I am thinking of you guys and hoping for the best possible outcome for everyone. I think you are being amazingly understanding and I cannot imagine how stressful this is for you.
I can't imagine the emotions you're dealing with right now. I hope all goes as well as planned.
Question.... habb15?
Ha! The namesake for my username was a play on "no baby 2014"- because I had a loss that kept me from delivering in 2014. When I joined o15 with my most recent pregnancy, some ladies here joked that my name should be "habb15"- for having a baby in 2015
We heard him cry from the waiting room!!! He's been born. This is gonna be the longest hour of my life as I wait for my skin to skin time. Just hoping BM doesn't change the plan.
Post by bradysalon on Oct 13, 2015 19:22:15 GMT -5
nobb14 I can't imagine how crazy you must feel. I know it's been a stressful and confusing journey but keep looking towards the future with that baby. I will keep you in my thoughts that everything works out. You are amazing for being so understanding of BM's feelings and situation. Hang in there and we will be here for you!
Post by peanutbuttersugar on Oct 13, 2015 19:40:46 GMT -5
Sending you and your family all of the positive thoughts, vibes and hugs throughout this crazy process. You are being so much stronger than I can even fathom. Everything is going to work out, and you will be home with your sweet baby soon
He's perfect! Boyfriend came out and showed us a picture. He's fucking beautiful and I immediately burst into an ugly cry and hugged the BF for a little too long haha. He says we may be able to see the baby quicker than an hour- our agency consultant is in there with BM now. Ahhhhh. I'm already attached.
June 2013 Began TTC BFP #1: July 2013 Due April 2014; MC @ 5w BFP #2: April 2014 Due January 2015; MC @ 8w diagnosed with uterine septum October 2014 reschedule uterine septum surgery=SUCCESSFUL BFP #3 February 2015 due October 22, 2015- MMC @ 7w. BFP #4 August 2015 due May 20,2016- CP @ 5w
Married July 2009. I'm 36, DH 42. started TTC right away PG#1 BFP 7/21/09 DS m/c 10/6/09 EDD 4/26/10 Bleeding for a year, DX with uterine polyps. Had hysteroscopy. PG#2 BFP 11/2/11 DD born 7/12/12 PG#3 BFP 7/12/14 DS mm/c 9/2/14 DX with Trisomy 22 EDD 3/28/15 PG#4 BFP 1/14/14 EDD 9/29/15 DS arrived on due date! Tag me as punchyterkai
You guise. I haven't even read all the love but I know it is here. I knew I could count on you and every last vibe counted! I'm just exhausted. I promise to read comments tomorrow after some rest and be more specific! But here's what you really want to know-
Am.bro.se Ja.mes Joh.n (two middles for two mamas!) was born 4:45pm PST on 10/13/15. 7lbs 11 oz, 20 inches. He formula feeds and farts like a champ. I was able to get a solid hour and a half of skin to skin with him and MH was able to feed him as well- baby mama let us have the honor of first.
Speaking of, Baby Mama is doing well. She wants to make the most of the next few days with him, so we are taking advantage- I'm finally back at the house sipping wine and preparing spaghetti with homemade ragu because YOLO, so she can bond too without causing us hurt or anxiety. While there is always concern about a changing minds, she was in better spirits than pre-c; she was invested in watching us bond with A and I really think this truly may just happen for us. Only time will tell, but I love him so much already.
I awkwardly sent many corrective texts to friends who are already referring to me as mom, since no paperwork will be legal until Monday- they promptly corrected me to "fuck the paperwork" because I am a mother right now. That within itself is a life changing thing.
Legally I am unsure of when I can post a picture, so I don't want to risk it now- but he's got the grumpiest old man face that I adore and the biggest hands and feet that have us hoping for a professional sports star.
Xoxoxo xoxoxo. More tomorrow- thank you for everything. I truly mean that from the bottom of my heart. I know this is a non traditional BMB situation but you really have no idea what allowing this AW means to me.
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