We had huevos rancheros last night and it didn't settle well either judy...
Today is the start of a super long weekend! We have Monday off (Massachusetts holiday) and its supposed to be really nice weather wise. We are hoping to do something fun with H. I'll probably take her to the park or out in the yard today.
Man I'm really having baby fever lately. I think I'm starting to totally stress about my age and running out of time..
BFP#1 7/23/12 EDD 4/1/13. MMC discovered on 9/4/12 at 10w1d. BFP#2 3/9/13 EDD 11/12/13. Natural MC on 3/16/13 at 5w3d BFP#3 12/24/13 EDD 9/5/14. Our Rainbow baby was born on 9/4/14!
We ha another rough night. I could only get little man to sleep if he was laying in bed by me. So I got like no sleep. Oh and he fell off the bed twice. Luckily out bed isn't very high up. He has been really snotty so I'm hoping he just has a cold and all the bad sleep is from him not feeling well.
BFP#1 7/23/12 EDD 4/1/13. MMC discovered on 9/4/12 at 10w1d. BFP#2 3/9/13 EDD 11/12/13. Natural MC on 3/16/13 at 5w3d BFP#3 12/24/13 EDD 9/5/14. Our Rainbow baby was born on 9/4/14!
TGIF!! DH has been stressed with the new job, and in a bad mood in the evenings because of it. Hopefully the weekend will give him a chance to relax and de-stress. I feel like he resents me for being at home all day, but until I finish my refresher course, test, and get certifications transferred, there's not much I can do about that. We don't have childcare yet anyway.
Post by judyblume14 on Apr 15, 2016 7:33:29 GMT -5
melw629, that's tough. Even when one doesn't plan to SAH, it's still a ton of work to care for a toddler all day. I'm sure he doesn't actually resent you over it, but he's got grass is greener syndrome. He's starting a new job and getting stressed over it, while you "get" to be at home all day.
BFP#1 7/23/12 EDD 4/1/13. MMC discovered on 9/4/12 at 10w1d. BFP#2 3/9/13 EDD 11/12/13. Natural MC on 3/16/13 at 5w3d BFP#3 12/24/13 EDD 9/5/14. Our Rainbow baby was born on 9/4/14!
BFP#1 7/23/12 EDD 4/1/13. MMC discovered on 9/4/12 at 10w1d. BFP#2 3/9/13 EDD 11/12/13. Natural MC on 3/16/13 at 5w3d BFP#3 12/24/13 EDD 9/5/14. Our Rainbow baby was born on 9/4/14!
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Post by judyblume14 on Apr 15, 2016 9:40:13 GMT -5
FFFC - I'm having mixed feelings about pregnancy announcements lately. When I hear them from the S14 ladies, and the girls in the other boards I frequent (GKU and Working Parents), I get crazy-giddy excited.
But when I hear them from my IRL friends, I get... jealous? envious? I'm not sure what it is that I feel. I am happy and excited for them too, but it's just coupled with a negative feeling that I don't get with TCF peeps.
Post by judyblume14 on Apr 15, 2016 9:43:20 GMT -5
@giamia923, there was a period of time, maybe 4 or 5 weeks over the winter where L was transitioning from 2 naps to 1. And she kept falling asleep in the car when I picked her up from my sister's after I went to the gym. So as to not wake the sleeping baby, I'd go to McD or BK to get shitty food, a milk shake, and sit in the car either listening to podcasts or reading my rag mags. It was GLORIOUS me-time, but incredibly counter-productive to kicking ass at the gym.
judyblume14 I understand. I kinda feel the same way. We want to TFAS, but my body/hormones are messed up from stupid BC choices, and it's not even possible right now. I get so excited for people here, and yet the IRL/Facebook announcements (and questions/comments about when C is getting a sibling)...I guess it just hits a little closer to home.
Post by judyblume14 on Apr 15, 2016 10:04:47 GMT -5
melw629, that's really frustrating about the BC! Somehow, we haven't really been bugged about the "when are you having another." Because I would lose my shit.
