remember, this is probably for the best. It sounds like it was a terribly difficult environment to be in. The reduction of that aspect will probably serve well during your pregnancy in the long run. Try to stay positive.

[txshep]

I'm a person who needs to always have all of my ducks in a row, especially financially, so I totally understand being scared about the lack of a paycheck. However, if you take the money aspect out of it, it seems like there are a lot of positives to leaving that job. I would take a few days to let the whole situation sink in, focus on the positives, and then (with a hopefully more clear mind) work on a new budget.

I freaked out when I was unexpectedly between jobs a few years ago. Once I was able to approach the situation calmly, it was much easier to see how things would work out in the long run. I went out in a blaze of glory from the one (horrible) job, so I admit that I was hyped up for a few days after. lol

[MrsEmuTavi]

Congrats...? But seriously, it sounds like a good move. At least you had the NP lined up. Good luck!

[euphony]

I think it sounds like a good thing. I really do.

[spazzz333]

I feel like they way you were talking last week that this is totally a blessing in disguise. The money fear is totally understandable. I am sure it will all work out. Congrats on getting away from the black hole of the restaurant.

[sdfonz619]

It really does sound like this was a blessing in disguise even though it might take a little getting used to the idea at first. Fortunately, you were able to accept the other position so the pay cut won't be too severe and you can ease into becoming a SAHM. It sounds likes in the long run you will be much happier.

[welly01]

I'm sorry that your hand was sort of forced, but I hope this is a good change for your family. Even if you are working to pay for childcare, it won't always be that way and the experience will be valuable. Good luck at the new job!!

[snakefisherbub]

Things have a way of working themselves out! It'll be hard at first I'm sure but you'll find your new normal and this sounds like it's for the best.

[rubylovebug]

I'm sorry for your company's poor management, but congrats on the new job! Everything happens for a reason.

[tngrl3]

It sounds like this change though scary, will be worth it in the long run. That sucks that your employer treated you like that after all your hard work but sounds like you will be better off without them.

[PamBeeslyHalpert]

I'm sorry you are dealing with this stressful situation, but it looks like it was for the best. You were obviously unhappy in your other job and that would've been even worse for you, your family and your pregnancy in the long run.

[winkyface]

It's scary, but I really hope (and think!) that you will come out on the other end really happy that fate/life/whatever made the decision for you and that you went for it!

[cuppatea]

Change can be positive. It's hard dealing with unknowns but sounds like your decision was good and fairly inevitable. I quit a job of nine years to move cross country and be a SAHM. Lots of huge changes all at once but it was absolutely the right move for my family. Deep breaths, you'll be great. Good luck!!

[ugotstarbucked]

I know it is scary, but it sounds like the job you had was making you miserable and causing other friction in your life. It is a big change but probably one you are going to be grateful for once the dust settles. Congrats on closing that chapter in your life and trying something new!

[freddy]

I know it can be scary but from your previous posts it sounded like a stressful and unhappy environment. I hope you are much happier in your new situation.

[riderchik]

What a crazy turn of events. I'm glad you're out if if there and I really hope this no np is perfect for you.

[mrsb1008]

As much as I'm not a religious person, I have always believed that things will happen for a reason. I'm so glad you kinda go the push to go for the NP job. It will be scary to not have a paycheck (I would totally be terrified), but you will be doing something you want to do and it will be worth it in the end!

[midnightsun]

I definitely agree this is a blessing in disguise. You didn't/don't need any extra stress and hassle in your life and this will provide you the opportunity to work towards a job you will love. It may be scary but your health and emotional well being is worth it.

[el1zabeth]

scary, but cheers to a new door!

[ProfEDD]

I think you should laugh. You're free! And you have another job lined up!

[emejay]

Woah what are crazy situation! As others have said, it is for the best!

[disneygirl14]

Definitely scary, I totally understand. But you're very lucky to already of had something lined up! Good luck. I'm sure this was for the best

[swbrigadoon]

Completely understand how scary this must be financially. It sounds like you were under appreciated there, and at least emotionally this is a good change. I'm sure everything will work out for the best in the long run!

[iris1264]

I would be scared if I was in your shoes too, but I'm sure it will work out. I HATED HATED HATED the job I had when I found out I was pregnant with DD, and since it east the best situation for a pregnant lady, I quit. I haven't worked since. It has been an adjustment, and we've had to cut back some places, but I'm so much happier being a SAHM. I hope that you will be much happier now too.

[cabgirl]

It sort of sounds like it was meant to be, honestly. You were on the fence about whether or not to leave and take this new job, and the answer was handed to you. I think it sounds like a great opportunity, and also like you'll be happier. Congratulations! I believe it will all work out in the end.

[bishopsrook]

It's really difficult in management when people take advantage of your kindness and work ethic. My husband is barely containing his excitement for my eventual return to SAH (we test drove it a year ago to be sure we could do it and we could, on a salary that was several dollars less an hour than he makes now) because I'm so damn tired when I come home, the house slips in cleanliness mid week when I work my second shift hours. I promise you that this time will be a great way of finding out where your weak spots are financially before your LO comes along. You'll have time to adjust what needs it and bolster what doesn't and see what happens. And besides that it sounds like you'll just be all around happier. I hope it works out great for you and your family.

[indseylay]

Good luck with the new job!