Post by paintdadanta on Jan 15, 2015 23:55:32 GMT -5
So I've been switching back and forth to stay in touch with those who haven't made the jump yet only to find out the announcement thread on June 15 pertaining to an hour of silence each Thursday in honor of loss moms has been deleted by admin. Seriously?
Add that to their sorry not sorry thread and they've stooped to a low I didn't think was possible. Anyone else catch this?
eta - well, atleast it's back now with quite an interesting conversation growing . . .
Post by paintdadanta on Jan 16, 2015 0:23:01 GMT -5
I didn't see Budders comment until sometime after my post. Either way it's messed up - who moves a thread without looking to see what it is first. I swear, I don't know how TB didn't crash before now.
I saw it, too. How ridiculous. Along with the *squee I'm 14 weeks* and *is this symptom really normal when I have it or just when it's described in books I haven't read?* posts that some wise women predicted.
Post by BookishMomma on Jan 16, 2015 10:08:54 GMT -5
I read the "sorry not sorry" thread this morning. Considering that it came from "corporate," it was so unprofessional and petty. Bleh. I will probably stay on PGAL over on TB, though, because I don't think all our members will make the leap. It's just a lot easier for those who have been on TB a long time to stay over there. I have, however, pretty much abandoned ship on my BMB, since everyone I could tolerate on it moved over here.
Me (37) + DH (39) BFP #1: DS born July 2011 BFPs #2,3,4,5: Four losses from Nov 2013-Nov 2014. Yeah, that sucked. BFP #6: 1/5/15 - Rainbow baby boy born 9/16/15
Post by racegurl87 on Jan 16, 2015 13:50:02 GMT -5
I read that Bump HQ thread, and BumpAdmin is definitely digging herself a ginormous hole.... There are still some people on my BMB so I'll probably go back and forth between here and there....
I read the "sorry not sorry" thread this morning. Considering that it came from "corporate," it was so unprofessional and petty. Bleh. I will probably stay on PGAL over on TB, though, because I don't think all our members will make the leap. It's just a lot easier for those who have been on TB a long time to stay over there. I have, however, pretty much abandoned ship on my BMB, since everyone I could tolerate on it moved over here.
This. I wish more pgal ladies would come over. It's so quiet here.
I read the "sorry not sorry" thread this morning. Considering that it came from "corporate," it was so unprofessional and petty. Bleh. I will probably stay on PGAL over on TB, though, because I don't think all our members will make the leap. It's just a lot easier for those who have been on TB a long time to stay over there. I have, however, pretty much abandoned ship on my BMB, since everyone I could tolerate on it moved over here.
This. I wish more pgal ladies would come over. It's so quiet here.
Me too. I don't want to be over there, but I feel like I'm missing out, so I keep going over there to check on things.
For now I will probably go back and forth since I'm 38w, I don't want to abandon the ladies still over there who supported me through out this pg. I will likely either go "here" or quit TB after LO is born depending on if any PAL ladies move here.
Post by luciddreamer on Jan 16, 2015 19:01:30 GMT -5
Yep, I've been kind of going back and forth, too. I hope more PGAL ladies move over here. It's really shitty what TB admins are doing, but I also don't want to miss out on our community.
I read the "sorry not sorry" thread this morning. Considering that it came from "corporate," it was so unprofessional and petty. Bleh. I will probably stay on PGAL over on TB, though, because I don't think all our members will make the leap. It's just a lot easier for those who have been on TB a long time to stay over there. I have, however, pretty much abandoned ship on my BMB, since everyone I could tolerate on it moved over here.
I hate supporting TB but there are still plenty of ladies I want to support who are still over there. I definitely feel the same way about my BMB as well. The people I actually want to talk to pretty much moved over here and most of the crazies stayed so that is a win.
So I've been switching back and forth to stay in touch with those who haven't made the jump yet only to find out the announcement thread on June 15 pertaining to an hour of silence each Thursday in honor of loss moms has been deleted by admin. Seriously?
Add that to their sorry not sorry thread and they've stooped to a low I didn't think was possible. Anyone else catch this?
eta - well, atleast it's back now with quite an interesting conversation growing . . .
::lurking::
OMG - That literally made my jaw drop...that's so ridiculous!!
BookishMomma - Which board is that thread on? J15 BMB? (the "sorry not sorry" thread)
So I've been switching back and forth to stay in touch with those who haven't made the jump yet only to find out the announcement thread on June 15 pertaining to an hour of silence each Thursday in honor of loss moms has been deleted by admin. Seriously?
Add that to their sorry not sorry thread and they've stooped to a low I didn't think was possible. Anyone else catch this?
eta - well, atleast it's back now with quite an interesting conversation growing . . .
::lurking::
OMG - That literally made my jaw drop...that's so ridiculous!!
BookishMomma - Which board is that thread on? J15 BMB? (the "sorry not sorry" thread)
I saw it at the top of Pgal. It is titled something like "in response to feedback on the new rules" or something like that.
Me (37) + DH (39) BFP #1: DS born July 2011 BFPs #2,3,4,5: Four losses from Nov 2013-Nov 2014. Yeah, that sucked. BFP #6: 1/5/15 - Rainbow baby boy born 9/16/15
Married the love of my life June 18, 2011 -- Me (28) DH (29)
TTC #1 since June 2012
BFP #1 6.29.12 EDD 3.12.13 MMC discovered 8.11.12 9w5d D&C 8.15.12
BFP #2 11.2.12 EDD 7.14.13 MMC 6w5d discovered 8w6d D&C 12.27.12
BFP #3 8.5.13 EDD 4.18.14 MMC 11w1d Emergency D&C 10.2.13
RPL Testing. DX Asherman's November 2013. Low AMH (0.44) January 2014.
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BFP#4 6.18.14 Born 3.9.15 Aubrey Anne
They deleted all TTCAL pages. "Hackers" again? I can't believe it! I won't be going back.
Seriously?? OMG! That is infuriating! Don't mess with TTCAL WTH!?? my heart breaks because TTCAL Helped me soooo much when I was in a very dark place.
Same it. It makes me really ragey and legit upset that they are screwing with TTCAL. I am happy being here, but new loss ladies aren't going to be able to find us over here when they need a place to be where people understand.
Post by BookishMomma on Jan 20, 2015 20:12:11 GMT -5
Deleting TTCAL's history is not only a slap in the face to the wonderful ladies who made it home for so many of us...it's also a disservice to new people joining.
Me (37) + DH (39) BFP #1: DS born July 2011 BFPs #2,3,4,5: Four losses from Nov 2013-Nov 2014. Yeah, that sucked. BFP #6: 1/5/15 - Rainbow baby boy born 9/16/15
Post by darksidefootprint on Jan 20, 2015 21:56:51 GMT -5
I wasn't going to come because I have only been active on PgAL and I have at most 7 weeks left, but deleting TTCAL was diabolical. Holy shit, wtf, seriously.
WOW......... What's the point in deleting all of that?!?
To be complete and total asshats.
Well, that's real nice. What a bunch of jerks. I was looking around there this morning, and it appears like almost everyone on quite a few of the boards has left. I wonder how they feel about that!
Well, my account is officially deleted. The search only shows quotes and other people's tags. I believe they said at some point that deleted comments will appear as such, but nope - they erase all evidence of the exodus. I can only imagine how desolate it would have looked if all the deletions actually showed. It makes me sad, but proves once again that I made the right decision by moving here.
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