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So sorry N40Mom, and your sister can shut it. That is ridiculous. H co-slept with me from 3 months old until almost 14 months old and has been fine in her crib since that transition 5 months ago. LOL at your sister saying she remembers and is now punishing you??! I'm not really sure what to think about the wakeup thing. I do think CIO is supposed to get easier over time but also know that is usually the case when they are first sleep training at like 6 months or so. I imagine it might be a whole different scenario with a strong minded toddler. I feel like right now there is no reasoning or training with much of anything with H, I think its this stage right now. I don't really have much to offer, I cant think of what would be causing it except its just a stage like everything else. I wonder all the time why my kid despised sleep for 14 months but really don't have an answer. UGH I'm sorry, I hope it gets better soon.
N40Mom toddlers don't have that great of a memory... In my experience CIO does get better not worse. However she is a toddler. Hasn't she had a few ear infections before? Maybe she could have another one brewing?
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I also should add that sleep has been iffy for us. He just doesn't want to go to sleep some days. So it is very likely it could just be the age they are.
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doglover31 adjuster and investigator are coming out today. It's hard. Two cows were named for N and it hit me last night that they both didn't make it. Stupid to get upset about that.
Not stupid at all! That's a big loss and a very emotional one.
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Post by judyblume14 on Apr 13, 2016 9:38:53 GMT -5
That's not stupid, @lildiamondeyes. That's a really awful situation that your.H's family is going through
N40Mom, We never had to do a strict "CIO" per se... but recently, L has been losing her god damn mind when we put her down for bed. And we jsut let her cry til she zonks out (usually about 15 or 20 minutes). Thankfully it's jsut at the beginning of the night. I agree with other though, that CIO at 19 months is just different that CIO at 6 months. LOL at your sister's dumb dumb guilting explanation.
Post by vavavictoria on Apr 13, 2016 9:42:28 GMT -5
N40Mom v is typically an angel sleepwise and in the past week has raged in her crib for half an hour screaming mommy every night when we put her down. Even though she is barely able to keep her eyes open before we put her in her crib. She has also been waking up middle of the night though not as bad as yours. Is there an 18 month sleep regression? Maybe we just have to power through.
Post by judyblume14 on Apr 13, 2016 9:51:53 GMT -5
Also, re: sleep. L doesn't go down very easily for naps on the weekend. Often, either me of my H will lay down next to her crib. It's annoying, and probably what she wants us to do when we put her down at bedtime...
Please ladies your scaring me, I can't think we will have sleep problems again. I have been so spoiled with her actually STTN. I will cry if we go backwards. She does scream like a banshee for 2.8 minutes when I first put her down though, lol.
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Post by doglover31 on Apr 13, 2016 13:55:03 GMT -5
@giamia923 I'm so sorry. That is so crappy. Sorry your H is being a jerk about it too. Stuff happens, he needs to get over it. There will always be other houses out there.
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Just catching up now, I'm so sorry @giamia923! I can't say much more than what everyone has said but DO NOT beat yourself up or let YH treat you like shit! N40Mom said it perfectly. I hope you can get it all resolved, HUGE HUGS
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