TTC #1 since August 2013 DX: Endo November 2014: Hysteroscopy, D&C June - September 2015: Clomid + Novarel + IUI #1-3 January 2017: Laparoscopy - endo removed
Post by wildflower810 on May 17, 2016 17:56:10 GMT -5
I'm not in a good headspace right now and have no idea what to do. A lot of it is frustration with H... but he never responds well to me telling him I need him to change his habits.
I'm calling a therapist tomorrow, I guess. I finally got a local recommendation from someone I trust.
I'm not in a good headspace right now and have no idea what to do. A lot of it is frustration with H... but he never responds well to me telling him I need him to change his habits.
I'm calling a therapist tomorrow, I guess. I finally got a local recommendation from someone I trust.
That sounds like a good plan. Big hugs. Do you plan on seeing if he'd be interested in going with you at some point? It sounds like it'd be good to have a space to voice some feelings with a mediator. But I totally understand and support going by yourself first.
I'm not in a good headspace right now and have no idea what to do. A lot of it is frustration with H... but he never responds well to me telling him I need him to change his habits.
I'm calling a therapist tomorrow, I guess. I finally got a local recommendation from someone I trust.
I'm not in a good headspace right now and have no idea what to do. A lot of it is frustration with H... but he never responds well to me telling him I need him to change his habits.
I'm calling a therapist tomorrow, I guess. I finally got a local recommendation from someone I trust.
All the hugs, please be kind to yourself. Getting the recommendation is an amazing step forward xoxo
For some reason, I am hesitant to contact a male pet sitter. I feel like I am being sexist. Hmm.
My best dog walker / sitter was a retired airline pilot, he was on the short list of people my little guy was nice to!
I think I also have this notion that there aren't as many men that like cats compared to women. My H loves his cat and she LOVES him so I don't know. I'm gonna contact the guy and see if he will even travel my way.
Post by wildflower810 on May 17, 2016 19:36:46 GMT -5
Thanks, ladies. My severe meltdown moment (hour?) seems to be over. I texted H and maybe I shouldn't have, but I think that's what helped.
I'm feeling really overworked and underappreciated. We have a trip this weekend that's stressing me out, and an even bigger trip in a few weeks that is massively stressing me out.
Post by wannabmama on May 17, 2016 19:53:51 GMT -5
wildflower810 I'm so sorry. I found a therapist and have only been a couple times but it's been really helpful. For a little while I felt totally crazy and unable to get my emotions under control and just talking helped so much. I hope it helps you, too. Hugs.
TTC since July 2014. CP March 2015. IVF #1 March 2016, 5R, 3M, 2F with ICSI. Transferred 2 on day 3. CP. Surprise BFP and then CP August 2016 (prep cycle for IVF). IVF #2: zero eggs retrieved IVF #3: 6R, 5M, 5F, 3 (2 8A and 1 11A) transferred, one "B" graded embryo frozen on day 5. BFP (at home 7dp3dt, confirmed 14dp3dt with 1552 beta) and U/S at 5w5d, 2 sacs and 2 yolks!
TTC since July 2014. CP March 2015. IVF #1 March 2016, 5R, 3M, 2F with ICSI. Transferred 2 on day 3. CP. Surprise BFP and then CP August 2016 (prep cycle for IVF). IVF #2: zero eggs retrieved IVF #3: 6R, 5M, 5F, 3 (2 8A and 1 11A) transferred, one "B" graded embryo frozen on day 5. BFP (at home 7dp3dt, confirmed 14dp3dt with 1552 beta) and U/S at 5w5d, 2 sacs and 2 yolks!
wildflower810 I'm so sorry. I found a therapist and have only been a couple times but it's been really helpful. For a little while I felt totally crazy and unable to get my emotions under control and just talking helped so much. I hope it helps you, too. Hugs.
I've treated H as my therapist, almost, for a few years. It's not working out so great now that some of the stuff I need to talk about is frustrations with him. I need to be able to say things about him I don't really mean all the time.
wildflower810 I'm so sorry. I found a therapist and have only been a couple times but it's been really helpful. For a little while I felt totally crazy and unable to get my emotions under control and just talking helped so much. I hope it helps you, too. Hugs.
I've treated H as my therapist, almost, for a few years. It's not working out so great now that some of the stuff I need to talk about is frustrations with him. I need to be able to say things about him I don't really mean all the time.
And sleep. I need sleep.
I love the way you said that "I need to be able to say things about him I don't really mean all the time." I hear you on that, big time!
TTC since July 2014. CP March 2015. IVF #1 March 2016, 5R, 3M, 2F with ICSI. Transferred 2 on day 3. CP. Surprise BFP and then CP August 2016 (prep cycle for IVF). IVF #2: zero eggs retrieved IVF #3: 6R, 5M, 5F, 3 (2 8A and 1 11A) transferred, one "B" graded embryo frozen on day 5. BFP (at home 7dp3dt, confirmed 14dp3dt with 1552 beta) and U/S at 5w5d, 2 sacs and 2 yolks!
onesweetworld now my dogs want to move in with you, too (the cat's been trying to figure out how to read a map for months so she can get there).
Lol I'll mail them some
So random, I just was looking for a wine stopper and went in a random drawer and there was a dog bone shaped cookie cutter in there...I don't remember getting it. The universe is sending me a sign...(or the dogs have figured out how to use Amazon prime)
TTC since July 2014. CP March 2015. IVF #1 March 2016, 5R, 3M, 2F with ICSI. Transferred 2 on day 3. CP. Surprise BFP and then CP August 2016 (prep cycle for IVF). IVF #2: zero eggs retrieved IVF #3: 6R, 5M, 5F, 3 (2 8A and 1 11A) transferred, one "B" graded embryo frozen on day 5. BFP (at home 7dp3dt, confirmed 14dp3dt with 1552 beta) and U/S at 5w5d, 2 sacs and 2 yolks!
I've treated H as my therapist, almost, for a few years. It's not working out so great now that some of the stuff I need to talk about is frustrations with him. I need to be able to say things about him I don't really mean all the time.
And sleep. I need sleep.
I love the way you said that "I need to be able to say things about him I don't really mean all the time." I hear you on that, big time!
"I just want to throw his phone through the window and ask his lazy ass how he thinks food and clean laundry appear around here."
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