Post by PepperPottsJ on May 17, 2016 4:54:48 GMT -5
Apparently one of my teams hates their manager, and weren't comfortable sharing on my last trip. So yay for trust, but FUUUCCCKKKKKKKK..... This will be a fun rest of the week
One day a week my H handles mornings with the littles. And on that morning they are lazy, hang around in PJs and watch tv. and then he wonders why he can't them to get dressed without a tantrum and get them to school. I have told him repeatedly that a routine in the morning works wonders and they don't do that shit with me because I don't turn the tv on in the morning. I get up, get myself dressed and ready, get them dressed, go downstairs, breakfast, and out the door. He still doesn't listen. So on my one morning to "relax" before work I have to listen to screaming toddlers and end up helping H.
Am I just being a bitch? This is not even fucking worth it. I'll just handle the kids every morning.
Apparently one of my teams hates their manager, and weren't comfortable sharing on my last trip. So yay for trust, but FUUUCCCKKKKKKKK..... This will be a fun rest of the week
Wait so they told you they hate their manager? Sorry I'm confused lol. Hope the week gets better for you!!
Apparently one of my teams hates their manager, and weren't comfortable sharing on my last trip. So yay for trust, but FUUUCCCKKKKKKKK..... This will be a fun rest of the week
Wait so they told you they hate their manager? Sorry I'm confused lol. Hope the week gets better for you!!
Exactly . Their manager reports directly to me, and thinks she is crushing it ugh!
One day a week my H handles mornings with the littles. And on that morning they are lazy, hang around in PJs and watch tv. and then he wonders why he can't them to get dressed without a tantrum and get them to school. I have told him repeatedly that a routine in the morning works wonders and they don't do that shit with me because I don't turn the tv on in the morning. I get up, get myself dressed and ready, get them dressed, go downstairs, breakfast, and out the door. He still doesn't listen. So on my one morning to "relax" before work I have to listen to screaming toddlers and end up helping H.
Am I just being a bitch? This is not even fucking worth it. I'll just handle the kids every morning.
I'd stand my ground... Ear plugs? Not being a bitch at all!
One day a week my H handles mornings with the littles. And on that morning they are lazy, hang around in PJs and watch tv. and then he wonders why he can't them to get dressed without a tantrum and get them to school. I have told him repeatedly that a routine in the morning works wonders and they don't do that shit with me because I don't turn the tv on in the morning. I get up, get myself dressed and ready, get them dressed, go downstairs, breakfast, and out the door. He still doesn't listen. So on my one morning to "relax" before work I have to listen to screaming toddlers and end up helping H.
Am I just being a bitch? This is not even fucking worth it. I'll just handle the kids every morning.
I'd stand my ground... Ear plugs? Not being a bitch at all!
I sleep with ear plugs but my sons tantrum over wanting to wear his helmet woke me. So I got some coffee and thought I'd relax and watch tv before work. Nope. Then there was a tantrum because he refused to get dressed. So my H went upstairs to get himself dressed and DS threw a fit over that. Screaming ensued. So now I'm at work early. I was like "dude this is why everyone including myself is dressed and ready to go before we come downstairs and I don't turn the tv on." They don't even try turning on the tv with me. Like, he knows that routines work better than anything wth toddlers. So then I was like "I don't know why I even bother with you doing a morning when you just break my children". Lol
I slept like such crap last night, and just want a nap. I might take one after I get some of this work done. On the plus side, H has shifted his hours and used his extra time this morning to feed all the animals before I got up. Wooooo
MH is sick but wanted to sleep upstairs last night (he sleeps downstairs on the couch more often than not) but then he thrashed around and couldn't get comfortable. Thank goodness after an hour or so he went downstairs so I could sleep...I feel bad that he's sick but I need my sleep so I don't join him in sickland!
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Post by wildflower810 on May 17, 2016 7:18:59 GMT -5
*more kid talk*
@irish, I kinda feel you. H sleeps in in the morning because he works 2nd right now. So it's me and toddler solo in the am... except H kinda sorta tries to be awake. This morning I'm hangry, toddler is hangry, I haven't had a bite to eat, I'm wrestling toddler into his high chair, put food in front of him. Toddler screams and throws all his food on the floor. H, half asleep on the couch "no, {toddler}, you may not." DUDE... what is talking and saying no going to do at this point? NOTHING! I yelled at him to be quiet if he couldn't actually help.
Post by wildflower810 on May 17, 2016 7:21:59 GMT -5
WHY must H leave his dirty clothes from the day before all over the living room floor every.effing.day? I do NOT want to spend my morning tripping over dirty underwear.
WHY must H leave his dirty clothes from the day before all over the living room floor every.effing.day? I do NOT want to spend my morning tripping over dirty underwear.
Post by wildflower810 on May 17, 2016 7:27:12 GMT -5
I went without washing my hair for an extra day to try the dry shampoo that came in my Birch Box.
I'm anxiously awaiting H to be done with his shower so I can wash my hair, and wash this powdery smelly crap out of my hair. Maybe if I was in a situation where I literally could not shower, I'd use it... but it took just as much work to dry shampoo as it does to regularly shampoo, so this isn't a lazy day excuse!
I have a hard enough time getting myself out of bed, showered, dressed, and to work on time (hardly ever), sometimes I really wonder if I am ready to have a child.
I have a hard enough time getting myself out of bed, showered, dressed, and to work on time (hardly ever), sometimes I really wonder if I am ready to have a child.
Every. Day.
H, on the other hand, is a rockstar at getting up. So we'll just say that would be his job?
I have a hard enough time getting myself out of bed, showered, dressed, and to work on time (hardly ever), sometimes I really wonder if I am ready to have a child.
Every. Day.
H, on the other hand, is a rockstar at getting up. So we'll just say that would be his job?
H is worse than me in the morning. We are screwed.
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One day a week my H handles mornings with the littles. And on that morning they are lazy, hang around in PJs and watch tv. and then he wonders why he can't them to get dressed without a tantrum and get them to school. I have told him repeatedly that a routine in the morning works wonders and they don't do that shit with me because I don't turn the tv on in the morning. I get up, get myself dressed and ready, get them dressed, go downstairs, breakfast, and out the door. He still doesn't listen. So on my one morning to "relax" before work I have to listen to screaming toddlers and end up helping H.
Am I just being a bitch? This is not even fucking worth it. I'll just handle the kids every morning.
+1 to standing your ground. I feel like MH does stuff like this sometimes just so I'll help him out. He says things like "but you're better at putting away laundry!" Yeah well I put away 95% of the laundry so of course I'm "better" at it. Maybe YH's more willing to put up with the screaming/tantrums because it's only one day a week? Make him get them ready everyday for two weeks and I bet he'll figure out a different routine.
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