Post by michieu129 on Jan 28, 2015 14:53:25 GMT -5
WTF development shoveling men?! I thoroughly appreciate all the shoveling and plowing do you-I swear. But do you have to dump 10lbs of salt at my front door every time it snows? This is causing me to sweep my entire lower level twice and mop once a day to avoid sticky, gross floors and this toxic crap from being eaten by my dog and toddler. A sprinkle of salt would actually suffice. I swear.
Post by TheEleventhHour on Jan 28, 2015 15:00:22 GMT -5
michieu129 Over salting is the worst! Our neighborhood guys never get it right. Either too little and everyone is slipping everywhere or too much and our poor dog gets it stuck in his paws!
Post by luluandgirl on Jan 28, 2015 16:21:17 GMT -5
WTF soon to be XH, quit trying to make me feel bad because I don't want to hang out with you - I know it's your birthday but remember we're getting divorced because you treated me like crap and cheated on me, so no, I don't want to hang out with you. How about I get you what you got me for my last birthday, balloons and a DUI?
Sorry for the rant, but wtf? I don't understand how someone can treat you like such crap and then when you try to leave them they act like you're the bad guy breaking up the family.
WTF soon to be XH, quit trying to make me feel bad because I don't want to hang out with you - I know it's your birthday but remember we're getting divorced because you treated me like crap and cheated on me, so no, I don't want to hang out with you. How about I get you what you got me for my last birthday, balloons and a DUI?
Sorry for the rant, but wtf? I don't understand how someone can treat you like such crap and then when you try to leave them they act like you're the bad guy breaking up the family.
Sorry your X is such a douche. I'd say ignore him let him wallow in his own crap.
Post by luluandgirl on Jan 28, 2015 17:28:37 GMT -5
privacy , TheEleventhHour , esmerelda - thanks ladies, it's been a long time coming and thankfully I finally got the courage to say screw you, I'm not taking your crap anymore. I couldn't post on TB because he would stalk my account and get pissed when I'd say anything about him - it was all true, he just didn't like being reminded of the crappy husband/father he was. It's nice to be able to post again
privacy , TheEleventhHour , esmerelda - thanks ladies, it's been a long time coming and thankfully I finally got the courage to say screw you, I'm not taking your crap anymore. I couldn't post on TB because he would stalk my account and get pissed when I'd say anything about him - it was all true, he just didn't like being reminded of the crappy husband/father he was. It's nice to be able to post again
Congrats on making such a positive change in your life. I know a lot of people who wouldn't be brave enough to move on.
Thanks. It's been really hard because all of my family lives in another part of the country. I tried to make it work for DS but there becomes a point when staying together is actually worse for him. One of the main issues was substance abuse, he'll be clean for a little while and then go back. I hope for his sake he'll be able to change but I'm not waiting around to find out.
Post by TheEleventhHour on Jan 28, 2015 19:04:57 GMT -5
luluandgirl My mom left my biological father (I say biological because my mom married again when I was 6 and her new husband - my dad - eventually adopted me and raised me because my bio father never got his act together) due to substance abuse issues when I was 3 and it was the best thing she could have done! He'd always say he was done, he was clean, but go back. You are definitely doing the right thing by not waiting around for him to change! Hugs. And I'm glad you can post here and not have to worry about him stalking you
luluandgirl My mom left my biological father (I say biological because my mom married again when I was 6 and her new husband - my dad - eventually adopted me and raised me because my bio father never got his act together) due to substance abuse issues when I was 3 and it was the best thing she could have done! He'd always say he was done, he was clean, but go back. You are definitely doing the right thing by not waiting around for him to change! Hugs. And I'm glad you can post here and not have to worry about him stalking you
Thanks for sharing this. It's been difficult because I feel like some of my family members disapprove of my decision. Like I'm making a mistake and all the issues that we've had I'll eventually have to deal with in another relationship. Really? So all men cheat and I should just except that. I understand that relationships take work, but when you're in a relationship with someone that has a substance abuse problem it's impossible to have a healthy relationship.
Post by luluandgirl on Jan 29, 2015 1:43:48 GMT -5
So this just happened, WTF disoriented old man banging on my door at 12:30 in the morning. You woke me up and continued to bang on the door and try to use your key to get in for the next 30+ minutes after I told you you had the wrong apartment and to go away. I called the cops but they got here a minute after he left, grrr, so hopefully he doesn't come back.
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