Post by redlipz on Feb 6, 2015 0:50:37 GMT -5
I'm just venting so you don't gotta read all this(:
Ok so my husband wakes up at 430 to go to work and works 10 hour days 5 days a week. He gets home, showers, has dinner and KOs on the couch till 9:30 when he gets stuff ready for the next day n then goes to bed.
We have a 4 year old and a 3 year old and obviously pregnant with our 3rd.
Since he works so early im the one who gets all the kids stuff ready, get them ready, bathe, feed, entertain them, do arts n crafts, teach them stuff, make dinner, ect. I also work at 5 different spas so I'm the one who gets them to the babysitter and sometimes he picks them up if I'm out late. They also stay with him on Saturdays since he is off. But for the most part I'm the one who is with them the most and cater to their every need even if there's a day like today where I don't go to work im the one who does everything for them so I don't get any real days off. Today I happen to just say that I need a break and he flipped the fuck out on me telling me I don't do shit and told me to leave if I need a break and what not.
Apparently I'm not allowed to need a break because I don't work 10 hour days and therefore I don't do shit. This mans idea of watching the kids is turning on the tv for them in one room and him being in another. And when they're hungry he goes gets them kids meals or frozen foods. Oh and most times when he gets them at the sitters or he's with them on Saturdays he just heads to his parents house and let's his mom watch them and play with them, easy way out.
He has played soccer his whole life and usually goes to practice on Fridays and games on Sunday's so those are his "me" times but I just seem to get none. I'm physically and mentally exhausted and just need to recharge and he always tells me to go out n stuff but today when I just said that I need to, he flipped out. Ugh I wish I could trade places with him for a freakin week so he can go ahead and tell me I don't do anything and be a jerk when I feel like I need a break.
I think I liked him better when he had his other job and wasn't going to work so early, now I just feel like it's just me and the kids most days.
Rant over. Thanks for getting this far if you did.
Ok so my husband wakes up at 430 to go to work and works 10 hour days 5 days a week. He gets home, showers, has dinner and KOs on the couch till 9:30 when he gets stuff ready for the next day n then goes to bed.
We have a 4 year old and a 3 year old and obviously pregnant with our 3rd.
Since he works so early im the one who gets all the kids stuff ready, get them ready, bathe, feed, entertain them, do arts n crafts, teach them stuff, make dinner, ect. I also work at 5 different spas so I'm the one who gets them to the babysitter and sometimes he picks them up if I'm out late. They also stay with him on Saturdays since he is off. But for the most part I'm the one who is with them the most and cater to their every need even if there's a day like today where I don't go to work im the one who does everything for them so I don't get any real days off. Today I happen to just say that I need a break and he flipped the fuck out on me telling me I don't do shit and told me to leave if I need a break and what not.
Apparently I'm not allowed to need a break because I don't work 10 hour days and therefore I don't do shit. This mans idea of watching the kids is turning on the tv for them in one room and him being in another. And when they're hungry he goes gets them kids meals or frozen foods. Oh and most times when he gets them at the sitters or he's with them on Saturdays he just heads to his parents house and let's his mom watch them and play with them, easy way out.
He has played soccer his whole life and usually goes to practice on Fridays and games on Sunday's so those are his "me" times but I just seem to get none. I'm physically and mentally exhausted and just need to recharge and he always tells me to go out n stuff but today when I just said that I need to, he flipped out. Ugh I wish I could trade places with him for a freakin week so he can go ahead and tell me I don't do anything and be a jerk when I feel like I need a break.
I think I liked him better when he had his other job and wasn't going to work so early, now I just feel like it's just me and the kids most days.
Rant over. Thanks for getting this far if you did.