AW: Help with RE problem? loss mentioned; all welcome
Apr 5, 2016 20:17:32 GMT -5
Post by tiresiastheblond on Apr 5, 2016 20:17:32 GMT -5
This is VERY long; I'm sorry.
I was scheduled for the FET of my last normal embryo on April 9th. After my last FET, which ended in a c/p that used up my other two normals (my third loss since I've been seeing this RE, BTW), I had an extensive battery of immunological and metabolic tests done, and the RE and I discussed modifications to the protocol (their usual estrace-only protocol didn't work for me, so we were doing a low-stim protocol designed to induce ovulation so I developed my own hormones and lining). One of the modifications I wanted to make was to skip the PIO. I had about 18 follicles (~6 mature) at trigger this time, and I really think that since they weren't retrieved, the corpus luteii (or whatever the plural is) will generate quite enough progesterone on their own. I converted an earlier cycle using this protocol to TI, and the unsupplemented P4 reading I had done (36, at just 2 dpo) backs this up. I'm reluctant to add MORE progesterone because I've been struggling with high blood sugar, and I've read (and experienced) that high progesterone makes it harder to control. I made this case to them weeks ago, and was under the impression that to go without PIO was to go against medical advice, but that it was my choice.
I obviously misunderstood. I called them this morning to discuss something else, and it came up that I had elected not to take the PIO. The RE has since decided to cancel my cycle and will not test my progesterone to be sure that's necessary. I'm incredibly frustrated, because I've spent the last two months dieting, exercising, supplementing, and generally working EXTREMELY hard to get to transfer, and to have it summarily canceled against my wishes seems very unfair--it's MY embryo, after all, and all I want is for them to actually test my progesterone. If it's inadequate, I would obviously be just fine with canceling. The RE has conveniently made herself unavailable to meet or talk until the week after the scheduled transfer (she actually had their billing clerk call me with the news. Classy). This feels more punitive to me than anything else. I'm assuming that she plans to terminate the caregiver relationship for noncompliance, which suits me fine, but I don't think she should be able to do so in the middle of a cycle without compelling medical reason.
Can anyone offer any tips, resources, ideas, compromises, lines of argument, or anything at all to prevent my having to waste this cycle? I'm incredibly upset right now...
I was scheduled for the FET of my last normal embryo on April 9th. After my last FET, which ended in a c/p that used up my other two normals (my third loss since I've been seeing this RE, BTW), I had an extensive battery of immunological and metabolic tests done, and the RE and I discussed modifications to the protocol (their usual estrace-only protocol didn't work for me, so we were doing a low-stim protocol designed to induce ovulation so I developed my own hormones and lining). One of the modifications I wanted to make was to skip the PIO. I had about 18 follicles (~6 mature) at trigger this time, and I really think that since they weren't retrieved, the corpus luteii (or whatever the plural is) will generate quite enough progesterone on their own. I converted an earlier cycle using this protocol to TI, and the unsupplemented P4 reading I had done (36, at just 2 dpo) backs this up. I'm reluctant to add MORE progesterone because I've been struggling with high blood sugar, and I've read (and experienced) that high progesterone makes it harder to control. I made this case to them weeks ago, and was under the impression that to go without PIO was to go against medical advice, but that it was my choice.
I obviously misunderstood. I called them this morning to discuss something else, and it came up that I had elected not to take the PIO. The RE has since decided to cancel my cycle and will not test my progesterone to be sure that's necessary. I'm incredibly frustrated, because I've spent the last two months dieting, exercising, supplementing, and generally working EXTREMELY hard to get to transfer, and to have it summarily canceled against my wishes seems very unfair--it's MY embryo, after all, and all I want is for them to actually test my progesterone. If it's inadequate, I would obviously be just fine with canceling. The RE has conveniently made herself unavailable to meet or talk until the week after the scheduled transfer (she actually had their billing clerk call me with the news. Classy). This feels more punitive to me than anything else. I'm assuming that she plans to terminate the caregiver relationship for noncompliance, which suits me fine, but I don't think she should be able to do so in the middle of a cycle without compelling medical reason.
Can anyone offer any tips, resources, ideas, compromises, lines of argument, or anything at all to prevent my having to waste this cycle? I'm incredibly upset right now...