@giamia923, I can't say much more than what everyone else has said but YH is being a complete tool. He needs to get off his high horse and stop being so immature and treating you like shit! UGHhhh i'm so frustrated for you!!!!!!!!!!!
STill dancing around the TFAS talk with MH, its like I dont want to lay it all out on the table because I'm afraid he will say a definite no and then I'm crushed BUT I do realize to just keep thinking about it and doing nothing doesn't help sooooooo yeah I'm confused, lol
Post by judyblume14 on Apr 15, 2016 10:09:35 GMT -5
N40Mom, Honestly, I don't know what it is. I only have a couple friends IRL who are pregnant right now. So it's not really all that in-my-face. I think the difference might be back story. I think especially on GKU, because I've been following some people's TTC journeys for months. And I know how some have struggled. And then IRL, since TTC isn't always an open conversation, sometimes maybe I fell blindsided? Which shouldn't matter, because I shouldn't be less thrilled for someone who gets KU on the first try than someone who has TTC for a long time.
Who knows. It all just comes back to me started to get frustrated with TTC, and the one-year mark looming in the distance...
N40Mom , Honestly, I don't know what it is. I only have a couple friends IRL who are pregnant right now. So it's not really all that in-my-face. I think the difference might be back story. I think especially on GKU, because I've been following some people's TTC journeys for months. And I know how some have struggled. And then IRL, since TTC isn't always an open conversation, sometimes maybe I fell blindsided? Which shouldn't matter, because I shouldn't be less thrilled for someone who gets KU on the first try than someone who has TTC for a long time.
Who knows. It all just comes back to me started to get frustrated with TTC, and the one-year mark looming in the distance...
Post by spacedcadet on Apr 15, 2016 11:16:39 GMT -5
@giamia923 - you guys need to have a CTJ or something about your marriage. Maybe address counseling again. I don't know. It just seems like something needs to change with you guys.
Post by judyblume14 on Apr 15, 2016 11:41:04 GMT -5
I haven't had any issues yet with L and taking her clothes/diapers off. Sometimes she fidgets with her diaper on the changing table, but she's never taken it off.
BFP#1 7/23/12 EDD 4/1/13. MMC discovered on 9/4/12 at 10w1d. BFP#2 3/9/13 EDD 11/12/13. Natural MC on 3/16/13 at 5w3d BFP#3 12/24/13 EDD 9/5/14. Our Rainbow baby was born on 9/4/14!
BFP#1 7/23/12 EDD 4/1/13. MMC discovered on 9/4/12 at 10w1d. BFP#2 3/9/13 EDD 11/12/13. Natural MC on 3/16/13 at 5w3d BFP#3 12/24/13 EDD 9/5/14. Our Rainbow baby was born on 9/4/14!
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Post by doglover31 on Apr 15, 2016 11:44:45 GMT -5
So yesterday I wore my hair in a bun to work (because up all night with a sick toddler). When I got home H was all mad and not saying much. He left to go teach a night class he has, so I texted him asking what is wrong. He told me he was upset that I wore a bun because he has told me a million times that he doesn't like the way I look wearing one. That I look prettier without one.... Um thanks dude.
I think he quickly realized how bad that sounded. He sent me a sweet apology text this morning. But still, my hair dude.
BFP#1 7/23/12 EDD 4/1/13. MMC discovered on 9/4/12 at 10w1d. BFP#2 3/9/13 EDD 11/12/13. Natural MC on 3/16/13 at 5w3d BFP#3 12/24/13 EDD 9/5/14. Our Rainbow baby was born on 9/4/14!
BFP#1 7/23/12 EDD 4/1/13. MMC discovered on 9/4/12 at 10w1d. BFP#2 3/9/13 EDD 11/12/13. Natural MC on 3/16/13 at 5w3d BFP#3 12/24/13 EDD 9/5/14. Our Rainbow baby was born on 9/4/14!
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