Serious question...
Feb 3, 2015 10:36:15 GMT -5
Post by blasto! on Feb 3, 2015 10:36:15 GMT -5
Sully, I know you, and I know this isn't okay with you. Tell him how you feel. It doesn't matter if it's okay with some of us or not okay.
It's not okay with you, hun. Tell him it's not okay.
FWIW, I know I wouldn't be. I know DH has gone in the past probably 2-3 times. I only know about once and he didn't like it. The other times may have occurred on bachelor weekends for his friends, but I told him before he went that I didn't want to know if they went. I knew his feelings about them before. I knew if he went it would be because it was for the other guys and my imagination is way too active for that. Now that I'm pregnant, it would make me extra uncomfortable. And I know that's more of my own insecurities about my body not being the same than about his feelings about strip clubs changing, but it doesn't change the fact that I wouldn't like it. And it would eat at me. I would just keep thinking about it.
This may not be you at all. Obviously we all have a wide variety of responses to the idea, but for me, I find that thinking honestly about how I would feel during and after is a good indicator of what I should do.