I'm sorry any of us need to be here. I'm 34, DH is 37. My history is in my siggy, but here's a recap: MC February 2014, DS was born December 2014. I got a BFP in September, and we were so excited that our LOs would be so close in age. There were a few scares along the way, but all of our u/s were good until our NT scan. A few days later, I began spotting, but had a good follow up u/s. A few days later, after spotting turned to light bleeding, I MC'd this past Saturday at 13w4d. I alternate between complete disbelief that this has happened, and reliving it in detail.
I go back to my OB next week to see if I'm retaining any tissue. I'm nervous that I'll need a D&C since my bleeding has lightened and my lining was quite thick still on u/s Monday. My OB also plans to refer us to an RE for RPL testing. Even though we had a healthy baby between losses, he's concerned that this is our second loss, and that it was a later loss. I'm grateful that he's being so proactive. So, we are sort of in limbo for the time being.
Randoms about us: we have four crazy cats, just bought our first home in June and have no clue what we are doing, and are gearing up for DS's first birthday next month. Looking forward to getting to know all of you.
I recognized you as well. Feel free to PM me if you ever want to talk or need someone to listen. Glad you've been referred to a RE for testing and hope that your physical recovery goes as smoothly as it can.
Hi there, birch113. I'm so sorry for your loss. Be gentle with yourself as you recover and feel free to chat \ rant \ vent here. It's a sad club to be in, but very supportive.
I am extremely sorry to hear about your loss. I can understand how hard it must have been. MC is the most heartbreaking moment for a woman. However, stay strong and be positive. I am sure things will work out. Make sure to visit a doctor with a high success rate. Good luck to you. Sending baby dust your way.
I am really sorry to hear about your loss. I can understand how hard this must be for you. However, honestly speaking dont lose hope! I can completely understand that it isn't easy but do give it a try again. After an MC the women is the most fertile. Therefore, it is really important to stay positive and calm. Visit a good doctor for your treatment. For me, all my treatments have failed! Nothing worked out for us. In between, I took a break and started trying again. This really helped me out. I switched my doctor recently on the advice of my friend. She explained to me the importance of a good clinic. So now we are visiting a different clinic. I am happy with my choice.
Hi dear! I am so sorry for your loss. I know how hard this must have been for you. Losing your baby is the worst thing ever. The moment when i heard about my miscarriage i was totally devastated. I couldn't stop thinking about him for months. I remember i even marked the due date on my calender. That was the hardest time of my life. It took me 5 years to achieve my dream of becoming a mother. Surrogacy was the way out for me. My clinic really helped me in my journey. I hope things works out for you too. Just stay positive and keep trying. Good Luck!
Post by tawneekevinson on Mar 6, 2020 4:33:08 GMT -5
My heart breaks to have read all of these losses. I almost fell into depression when I had my miscarriage but I have a strong support system from my love ones. I pray that all of us here will be healed in this emotional pain that we are experiencing.
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